How to make yourself humorous?

1, the first step of humor is to learn to laugh at yourself first. Know how to be silent, not to brag and flaunt yourself, but just to attract people with a blog. Self-mockery is to look at yourself from an ordinary, interesting and imperfect perspective, give others a chance to breathe, and let yourself fall from the unreachable throne and laugh with all beings.

2. Expand knowledge. Humor is a manifestation of wisdom, and it must be based on rich knowledge. Only when a person has the ability to assess the situation and extensive knowledge can he be rich in conversation and interested in Miao Yan, thus making an appropriate metaphor. Therefore, to cultivate a sense of humor, we should read widely, enrich ourselves, constantly collect humorous radio waves from voluminous books, and extract humorous gems from the essence of interesting stories of celebrities.

3, cultivate sentiment, optimistic reality, humor is the performance of tolerance. To be considerate of others and learn humor, we must learn to be generous, overcome haggle over every ounce, and be optimistic at the same time. Optimism and humor are close friends. If there were more fun and relaxation, more smiles and games, more optimism and humor in life, there would be no insurmountable difficulties, and there would be no people who would be sad all day.

4. It is an important aspect to improve humor to cultivate profound insight, improve the ability to observe things and cultivate the ability of wit and agility. Only by grasping the essence of things quickly and using appropriate metaphors and humorous language can people feel relaxed. Of course, at the same time of humor, we should also pay attention to the importance of not being careless, treat different problems differently, and be extremely flexible in dealing with them, so that humor can provide real nourishment for human spiritual life.

A person's interest can be divided into three types:

Funny-> humor-> funny

"Funny"-We describe a person as funny because he shows humorous words and actions, or looks funny, just funny. The more popular this behavior is, the easier it is to use, the more disregarding the image, and the more incisive it can be. However, considering that with the growth of age, it has to be disguised as an image, it usually becomes dismissive. This trait can be born, and the clever configuration of the five senses makes people laugh at the sight of you. I really don't know whether it is happy or sad to be called funny. Funny doesn't require practice or thinking. If you add dramatic and exaggerated body movements and replace "image" with "pictogram", it will definitely bring short-term happiness to people around you.

Humor-since it is subtle and witty, it is definitely not as simple as pretending to be a monkey or a dinosaur. You must start from your heart, your thoughts go faster than others, arrange incentives with clever thinking, let your audience gradually understand your dominant thoughts spontaneously, and give a knowing smile. Even if you can't tell jokes, you should know that a joke is just a good fish, but it doesn't mean you are a good fisherman. Humor is not innate, but can be cultivated. Flexibility of thinking, diversity of thinking and accumulation of jokes will help you cultivate a sense of humor more effectively.

"Humor"-Humor is elegant and thought-provoking, and exquisiteness is a temperament that emanates from the bones and is the highest realm of humor. You don't need exaggerated body language or practical jokes to convey witty words and deeds. This is the perfect crystallization of wisdom and experience. There are two aspects to what people say. If humor is not stable enough, it can be regarded as frivolous, but "humor" has no negative side. It takes years of experience and a happy and healthy attitude to achieve humorous but far-reaching results with the most witty words or skills at the most appropriate time.

Humor is an essential life skill for modern people and an important key to the survival of 2 1 century. Strangely, there is no academic institution to teach or guide such a profound course. A person without a sense of humor is like a disabled person with rigid limbs and rigid brain. The air around him has solidified. Being with him will really make you want to throw yourself into the well and get rid of this boring little life early. On the contrary, a person with a superior sense of humor is absolutely wise and experienced, bringing you a sense of surprise and joy everywhere, dissolving the embarrassment in an interesting and ingenious way, and getting out of the predicament beautifully in a reverse way.

The popularity and degree of sense of humor in China is not as good as that in western countries. It may be because we are bound by too many rules, so that "little people dare not make big mistakes" and "dare not make big mistakes" are helplessly confined to the acceptable range of the public. But now the situation is slightly better, the society is more open, the Supreme Head of State is inevitably regarded as a humorous topic, and everyone gradually liberates themselves, understands humor and enjoys humor.

As for how to cultivate a sense of humor to get better interpersonal relationships, I dare to provide my views for your reference. The easiest way is to learn from many jokes. I made a very simple arrangement and analysis here, sharing how to use these jokes flexibly in daily life and turn them into my own unique sense of humor.

