How important is speaking?

Each of us came into this world alone. With so many people in the world, it would be a great relief if there were one or two people around to talk to.

Especially to be able to chat with your partner is a very happy thing. They came home from work and were bored on the sofa. No matter what topic you talk about, he can answer the phone and occasionally tell a little humor to make you giggle.

Two people say a word, and time passes before you know it. You just found that you haven't had time to watch the idol drama, and today's hot news hasn't been brushed. So I took a shower in a hurry, got into bed and took out my mobile phone to make fun of it.

But here he comes again, slapping you in the face, telling some stories on the way home from work, and seeing a new beige coat hanging in the fashion cabinet, the model looks good in it. If you put it on, it will definitely look better. I can't help but pick up the topic and talk endlessly.

The feelings we can talk about can only be profound and lasting if we stay on the same channel. Even talking about family and gossip, as long as two people are happy, everything is interesting. If you have the same topic, you can speak freely. Happy chatting is to decompress life and bring insights and gains.

I have a colleague who found a boyfriend a few years younger than her, which is the so-called brother-sister relationship. At first, they were bored with each other all day. But the good times didn't last long, and problems followed, and there were fewer and fewer topics to talk about, so we couldn't talk together. The beautiful sister wants to gossip about beautiful women, but the younger brother only cares about whether the free and unfettered music has been upgraded, and why his teammates are stupid pigs and so on.

They go out to play together and have no hobbies. My sister likes playing with water, and my brother likes skydiving. Every time I go out to play, I don't have fun. My sister finally felt that the two people were not from the same world, and the feelings of lovers were very tired, so she proposed to break up.

In fact, the feelings that can be confided are really good feelings, and you have the desire to be with each other. There is nothing to say about how to build deep feelings. Originally, two people were together to get rid of loneliness, but they never wanted to be more lonely together.

Contact between people is to get to know each other through communication, so chatting is one of the correct ways to open feelings.

I have a girlfriend who is not very talkative. She concluded: The best feeling is that you can speak and he can understand everything you say. She has changed a lot since she fell in love, and every party has become lively. Her topics are many and interesting.

The most important thing for two people together is that there are always endless topics together. Talking to two people is the best moisturizer in life. If there are few topics between couples, it will be really embarrassing and depressing if the other half doesn't pick up your next sentence after saying the last sentence. It's hard to go far without two people on the same topic. In the repressed silence, they will go further and further until things are separated.

Both boys and girls, when looking for a partner, hope that the other party can chat with themselves, so as to enhance their feelings and increase their fun. Instead of two people together, they often bow their heads and play with their mobile phones. Originally, we were all lonely, because we were always accompanied by mobile phones. With the other half, we all wanted to chat more, talk to each other and find a spiritual sustenance in the conversation.

In the Internet age, young people nowadays have less and less social interaction and few intimate friends. Most of them can only talk to the cold network in their spare time, with no purpose, and all their joys and sorrows follow them. Then gradually become withdrawn, it is difficult to integrate into the crowd and find their own position. I can only wander alone in the empty network world.

A young man with self-knowledge should know how to get along well with others. Is to be able to chat with you, eloquence, we accept, so that in society, there will be more opportunities. Cultivating one's ability to communicate with others and being able to speak well is the embodiment of one's social accomplishment.

No matter at work or in life, you need to have a topic to talk with your customers or partners, so as to narrow your distance, make the transaction easier and make the relationship last longer.

If you have nothing to say on important occasions and don't know how to catch what others say, who will remember you and want to talk business with you? You have to find a topic that everyone is interested in, open the curtain and let everyone present have an atmosphere. Only when there is atmosphere can there be communication, and only when there is communication can there be further trust and contact.

Life has been hard. I hope everyone has a few friends to talk to.