There is a saying in the countryside that "the poor should never look at their parents' homes".

It means that if a girl is married and her husband's family is not very rich, she should not go back to her family often. When you are unhappy in your husband's family, don't expect your brothers and sisters to help you. If you don't have much to do, don't even go back to your parents' house.

Once a woman gets married, she belongs to another family. If you go home once in a while, then your family is still close to you. After all, it's been a long time.

However, if your husband's life is relatively tight after you get married, then it is better for a woman not to go back to her family at this time. My daughter is always used to being close to her parents' family, so she will definitely tell them about her life in her husband's family after she goes. If their husband's family's economic conditions are not bad, they will envy you even if they are not bad for you. However, if your husband's family has poor economic conditions and your life is unsatisfactory, then relatives at home will also feel that they look down on you.

Your own mother, brothers and sisters may still feel a little sorry for you, but many girls still have brothers and sisters or sisters-in-law. If they think you have a bad life, they will look down on you and think you are too poor. Even for a long time, they are afraid of you borrowing money from them.

The phrase "poor don't look at the door" sounds unreasonable, but it is also true. When you are rich, you will find that you have relatives and friends everywhere. When you have no money, many people belittle you, even in your mother's house where you grew up.

Therefore, after a girl gets married, don't always think about counting on her family. It is the most correct way to manage her marriage and family well and let her family see her happy side.