How to politely refuse others' confession

Everyone has the right to love and not to love, so when you are not uncomfortable with a suitor, it is undoubtedly a choice to reject the confession of the other party immediately. Lovers are innocent, but what is wrong is that you have not met the right person. It is a compulsory course for many people who are still in the emotional ignorance period.

I still remember when I was a teenager, there were many suitors around me, but I always felt that being immersed in love with my children was not suitable for me. The way to refuse others can be described in four words-simple and rude. As a result, I got a bad review and others didn't like to take me to play. What impressed me the most was that when a friend who hit it off with me (I have always regarded each other as my buddies) sincerely confessed to me, I was devastated by a bombardment. From then on, I was regarded as a passer-by. After many years, the other party refused to forgive me. At that time, I felt offended. Now that I think about it, my expression is really rude. No wonder I can't even be friends.

So, how to politely refuse others' confession? Based on the experience of a person who has been through it, I want to give some advice to my family. Let's look at the following aspects.

0 1 Have a correct attitude and behave like a gentleman.

If you don't like someone, don't give them any hope. If you don't stop, you will be confused. Maybe your casual action and flashing eyes will inadvertently leave room for the other person's imagination, and he (she) will infinitely enlarge this possibility and think that you are pretending to be reserved and playing hard to get. Therefore, please be a gentleman when you refuse to be confessed. No one will misunderstand a polite person, even if the ending is hasty.

Choose the handling method carefully.

In modern society, there are a lot of social software, which is really unfriendly to people who are afraid of society. If you are worried that the scene can't get out of control, it is absolutely no problem to send it back and forth through WeChat and qq. Don't entrust a third person to convey it, don't accidentally hurt others' self-esteem and keep things to a minimum. Others are proud, right?

03 sell yourself short and raise your opponent.

Rejecting others' confession is actually hurting others' self-esteem, especially for those who can't let go of their feelings. Therefore, when we refuse to be confessed by others, we have to belittle ourselves and raise each other. It is best to let the other person feel that rejection is not unacceptable, and then let go without resentment.

Choose the right time point.

To put it bluntly, everything is based on taking care of each other's feelings, reducing the dimension of attack and not directly embarrassing each other in public. However, some people like to pursue a sense of ceremony and express their feelings in public. In fact, this in itself is suspected of moral kidnapping, because he simply does not consider the position and ideas of the parties. At this time, the performance of the pursued person should be as low-key as possible, and it is impossible to leave directly and passively cooperate. Afterwards, he sincerely apologized to the other party and showed his true thoughts. I'm sure the other party will understand your pains.

The above are some general strategies for euphemistically refusing others' confession. Next, I will provide you with some euphemisms for refusing others' confession from the details:

Thank you for liking me, and I like myself very much. Friends are eternal, aren't they? I think your tenderness is more suitable for other girls. It's very kind of you, but I'm sorry I can't listen in detail. How can you talk to your children about being affectionate before you finish your studies? You already have someone you like. You deserve better. I'll introduce you to a good girl sometime. I think you are quite good, you are particularly excellent, but I don't think I deserve you. I don't deserve your love, there are better people waiting for you! Thank you for your like, but I still want to say sorry to you. I already have someone I like. Wish you a better life. In short, whether you are playing dumb or talking to yourself, as long as you express your true thoughts clearly and let the other party give up the pursuit on their own initiative, it will be OK.