Take the initiative to take a step forward-get out of your comfort zone and bloom a wonderful life.

Comfort zone means that people who stay in a comfortable environment for a long time will become too comfortable to think. But have you ever thought that the leisure environment brings you not only temporary happiness, but also terrible, often unexpected panic and difficulties.

I have heard such a story about the comfort zone:

An excellent professor, he brought eight graduate students that year. The next day they will go their separate ways to work. The professor invites these students to dinner, says goodbye to them, or gives them a last lesson. After dinner, they asked the professor for information. The professor didn't speak, but drew a circle on a piece of white paper: a person stood in the middle of the circle. Then, he added a house, a car and some friends to the circle. ?

The professor began to say, "This is your comfort zone. Things in this circle are important to you: your house, your family, your friends, your job. In this circle, people will feel comfortable and safe. Stay away from danger or disputes. "

"Now, who can tell me what will happen when you walk out of this circle?" At first, everyone was silent, and a classmate who took the initiative to speak broke the silence: "I will be afraid." Another thought: "there will be mistakes." Then the professor smiled and said, "When you make a mistake. What is the result? " The classmate who answered the question at the beginning replied loudly, "I will learn from it."

"Yes, you will learn from your mistakes. When you leave your comfort zone, you learn things you didn't know before, and you gain knowledge. So you have made progress. " The professor picked up the pen again and added something new to the original circle. For example, more friends, a bigger house and so on.

? "If you always wander around in your comfort zone, you will never broaden your horizons and learn new things. Only by stepping out of the comfort zone can we enlarge the circle of life and shape ourselves into a better person. "

The teacher came to our local platform to meet die-hard fan pilots and told us about the ups and downs of our state after learning NLP. What is holding back our progress? What makes us see the goal and dare not take the initiative in the face of difficulties? Even escape in the face of difficulties. After the meeting, I sat in the right position. Why do you feel like you're making up lessons for me? I shed my beak and plucked my hair, nirvana reborn, and after the teacher's medicine cured me, I also cheered up and had a direction in my heart. Every time I move towards the goal, I just miss a small step at the critical moment, and I have no courage and hard work when I practiced sports as a student! Where is my characteristic that "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers"? Standing today, looking back on the past and looking forward to the future, I finally lost my reason and courage because I stayed in a comfortable circle for a long time! Facing the journey towards the goal and the pain of breaking through the bondage zone, I have no strength and lack of confidence! This is also the reason why I copied the tutor's road and died!

Go out of school and follow the work and life track arranged by mom and dad. I am 40 years old. Before I met our team, I stayed in a comfortable ivory tower. It seems that there are some dazzling auras on the head, but they have already been labeled by others. In the eyes of many people, I am a lucky one. The road to study, work, marriage and family has been successfully completed, just like farmers planting crops. No major natural disaster can harvest them, even if they have a bumper harvest. Holding a "bumper harvest" in this sense, holding a fairly good income, being stable, content, having food and drink, being accompanied by relatives, and having an excellent son ... this is the best state of life, and we can all live this life smoothly. It is this state that makes me uneasy and upset, and pulls down my energy on the road of self-cultivation. At the same time, I am still looking for various external excuses for myself, constantly struggling with "living in the present" and "self-challenge". In the evening, the teacher's words seemed to ignite a small flame in my heart, re-examine myself and face myself squarely!

20 18 I'm almost halfway through. I hope my life is more exciting. I want to have enough conversations with my friends and future generations when I am old. Now that the goal has been set and you have made up your mind, dear yourself, don't hesitate, take the spirit of not giving up until you reach your goal, dare to go out of your comfort zone, break through yourself and pursue the hope of tomorrow. Only by breaking the cocoon can it become a butterfly and realize the transformation from the inside out.

It is quite difficult to get out of the inherent comfort zone. When I copied the course through emotional communication, I gathered my strength, summoned up my courage and made a hard step. There were voices, discomfort, opposition and support during the period, but I still didn't finish my homework within the specified time. This failed blow once made me afraid to try again, doubted that I didn't have the ability to get out of the circle, and denied the outside world and its value to me. At the same time, I also tasted the joy and harvest brought by taking the first step, so I tried to take another step like a little turtle hiding in its shell … because the immortal pursuit comes from the desire for life! I can't change the length of life, I firmly believe that I can increase the thickness of life!

"If you always wander around in your comfort zone, you will never broaden your horizons and learn new things. Only by stepping out of the comfort zone can we enlarge the circle of life and shape ourselves into a better person. " This sentence of the professor will always be my guide to life.

Now is the best time to get out of the comfort zone! Anyway, I believe in myself: take the initiative, Lang Lang Gan Kun!

Bless my lovely self: Happy holidays? (? ω`)? Happy holidays!

20 18.06. 1 ? Zhao ping

Zhao Ping's identity and mission statement:

I am a sincere, kind and caring person, and I will take "pursuing truth and loving" as my life mission to help and start the inner journey of people who are destined to know themselves and understand themselves.

Next, I will use love and bloom to appeal to those who are destined to meet our growth and life transformation together! It's getting better and better to go together