From "Take your time, it's not too late"

If you really don't find what you like, please don't miss any chance to try. You can accept all kinds of challenges and try all kinds of things. Don't take yourself too seriously, lose false self-esteem, don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself, and don't be afraid of failure. You should even allow yourself to fail often, give yourself the experience to face failure and give yourself the courage to start over. All you have to do is try actively until you find your true love. Give yourself time, take your time, give yourself courage to face failure and persistent enthusiasm for your dreams, because the hardest thing is not to face failure, but to remain enthusiastic in the face of repeated failures.

Life is never planned, but comes out step by step. Find something you like and do a little every day. After a long time, you will see your growth.

Girl, you have to believe that in this society where you won't starve to death as long as you are willing to work hard, only by yourself can you have love and bread. Even if you can't afford Paul's most expensive bread, you can still afford 85℃ bread.

An elderly elder told me that if there is an opportunity, it is not too late for young people to study abroad at the age of 30. The important thing is to experience life, experience life. I agree with him very much, but in reality, I have also heard many people say that it is too unreliable for you to study abroad when you are 30 years old. When you finish your studies, how old will you be, and the age of getting married, having children and looking for a job will be delayed accordingly, so your life will be miserable. ...

Why is your mind so rigid? What binds your mind and your life? In this era of information flooding and new Weibo every second, independent thinking is more important than anything else.

A truly powerful person is one who can transform into a person who is only responsible for his own voice during the journey of life.

The real sense of security does not come from the external material endowment, but from the inner peace and enrichment, from the confidence and certainty of life.

You should eat your meals one by one and walk step by step.

Because of experience, I know What to do and what road to take should be explored and explored step by step according to the inner voice. Fall and get up again; Hit your head and fall back; If you go wrong, come back; Walk too fast, just slow down; Get lost, stop and think, and then keep walking. What you have to do is not to limit your life, listen to your inner voice, follow your inner wishes and take your time, so that everything will be timely.

If you find your own direction and work hard, but you don't get what you want, it's just that you don't have enough time, effort and growth. The slogan of a watch is: Only time can understand love. I think this is a philosophical advertisement. what is love ? Love is a long process, not just the passion at the moment when I tell you I love you, but countless days when there is nothing to eat.

Without the accumulation of time, the increase of efforts and the increase of quantitative change, I can't see my own growth.

Dreams are not just words.

First of all, learn to think independently, and take a moment to think about what you like and what your inner dream is. People always think that time and reality prevent them from realizing their dreams. In fact, it is basically a problem that they have no mobility.

There are some things that you don't do now and you won't do in the future. "

Many people say that reality binds us. In fact, in this world, we always have many choices, and the decision-making power in life has always been in our own hands, but we lack action.

Romain rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism, and that is to love life after recognizing the truth of life." But the hardest thing to do in this world is to "love life".

The so-called success is to live according to the lifestyle you want. The worst state is that when you want to choose a road that is unwilling to be mediocre, change, forge ahead and struggle, you are content to live as it is, and finally complain that you have not got the life you want!

People should choose a lifestyle and have the courage to stick to it.

Not a step is wasted. Work hard today and you will get something in the future. We often feel that giving is out of proportion to getting, because we forget this: giving itself is a kind of getting. The experience of "paying for one thing" is itself a kind of harvest and a meaning of life.

In fact, it is really easy to make yourself healthy if you don't' stick to' what you really like. Keep running and you won't get old. Running can enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way and enjoy the pleasure of sports. Life is a marathon. Whoever is healthy can run longer! "

Find the people you really like, and stay with them, you don't need to persist very hard, you work too hard, just because you are happy, happy and full together. The longer we spend together, the more mellow love is like wine.

When you have a big goal, it is better to break it down into countless small goals. When these small goals are achieved, your big goals will be achieved.

As long as we think that one thing can kill two birds with one stone or kill three birds with one stone, we are more likely to feel "earned" and will continue because of our lust. "

When you do something, strengthen its positive significance and find more other purposes for it, which will not only make you finish it happily, but also make your life positive, efficient and full of positive energy.

