How do stupid people learn to speak?

People who are stupid can learn to speak in the following ways: becoming bolder, reading more, observing the other person, learning to choose topics, not talking too much, etc.

1. Be bolder

When you become bolder, a person will have the courage to open his mouth, so you should participate in more activities in peacetime. In this way, you don’t need to be so timid when talking a lot. As you gradually get in touch with others, you can also memorize everything, and no matter what you say, you can also integrate into other people’s topics. Over time, you will become more confident.

2. Read more

People often say that books have their own golden houses. A person who cannot speak may not have that rich language. Therefore, in your free time, you can also read more books on related knowledge. If you really want to learn some knowledge from them, you will not let yourself be so monotonous when speaking. When self-cultivation improves, it will be easier to communicate with others.

3. Observe the other person

When chatting with others, many people find themselves slow. But don’t deny yourself at any time, because everyone has their own advantages. Although their reactions are a little slow, they may have more knowledge in their minds than others. Learn to observe the other person when speaking, so that you can grasp the key points more and let the other person realize that you are a very intelligent person.

4. Learn to choose topics

No matter who you are chatting with, do not praise others blindly, because that person will feel very hypocritical and will stay away over time. Therefore, during the chat process, you must be able to choose topics to make the other party interested in what you are talking about. Over time, the two of you will have similar interests and become good friends. If you can be with good people, you will definitely become very smart over time.

5. Don’t talk too much

Some people with low emotional intelligence cannot speak beyond their heads. Regardless of whether they can do it or not, they just blurt out some words and never consider the consequences after saying it. Some things are easy to say but difficult to do.

Occasionally, others will understand you once or twice, but if you often talk too much and still fail to get things done, your image in the minds of others will be greatly reduced, and others will feel Loves to brag and is untrustworthy.