How to treat the behavior of sending friends from time to time when chatting?

These two days have been idle to see some people's space. Because I usually set up shielding dynamics for most people, this time it suddenly rose and turned over the space of many people.

There are junior high school students who haven't been in contact for a long time, seniors and sisters who the student union knows, and relatives and friends. But I found a similarity. Most people often update their stories and friends. The frequency is about once a day, or even many times a day, and the content is varied, such as drying food, showing love, chicken soup for the soul, spitting and so on. Each paragraph is a series of comments and replies, even if you don't usually contact unfamiliar people, you will make fun of a few words. Look at my own space, there is almost no dynamic, about one or two posts a year. I don't understand this phenomenon. Is it because everyone's personality and expressive ability are different, their lifestyles are different and their ideas are different, or is it because my thoughts are too rigid, out of touch with society and I don't know how to communicate with others?

So I started asking for posts in Baidu, and I found the answer I wanted. To sum up, it is the following:

Three laws of psychology:

A person's inner strength is inversely proportional to the dynamic update frequency of his Weibo, WeChat circle of friends and QQ space.

A person's narcissism is directly proportional to the dynamic update frequency of his Weibo, WeChat circle of friends and QQ space.

A person's loneliness is directly proportional to the dynamic update frequency of his Weibo, WeChat circle of friends and QQ space.

1. Immature. There can be updates, but in moderation, it can be used as a way to record life, but too often, it shows that this person is psychologically immature.

2. Too idle. A person always spends his time updating the dynamics every day and saying something irrelevant, which shows that this person is very idle. Really excellent people are busy, busy reading, busy working, busy improving themselves and enriching themselves, instead of thinking about updating and making friends every day.

3. Many new friends can chat in the comment area. Someone updated the dynamics and sent a circle of friends to brush the sense of existence. Let friends comment by posting comments, so as to improve their recognition and their recognition in the hearts of friends. In fact, a really good person will get close to him by many people.

A person's living standard can't be seen from his dynamics and circle of friends. People who have a good life often don't just update their dynamics and make friends.

Some people are hurt and in a bad mood. Some friends will comment to comfort them, and some people simply ignore them, because your pain is not on them, they don't feel it, or even care, because they think your relationship is not worth wasting his time. People who really care about themselves are often only family members and true friends. Only they will call and send messages to ask you and care about you. So some people say it's for comfort, but it's useless in many cases.

This is what I found and summarized about how to treat the behavior of updating trends and making friends from time to time, which is just my personal opinion.