Three years of love is about to get married, and my boyfriend actually broke up with me for the gift money ... what should I do? ! !

Let's see if you did something wrong. At this time, you should calm down and think about it immediately. Is there anything wrong with you or an attitude problem that makes him feel the rift and disappointment of your feelings? Maybe it's a misunderstanding.

If you can't think of asking your family or friends who are suitable to talk to you to help you analyze it, three years is not short, and you are getting married. I don't think your boyfriend should be so uncomfortable with you because of the money of the gift. It should be that you handled the problem improperly and didn't take into account each other's self-esteem or feelings.

We should cherish the happiness in front of us, and don't let it slip away like this.

At this time, it's not to say angry words or step on your own emotional scars. Every problem and contradiction doesn't happen for no reason. If your boyfriend is too stingy or it's his fault, you should at least have a serious talk with him. If he really can't understand you in this respect, refuses to make concessions for his feelings or can't accept you, then why bother? If it's not the right person, there's nothing he can do.

PS: After reading the landlord's supplement, I personally guess that your boyfriend should have misunderstood you because he thinks that your family is not considerate enough and values money too much, but he doesn't need such a person.

Because you said that he belongs to the countryside and your city, whether you care about it or not, a man is full of self-esteem, while he is in a poor condition in the countryside, and naturally he will have some inferiority complex. At this time, he must be very fragile. If he is a dutiful son again, he will definitely not want to make a showdown with his poor family in the face of the persecution of his girlfriend and family. He may think that you are forcing him, and he may be helpless in doing so, which just shows that he is not one. Instead, I saw the gap and contradiction between you. In fact, 1, or 5, is good. To be honest, you have saved enough for one or two years after you got married. Why bother to hurt your feelings? I suggest you talk to him.