Break with parents-in-law

Friend, if your parents-in-law don't take your feelings seriously, it's no use paying again. Besides, your wife and younger brothers and sisters can support the elderly. In this respect, it seems that you are redundant. I suggest you give up trying to influence them. You can tell them that if the old man is ill, you will pay them. Everything is also based on money, and your sister-in-law and brother-in-law are all born. Try not to go to your parents' house, except holidays, and try to keep it short. There is no need to let yourself, your wife and children be wronged because of family reasons.