Be alert! Are you taking it out on your children?

Are you taking it out on your children?

1. Why do you get angry when you ask your child to wash his hands five or six times and he doesn't go?

2. Why did you let the child get up and watch the time pass, and your temper broke out before he got up?

Reason 1:

You think it's easy for children to wash their hands and get up. If you can't control such a simple thing, you will feel even more powerless in the face of a series of problems such as your body is out of shape, your husband spends less time with you, and more family chores.

When children are vulnerable groups, they will naturally become your punching bag.

Reason two:

You broke out because your child didn't wash his hands and get up. The deeper reason is that the incident itself has awakened you to more powerlessness, anxiety and all kinds of bad experiences in your married life. Too many things make you unhappy and out of your control, so a little disappointment makes you explode.

So:

Mothers, learn to let go of yourself and relax yourself. A relaxed person can have greater endurance and a stronger heart. Learn to relax, take a deep breath, have a cup of tea and be in a daze. These are all physical methods, which can make us stop haggling over children's behavior.

Do you have any other reasons? You can share it!