Does every woman who takes care of children have a bad temper?

No. It depends on each person's mentality, temper and character.

My daughter is now over nine months old and I am raising her alone. Even if my daughter doesn’t want to lie down and cries incessantly every time I change her diaper, or she wakes up three or four times a night, or stays up in the middle of the night and stays high, I won’t be angry. Even if sometimes I am very angry with my daughter, I will keep repeating in my mind what my father said to me: Be patient with your children, be patient with your children. After being silent for a few minutes, his temper subsided.

And I found that since I gave birth to a child and raised the child alone, my temper has become much gentler. [Jesus] Before giving birth, I was always angry and lost my temper. After giving birth to a baby, I have become much softer~

Yes, I think I feel the most. After giving birth to a baby, I have never had a peaceful sleep. I have to get up at least two or three times in the middle of the night every day. No, I can’t sleep during the day and have a lot of housework to do. Some people say that when the child goes to sleep during the day, just sleep with the child. Really, most of the people who can say this are people who have never taken care of children themselves, because when the child is not sleeping, you have to watch the child. There is basically nothing you can do to look after the child. When the child falls asleep, you have to wash the child's clothes, sweep and mop the floor, and cook. At the end of the day, you will be so busy that you are dizzy. It's good to meet the child. It's okay to bring it, the child will cry, and it will coax you to doubt your life, and cry with the child. Do you think the temper can be improved?

I think so, because I take care of the children by myself. The eldest child is 9 years old and the second child is 2 years old. They usually take care of the children by themselves. The eldest child does not like to study and must be supervised. When the second child is busy and clingy, he just needs to accompany the older brother to do his homework. The two children often fight, shout, and cry. It's so annoying, especially when I am catching up at the wrong time. I really want to find a chance to meet him. Get in there. People who have never seen children will never understand it.

Probably not, but looking after children can easily make people lose their temper, especially when one person is mainly responsible for looking after the children, others do not help, and the family members do not care.

Taking care of children is very tiring, much more tiring than working. You have no private time 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, as if your freedom has been taken away, and the children will definitely cry. Sometimes, the parent taking care of the child will easily lose his temper if he cannot get care and relieve his stress.

Therefore, taking care of the children at home cannot be left to the mother. The father must also assume the responsibility of taking care of the children.

It should be everyone who takes care of children. It has nothing to do with men and women.

In fact, when it comes to having a bad temper, there are many factors related to it.

The family of origin, the surrounding environment, and the mood of the day are all related.

Putting aside these, I think the most important thing is personal sense of accomplishment and satisfaction with one's own life.

No matter how trivial it is to raise a child, if the people around you praise you when you meet, they will praise you for raising your child well. Your child will not get sick, he will be smart, and he will even be taller than other children! Then you agree with it yourself and feel that this is your contribution and the reward of your efforts. Then, I think you have a sense of accomplishment. Your temper will be relatively smaller.

No matter how naughty your child is, even if you spill beans, space sand or even cooking oil all over the floor, if you happen to be in a good mood that day, it’s because you won 5 million in the lottery. Then I guess you can't lose your temper.

Children who are weak, naughty and ignorant often make us angry and annoyed. How many mistakes can they actually make? Often we are just paying for our emotions. But who stipulates that those who take care of children cannot have their own emotions? Who said those with children shouldn’t lose their temper?

The children always think that their mother has no temper, which is not true! I always say this to comfort myself, but I still try to control my temper and remember to hug my child after losing my temper.

Of course not, today’s society has really high demands on women. We can be daughters-in-law, wives, mothers, daughters, everything is required