The first time is far less important than the last time.

The first opportunity is far less precious than the last one; The first class is far less memorable than the last class; People who love for the first time are far less worrying than those who love for the last time.

what was the first time? It is a blank experience, but it is a mistake to think that the first time is everything.

Xiaorou's first job after graduation was as a salesman in a foreign company. She attached great importance to her first job. She worked diligently and never came late or left early. She gave everything to her colleagues, and even promised to buy coffee and deliver meals. Colleagues secretly no one really thanked her, saying that she was the company's takeaway. Xiaorou felt that her first job should be endured no matter what.

One day Xiaorou had a fever. She spread out in front of her desk, but no one cared. When it was noon, no one cared. Xiaorou cried silently on the table for a long time. She spent too much time doing chores for others, and she vowed that she would never give in again as before.

? Colleagues let the coffee they bought give way to the rice they brought, and the excle she made decisively refused. Colleagues all said that her first impression was fake, so she couldn't put it down and showed her true face.

Xiaorou is very sad. She just wants to be as good as possible for the first time, but it is endless complaints and ridicule from her colleagues. She decided to work hard and concentrate on herself.

Within a few months, Xiaorou had excellent sales and was promoted to sales manager by the leader, but those who laughed at her were still not enterprising and had mediocre performance.

the leader said to her, "I didn't expect that you just entered the company, and you are weak and weak, so you can't see such courage."

Xiaorou smiled, and her heart was full of twists and turns. Yes, just entering the company, how much she cherishes her first job opportunity and cares about her colleagues' first impression, but she ignores the most important thing in the company is the work itself and her own feelings.

Later, Xiaorou's ability has exceeded the business scope of this small foreign company. This time, Xiaorou is supercilious to her new job and her colleagues in the company. The first opportunity made her suffer from loss, and the first impression made her want to be perfect. She thought that she could only grasp this first opportunity. As a result, she knew that the first time was just the beginning.

it is better to face everything boldly and accept everything. As long as you want, the first good or bad will not determine success or failure. Success or failure is never so casual, the days are still long, and there are still opportunities. Be brave and be yourself in every time.

Lin Lin was lovelorn, and she and I tried to die. I said it's just lovelorn. People are lovelorn every day in this world.

she said, "you don't know, I'm finished. I gave it to him for the first time. He said he would marry me, but now he has left with a cruel heart. " At some point, her tears stream down uncontrollably.

"You don't know, in fact, I've always wanted to save my first time for my wedding. But I really love him. He said he would marry me. "

Looking at Lin Lin's wronged tears, she must be deeply hurt. "Lin Lin, did you love him?"

"I really love him. When we are together, I really love him wholeheartedly, and I can give my life for him. However, he actually stepped on two boats. I have been kept in the dark. I can't face my family and my friends now. I feel dirty. I feel that I have no face to live in this world. "

when Lin Lin finished this sentence, I suddenly felt very scared. As a college graduate, she has received a higher education. The idea is so foolish and pedantic that there is no respect and piety for life.

"Lin Lin, first of all, girls should respect themselves and love themselves. But the first time it's gone, it doesn't mean you're dirty! Because you love him, you think you will last forever. He lied to you. Of course, you should reflect on yourself. Next time, you should learn to see a person clearly and don't trust others. Secondly, you just don't know the difference between true love. People who love you will accept everything about you. You are a good girl. You will meet someone who is sincere to you, not just saying that he will marry you, but will really marry you. Have you ever thought about your parents? "

? "But my parents will never forgive me if they know that I am like this. I regret it now, especially. If I had insisted on refusing at that time, if ... "

" There has never been an if in this world. The first time doesn't mean everything, and you gave it seriously, out of love. Now that it has happened, you should look forward bravely. Remember, people who really love you don't always pay lip service. If he wants to marry you, he will buy a ring and kneel down on one knee. "

"If I am like this, will someone really like me and love me?"

"of course. The first time, you just don't know what sincerity is. You have to let go of the past and let yourself go. You are a good girl, and there will be someone to protect you forever. Just don't focus on how to love others and how to be loved. Love yourself, so as to achieve your final goal. Love yourself is the most important thing. You have to believe that you are the most precious. "

The tears on Lin Lin's face have dried up, and she looks so haggard. I wish she would let herself go. After all, life is better.

a year later, I received a message. I'm getting married. Thank you. I'm very happy now. He's fine.

? It's good that that silly girl finally met her happiness.

I often watch the news, because I cut my wrist once when I was lovelorn, because I collapsed and jumped off a building when I failed in an exam, and because I was devastated when I failed in starting a business. Because once, because of the first beautiful disillusionment, I gave up countless possibilities in the future and unlimited beautiful opportunities in the future.

the first time is just the beginning, and the last time is the end. The days are still long, don't give up the ending just because of the beginning, you will miss many beautiful scenery.

? May you meet the best ending at the beginning of each time. You have to believe that all endings can be better.