There are roughly seven categories:

1) exaggerated type

A father and son are rushing down the mountain. In the middle, my father accidentally slipped and fell into the valley. The son shouted anxiously to the valley, "Dad, are you all right?" Are you hurt? Dad said, "I don't know, it hasn't landed yet!" 」

This kind of music is the most commonly used and powerful. Easy to understand, easy to use immediately, usually the more exaggerated the better. It's best to leave some imagination for the audience, and when they finally think of it, they will naturally show a knowing smile. A friend of mine has a dog at home. Before others go, they will ask if the dog will bite. He said, "No, it's just that I haven't seen my friend since he came alone last time." Only with proper exaggeration and originality can people admire your humorous skill.

2) Nausea type

Example: In winter, two beggars went out to look for food. They couldn't find it anywhere because it was cold. Suddenly, they saw a pile of vomit on the roadside. In desperation, they had to treat it as food. After a while, beggar A wanted to eat vomit, but after eating the food, he felt queasy and spit it out. Suddenly, I saw beggar B eating filth like a fly. Beggar a asked doubtfully: why did you just ask you to eat, and now you don't eat? Only beggar B replied, "Because it is cold, I prefer hot food. 』

This kind of humor must end in disgust, and the worse the better. This is why when good friends get together for dinner, they often bring up topics such as defecation, which makes the elders swear, and the ladies avoid it, but when good friends talk about it, they get out of hand. The experimental report proves that "talking about feces while eating, the more you eat, the more delicious it is", but be careful not to use it frequently, otherwise people will think that you are also a disgusting person.

3) The sounds are similar.

Example: The neighbor smiled and asked, "Where are you going, Mr. Li? 」

Mr. Li: "Oh, I'm going to Yonghe! 」

The demonstrators gathered around angrily after hearing the news!

"What? He is going to "hold the nuclear"! ? Beat him! Beat him! 」

This kind of humor is also loved by everyone, from "handsome" brother and "cricket" brother in the 1970s to "You win the most" in the 1980s. ","you are the most obscene! ",to the recent" Rain "series, all use the unique homophonic changes of Chinese to achieve the joke, which is both easy to use and interesting. Therefore, this trick is almost universally applicable to young people and the elderly in Yu Xian, and it is also an indispensable and important element in humorous literature. The next time someone says you are sexy, you can say: Yes, shy and astringent. When a friend asks you what your interests are, you can say that you are studying Galaxy and Adultery. However, it must be remembered that phonetic and semantic abnormity is time-sensitive, and usually cannot be reused and can only last for a period of time. Now if you say "Wow, you are really a handsome boy", "Haha, cricket, hahaha", I'm afraid your friend will freeze to death on the spot.

4) Unexpected type

Example: The boss called a clerk and said, "You have been working in this company for one year. At first, you were only responsible for distributing letters. A week later, you start to deal with sales. A month later, you were promoted to regional manager of the sales department. After only four months, you were promoted to vice president. Now that I'm retiring, I want you to be the new president and general manager of the company. what do you think? ! 』

The clerk said, "Thank you ..."

Boss: "Nothing else to say? 』

Shop assistant: "Thank you ... Dad ..."

This move must first master the psychology of the audience and achieve unexpected results, which is a higher level of humor. Because the speaker must have some common sense, and the listener must have basic logic to succeed, the audience will laugh, because he fell into your ideological trap, laughed at unexpected results, laughed at surprises and laughed at your boring behavior. When I go to a restaurant to eat, I always ask the waiter what's delicious. "Our most famous filet mignon in new york is delicious and juicy. Now it only sells in 680 yuan. Do you want to give it a try? " I said, "ok, give me a pork chop rice without onions." Unfortunately, this trick has been abused so much that some of my friends have seen it. Looks like I have to think of something new.

5) meaningless type

Tom: "Here is twenty yuan. Please give me a piece of bread. 』

Shopkeeper: "The price of bread has gone up. Thirty yuan a piece. 』

Tom: "When did it go up? 』

Owner: "This morning. 』

Tom: "Oh, please give me yesterday's bread. 』

This new style made Stephen Chow popular and was regarded as an alternative way of humor. The characteristics and inexplicable logic of not playing cards according to the rules are puzzling. You are talking about the East, he is thinking about the West, and he is amused by its unusual thinking. Some are unintentional, and some are intentional. It may be just a sudden epiphany, or it may be the noble wisdom carefully planned and used at the moment, so you can also call it "unable to clearly classify."

6) The comparison type is not established.

Example: the final exam of biology department in a school. The old professor was carrying a birdcage covered with black cloth, showing only his legs. The topic of the test is: write down the species of this bird from the observed bird legs.

A student worked hard for several weeks, but got nothing, so he got such a question. He won't ... if he is angry, just strike the table and hand in a blank sheet of paper in advance without writing his name! !

The old professor was so angry that he asked the students to leave his name.

