When we are not at home, my mother-in-law always comes in and cleans. How could she not come?

? Tell me about this problem. Can't someone clean it up for you? The old man is kind, so why did you refuse? If it were me, I would welcome it. If you don't want your mother-in-law to tidy up your bedroom, you can ask your husband to tell his mother, because most old people are wise, and her son won't let her tidy up your bedroom, so naturally she will understand that your things may be misplaced in your bedroom, or she just wants to tidy up by herself, afraid that she can't find it after helping to clean up, but it is recommended not to conflict because of this matter. If there is a conflict, it must be your fault, because of this matter. The old man means well, but that's not the reason why you don't want to. Really, believe me, because I am married, which will indirectly cause conflicts between you and your husband.

? Otherwise, you can clean up by yourself and let your husband say to your mother-in-law, "Mom, we clean the house every day. You don't have to clean every day. It is very hard. You are so old, you have to enjoy yourself. Don't always worry about us. If we can, we will do it ourselves. " In this way, even if the old man knows that he doesn't want to clean the room, he is somewhat relieved.

? If your mother-in-law insists on cleaning up no matter what your husband says, let her clean up. In fact, the mentality of the elderly is that they don't trust their children and always treat you and your husband as children. "Poor wind." For example, I have a friend whose sister-in-law just doesn't get along with her mother, and her mother helps to clean up, but her brother and daughter-in-law have a strong personality and just don't want the old man to help her clean up. She always loses her temper for no reason, and finally makes the old man cry. In fact, there are many ways to solve family conflicts. What a daughter-in-law should never do is contradict the old man, because you will be labeled as "unfilial", not to mention the old man is kind.

Life is like this, we can't all be so happy. Sometimes, with different starting points, old people think that what they are doing is right and good, but they will be interrupted by young people, especially their mother-in-law. Really, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too subtle. It is best not far away. If it is too close, there will be contradictions, and it will not work if it is too far away. Therefore, getting along well is the last word. For this matter, help them clean up and help them. The biggest headache for men is to make "double-sided adhesive". On one side is their mother, and on the other side is their daughter-in-law. Their palms are covered with meat. No one can offend them. So, woman, if you are smart enough, don't embarrass your husband. If you really don't want to, just say to your mother-in-law, "Mom, you really don't have to clean up. I have to clean every day. Otherwise,