With less gathering and more separation, where should "weekend couples" go?

1. Can weekend couples last long?

Most of the "weekend couples" are due to work reasons. Both people have good jobs in different areas. , and there was no way to coordinate, so we could only live separately and get together again on weekends. That is due to the helplessness of life. As long as each other does not forget the original intention, it is easy to last forever!

Second, how to maintain this relationship

1. Learn to connect more in life

Just now In the years after I got married, in order to make a living, I went to work in a city dozens of kilometers away from home. Although it was not far from home, due to the nature of my work, I could not go home every day and could only choose to go home once a week. During that time, I did experience the sweetness of "a little separation is better than a new marriage". However, with the birth of the child, my wife also became busy, and within a day there will be the sweetness of "a little separation is better than a new marriage." However, with the birth of the child, My wife has also become busy, overwhelmed by the daily necessities of life. But in order to keep the love fresh, the wife has always kept in touch. My wife will call three or four times a day to report what is going on at home at any time. We have a few minutes of phone calls almost every night. This feeling sounds a bit "boring", but maybe it is just that. We maintain this high-frequency contact, which makes us feel more assured and comfortable with each other.

2. Communicate more when you encounter problems

It is true that married life is not just about sweetness. We often have troubles. Remember the time when our children were just born, maybe Taking care of the children day and night makes my wife very irritable and loses her temper when she can't think of it. Sometimes it's for the sake of the children, sometimes it's between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When this happens, I can only choose to communicate with her calmly, because more I couldn't communicate with her at that time, so I could only resolve those unpleasant things over the phone. I feel that only by truly understanding each other can we handle this imperfect life as well as possible.