In running, no step is wasted, and so is life. As long as you live with your heart, no day is wasted, and you will always gain something. Every step you take is to reach a better future.

Pay attention to the process, be willing to accept changes and challenges, be not afraid of failure, be optimistic, and face failure more easily and positively. I think at least I can gain an experience.

A person's knowledge of failure determines his courage to act. Whether in doing things or in love, if a person can only see failure from failure, get no experience and lessons, and see no positive inspiration, I think he will always fail. No, maybe he will only fail once, or even have the courage to try again.

Many people will complain about the obstacles of the environment, lament the shortness of life and regret all kinds of mistakes in the past, but these are unwise. Only by living today in a down-to-earth manner can we meet a better tomorrow.

I know how to accept all the hardships that life has given me, admit my vulnerability and ignorance, know that it is useless to be so distressed, and then start to really face the pain and calm down and think about how to solve the problem.

The road ahead is full of thorns, face it optimistically and press ahead.

If we are in love, we give ourselves and each other the right to choose freely every day; We don't ask each other to love us forever; Don't ask the other person to be kind to us until all his teeth fall out; Will we be happier? Will there be fewer contradictions between us? Will we enjoy our present love better?

I think as long as I worked hard at the moment of love, I will remember it with or without it. Even if you lose it, you don't have to blame yourself, let alone hold a grudge. The so-called past is happiness. I can't have you, but I remember your fleeting time. It is what a person really owns, and it makes me rich. This is not the self-comfort of the loser in love, nor the expression of cowardice, but a kind of tolerance and gentle acceptance of the other person who really loves himself and is truly loved by himself.

Enjoy the beauty of the present love, live in the present with your heart, cherish the immediate happiness, don't be too demanding for a long time, and admit that love is not eternal. If one day you reach eternity, this is the greatest gift from God. This is not "if you have wine today, you will get drunk tomorrow, but the golden cup will not pour the bright moon"! And your emotional indulgence and irresponsibility. Nor is it the kind of pretentious free and easy "only care about what you once had, but don't care about eternity", but a kind of wisdom and more.

Liang Wendao once said: "In love, what we should learn is how to enjoy harmony with all conditions under uncertain circumstances." Just like sailing, navigators don't like unchanging voyage and perfect weather forecast. What he likes is to feel the change of flow direction at sea and coordinate according to his mind before reaching his destination.

Stop complaining and take responsibility for your life. If you don't like something, change it; If you can't change, change your attitude. Don't complain

The most important thing in life is to pay attention to what we want, not what we don't want.

If you can't solve the problem, it becomes a problem.

There are no unchangeable people, things and things in the world, and no one can escape change and want to be eternal. This is a futile illusion. Only when we truly realize this, can we accept the change, welcome it and move with it, and live a happier life. Avoiding change will only make things worse and worse, and life will get worse and worse. On the other hand, it must be said that what is more disturbing than change should be constancy, and what is more frightening than the unknown is foreknowledge. Imagine that if your life is the same in 20 years, it will make people feel fear and despair. What's the point of this repetitive life? Although many people can predict the future by reading palms and looking up constellations, if you really ask him, would you like to predict what your life will be like in ten years? I believe many people don't want to know, at least I did.

Practice makes perfect, but surprises are not always the case. Accumulate over time, it is stupid, but it is also the smartest. As long as you have the heart and are willing to spend energy and time accumulating strength, after repeated practice and continuous efforts, you will certainly be able to master any skill. A person's mastery of a skill is directly proportional to his efforts and critical thinking ability.

People are becoming more and more interested because they are doing something better and better, not just because they are interested in something. Read more and write more, you will get a sense of accomplishment because of the improvement of reading and writing ability, and promote you to continue reading and writing more. Make good use of pygmalion effect, interest and action will form a virtuous circle.

Don't sacrifice too much if you love yourself. Excessive sacrifice is a big killer in marriage and love relationship. Many women mistakenly believe that when they pay more efforts and self to this family and this man, they will get more love from each other. But we found, in fact, the opposite. The more a woman loves herself (of course, loving herself here is not selfish, but refers to a woman who lives for herself), the easier it is to have a partner who loves herself more, and the happier her married life is.