The student only pulled up his trouser legs, revealing his furry legs, and said to the old professor, "Guess who I am? 』

This move contains the widest scope and the most conditions. In fact, it uses the "substitution method" in logic and assumes a logically untenable comparison. Sounds profound? Let me give you an example: there is often such a situation in variety shows. Bo Jun smiles and assumes the dialogue is as follows:

Guest girl: "I sing like Faye Wong, don't I? 』

Kangkang: "If you were Faye Wong, you would like me. 』

Guest girl: "Why? 』

Kangkang: "Because I am Nicholas Tse! 』

Yes, "hypothesis" actually plays a very important role in humor. If combined with flexible logic application, we can create a unique humorous style.

7) Arctic snow, Antarctic ice, cold weather and frozen soil types

One day, a mung bean jumped from a place 20 stories high.

As a result ... he became a red bean ...

Because he's bleeding

"cold! It's your first feeling after listening. This kind of humor belongs to the genius idiot type, and you can't help but worry about which side the speaker is on. You'd better wear more clothes when going out with such people, because you should always be on guard against the cold current. Please trouble these snowmen. Can you always pay attention to the low pressure around you and see if your friend is spitting white smoke, and his body is shaking worse than the moment you urinate? If so, please shut up and stop torturing us.

Of course, jokes also include many types, such as "political satire" and "local conditions and customs", but because these are difficult to play in daily life, they are omitted here. I hope you can get some inspiration here, and then use your wisdom and experience to integrate your personality background, shape your personal humorous style, or explore innovative humorous ways.

Humor makes children happy, old people restore childlike innocence, men are tempted, women fall in love until they die, enemies lose their vigilance, friends become more loyal, Yan Luowang loses patience, and immortals become mortals.

Wow, shit! It's amazing!

Practice more, and you must dare to speak. I hope you can make progress.

The most important thing is to improvise and keep a bright mind.

Apply common jokes to life.

You don't have to read jokes, you can also read some comedy or humorous books, and you can often be with humorous friends. Look for themes from it, and it is possible that themes will be applied to life. Apply those themes and make yourself look like the protagonist in a joke or comedy.

Humor is good, but there are three taboos!

1, don't treat others as jokes, and don't always treat others as humor.

2. Humor is the best; Don't always be funny. Point-to-Point

Humor enough, people will think you are a master of humor.

If you continue to be funny, people will only think you are a clown. I won't treat you as a master of humor!

Having a sense of humor may not be important in China, but it is highly appreciated in western society, because it not only shows the agreeableness of the praised person and brings vitality to the serious and stagnant atmosphere, but also shows a high degree of wisdom, self-confidence and adaptability to the environment.

A sense of humor, like a spark from a stone, is a momentary thought. Therefore, flashing humorous sentences requires a high degree of responsiveness and wit. That kind of language may resolve embarrassing scenes, may also play a warning role in talking and laughing, and is more likely to be used as explicit self-defense and counterattack.

For example, in parliament, an old congressman beat people with a cane. It is suggested that people who enter the meeting place hang crutches at the door. At this time, if the speaker accepts it and resorts to voting, it will always be unpleasant. Fortunately, he used his quick wits and said with a smile, "If you want to prevent improper actions, you need to hang crutches at the door of the forum and put your mouth in the storage room", which caused the audience to laugh, and the proposer also solved the embarrassing scene with a smile.

However, I must emphasize that humor is not irony, it may be slightly ironic, but it does not hurt people; He may be aiming at others or himself. Among them, it also shows humor and the self-confidence of humorists.

I once saw a bald man, who was humorous, and he changed his face on the spot. On the contrary, I met a bald newspaper editor. When others laughed and said that he was extremely smart, he actually smiled and replied: "You underestimate me, I am already extremely smart!" " "Do you think about it, if it weren't for his considerable self-confidence, how could he make do with listening to others and keep silent?

Therefore, the more open and affluent the society is, the more humorous people are; The more closed the environment, the more difficult it is to let humor exist. The reason why it doesn't exist is not that people don't have this wisdom, but that people don't have this mind; Not because people have strong self-esteem, but because of inferiority. The most important condition for a humorist is a perfect and sound personality.

198 1 On March 30th, 2008, President Reagan was assassinated and White House press secretary james brady was seriously injured. The bullet shot from his forehead, and he fell to the ground with blood all over his face. At that time, many news organizations reported the news of his death, because no one believed that people with brain injuries could still live. However, in June 1987 1 1, James not only gradually overcame the mobility inconvenience caused by half a brain injury, but also rode out with his wife, and he was as humorous as ever. During the interview, what impressed me the most was that he said, "The sense of humor kept me going. Bad luck will hit me, but it won't reach the depth of humor! "

Say, what sense of humor is this? It is an optimistic attitude towards different environments!

