What will you regret after you turn 40?

It’s my 40th birthday this year

The upper limit of age, let me talk about my feelings, if I had to start over from my 20s and 30s

A few things about myself Iron rules learned from experience

1. Think carefully about what kind of life you want in the future, and then arrange your action plan and energy allocation according to the 28-20 rule. It should be noted that action planning must be based on high probability, otherwise you might as well just swim to Macau and gamble for the rest of your life.

2 Social networking is very important, but you have no value to contribute (that is, be used). Social networking is a tree without roots. It’s enough to have a few friends with similar ideas. For other things, if it is not enough compared to the above, it is enough to be more than the below.

3 Never think that you have superior intelligence, emotional intelligence, or luck. When we were young, the ideas, methods, actions, etc. that we thought were awesome may have been tried by someone before, and have even been seen through by most people in society. Cleverness leads to mistakes, many lessons learned.

4 Don’t be afraid of mistakes when you are young, don’t be afraid of failure; Don’t be too wrong when you are young, or you will lose the capital to make a comeback.

5 Real laziness is laziness of mind. The biggest difference between humans and animals is that humans have learned to make assumptions and then make deductions based on the assumptions. Therefore, humans are prepared in advance for many scenarios, while animals basically act on the spot, and everyone can see the results.

Some people say that there should be no more than 5 statements. If there are too many, you will not be able to remember them and the key points will not be highlighted, so stop there.

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