Two women and one son are unfilial, and the old man pretends to be ill and lies. Dear friends, what do you think of this matter?

China's ancient enlightenment book "Zengguang Xianwen" said: "One hundred generations come to cross the boat, and a thousand generations come to sleep."

These two famous sayings were adapted into "Ten years through thick and thin, a hundred years into a pillow sleep" by The Legend of the White Snake, and gradually spread to the world. Needless to say, the general meaning shows that the feelings between husband and wife are still very precious. Especially for those elderly couples, they have experienced the baptism of time and the running-in of feelings, and the true feelings between them can be said to have sublimated from romantic love to deep affection.

However, there is no indestructible marriage in this world. Even couples who have a good relationship will have an interest center. Once the balance of interests is unbalanced, the relationship between husband and wife will collapse.

What we are going to talk about today is the "elderly marriage" that has gone through decades. Ms. Jane, 58, wrote and confided, and lived with her husband for decades. Her family life has always been very happy, but a recent incident brought their marriage to an end.

Ms. Jane's husband is surnamed Zhang. Mr. Zhang had a divorce experience. He has a daughter with his ex-wife. In recent years, my daughter has rarely contacted her father, Mr. Zhang, and because her parents' marriage failed, her daughter has not been married for many years. Mr. Zhang and his current wife, Ms. Jane, have no biological children. When two people live together, Ms. Jane takes a son and a daughter with her. Although Mr. Zhang is a stepfather, the fact that he is not related to his children has long been ignored by the favor of more than ten years.

Heaven has eyes, and Ms. Jane's children are very competitive, one in politics and the other in business. You know, Ms. Jane married her husband, Mr. Zhang, and the family really reached the point where it was impossible to open the pot. Now that the good times have come, parents certainly know how to cherish them. But, after all, he is not a real father. When Mr. Zhang enjoys the filial piety of one son and one daughter in his family, he relies on their faces. Sometimes when parents quarrel, Ms. Jane's children must be towards her, but they don't give Mr. Zhang a good face. Think about your own daughter. Although you can't contact her several times a year, every word she says is sincere.

Old age, for the elderly, birthday is actually a lively picture, and the vicissitudes of time can't stand loneliness. When Mr. Zhang was 62 years old a few days ago, no one in the family remembered. It was not until after 1 1 in the evening that Mr. Zhang cooked himself a bowl of longevity noodles. Ms. Jane asked strangely after seeing it.

"Old man, what are you doing cooking noodles in the middle of the night? Not full? "

Mr. Zhang sighed unhappily: "I've been with you for decades, and you forget my birthday every year, not once, not to mention one son and one daughter, none of whom is filial." This day is getting more and more chilling. "

"Is it not a birthday? What's the big deal? Son and prostitute eat and drink as much as you do. Why do you say that? " Ms. Jane reacted strongly.

In other words, these words inspired Mr. Zhang An. How sad should an elder be if he doesn't get the attention of his younger generation? He thought of a way, that is, pretending to be sick. He sent text messages to two women and a son pretending to be critically ill, and the effect was very good. The children got home before and after.

It is natural that his father is ill. As a child, the first thing to do is to ask about his illness, and the first thing for Ms. Jane's son and daughter is to ask about paying for treatment. Only his own daughter has been asking about her illness and asking her father for medical records. Of course, Ms. Jane knows her husband's intention, not just to have fun and let the children get together at home, but enough is enough. Until lunch, my daughter was still asking about her father's illness. Ms. Jane really couldn't stand it.

"Girl, your dad is ok, this home is not with me? Don't worry. " Ms. Jane answered calmly.

After all, they are all adults, and no one will make fun of their own lives. In addition, Mr. Zhang's mental state is really not very good recently, and his daughter is crying. In desperation, she said these words cruelly.

"Dad, are you worried about money? I don't want your dowry money, okay? I don't want a penny, you go to the hospital right away. "

As soon as her daughter's words came out, Ms. Jane immediately came back and exposed Mr. Zhang on the spot. It turns out that Mr. Zhang has saved a little money over the years, not much, but more than 60 thousand. The money was originally used to support the elderly, and his own daughter was not married. As a father, he was uneasy and selfish, but he gave it to his daughter, but he was afraid that she wouldn't want it, so he lied that the money was the dowry money he and his stepmother (Ms. Jane) gave her, and at the same time kept it from his wife and prevented her from having a son.

Ms. Jane suddenly became angry. She thinks that her husband's behavior is tantamount to "stealing" and is a stain on their marriage.

"Old man, you let me down! What food and drink in this family is not earned by my children? I can understand that you are still thinking about your own daughter. I can understand that you contacted your ex-wife in front of me, but you supported your own daughter behind my back. What do you take me for? Are you worthy of these two children? You are simply not human. "

Mr Zhang doesn't think so. Since he married Ms. Jane, he hasn't done his father's duty to his daughter. On the contrary, he has given all his love to Ms. Jane's children in recent years, and everyone can see it. As a stepfather, he is really speechless. I am old, and every time I spend some money, I have to look at their faces. My children always remember only their mother's birthday, but never their stepfather's birthday. Isn't this prejudice?

"I also have a copy in this home. I love my own daughter. Is there anything wrong? "

Ms. Jane was completely sad and said directly, "Old man, get a divorce. You go and live with your daughter. This family doesn't want you. "

No matter what kind of emotion, continuous effort must be based on the love given, in order to have a better response. Especially in marriage, the relationship between husband and wife, how to weigh each other's feelings, can stand in each other's perspective, is very critical. Mr. Zhang should understand that as long as he marries Ms. Jane, he has the responsibility to raise the children. But in the eyes of most people, this kind of responsibility is actually unfair, which is also the crux of the second marriage family. Happiness in marriage depends on whether they can accept each other's children.

In other words, what is wrong with Mr. Zhang to make up for what he owes his daughter? However, he should also understand that if the children of his second wife, Ms. Jane, are not treated equally, it will inevitably bring trouble. Mr. Zhang's cheating behavior changed the nature of things and then developed into distrust of marriage.

Even the marriage of elderly couples should follow the principle of "the relationship between husband and wife comes first". It was Mr. Zhang who broke this principle and made Ms. Jane have the idea of divorce.

At the same time, Ms. Jane knows that her son and daughter are really filial to her stepfather? Dear friends, what do you think of this matter?