Well, a sense of humor is so important, let's talk about how to cultivate our sense of humor.

During the examination in a school, the teacher said to the students when invigilating: "Today's exam, we ask the students to' guarantee the production to the household' and don't take the road of' bringing prosperity'." The teacher's words caused the students to smile, knowing that the teacher said that it was not allowed to provide convenience for each other and they had to answer the questions themselves. But the beauty of the teacher's sentence is that he didn't speak out the discipline of the examination room, but replaced it with two professional words in the rural reform: "household production quota" instead of "writing your own papers" and "mutual assistance and common prosperity" instead of "mutual assistance and common prosperity", because the two clever metaphors of "household production quota" and "rich * * *" are out of step with the tense and serious atmosphere in the examination room, forming a strong sense. This humorous method of not directly expressing something or saying something or someone's name, but replacing it with other related words and names, is called "Zhang Guan Dai Li", which is basically the same as metonymy (or renaming) in rhetoric.

The first step of humor is to learn to laugh at yourself first. Know how to be silent, not to brag and flaunt yourself, but just to attract people with a blog. Self-mockery is to look at yourself from an ordinary, interesting and imperfect perspective, give others a chance to breathe, and let yourself fall from the unreachable throne and laugh with all beings.

Think about it, what kind of people have fascinating magic, yes, it is humor. We may like listening to the teacher's class, or we may find the teacher's class boring. If we remove the difference between the two, we may be able to separate an element called humor. Humor makes people smile. That's what makes people laugh. A person has such magical power that when he speaks, he can get the public smile, which is a wonderful thing.

No one can measure the power of making people laugh. However, no one can deny that in a hard life, everyone likes to be close to people who make people laugh. They helped us unload the burden on our shoulders and the worries in our hearts, in exchange for a moment of relaxation.

If you want to create a personal charm, then whether you are a man or a woman, whether you are old or young, whether you are beautiful or ugly, whether you are smart or stupid, there is only one secret that can't go wrong, and that is humor. On the surface, humor seems to be just telling jokes. You might as well recite a few jokes and find a crowded place to tell them. It doesn't seem to work, does it Humor can be a charm, not just telling jokes.

In fact, humor is an attitude towards life, and its preconditions are: a person should be able to fully accept himself and others; Being able to understand the heaviness and seriousness of life, and then look at it easily, the most important thing is kindness, besides smart cold eyes, there is warmth and enthusiasm.

It is unwise to always hurt others, embarrass them and make everyone laugh. You think you are smart like that, but in fact you just can't give each other a step and lower your image. So people who really know humor laugh at themselves, not at others.

Premier Zhu Rongji laughed at himself in his speeches or conversations, and his sense of humor often caused vivid and shocking laughter.

At the press conference after the closing of the First Session of the Ninth National People's Congress 1998, Premier Zhu said in the flash of lightning: "I am not good-looking, but I hope you can take a good look at me, because my image represents the government."

Humor is a clever language, which makes people have a pleasant psychological experience.

How humorous?

1, set down: When the things listed in the set down part gradually strengthen the listener's impression, they suddenly "fall down". So that the listener's expectant heart suddenly slipped to the unexpected, and laughter was born.

You should pay attention-a group of people are asking about you, saying that they will arrest you and will never spare you. One is wealth, the other is success, the other is health, and the first is happiness.

2. Ambiguity: separate a sentence with coherent meaning, say half first, pause, suggesting that the semantic development in a certain direction makes the audience misunderstand, and then say the second half of the sentence, causing an epiphany.

3. misinterpretation: it is a distorted and absurd explanation. It doesn't find the right reason, it finds the right reason, it creates specious reasons, and even the donkey's head is not right, so that it can enjoy humor with the other party.

4, long-winded: deliberately short story, express a simple and clear fact. Have you seen Wang Ping? Go to the men's room next door.

5. Devaluation: Deliberately using some important and solemn words or technical terms to say some minor and minor things.

6. Contrast: Use the contrast of discordant things to construct humor.

7. Inversion: Reversing the normal relationship or word order of things, thus forming a funny effect.

8. Pun: Use the polysemy and homophony of language to express two different meanings at the same time, so that the other party can show a knowing smile in understanding.

9. No explanation: Give the word another explanation. Make it deviate from the conventional meaning and deliberately look at the meaning of words or words.

What is the concern of humor?

1, pay attention to the opportunity, occasion and object.

2. Pay attention to style. Generally, it should be elegant and not vulgar.