How to become a good conversationalist?

First of all, you must be an optimistic and confident person, because when you are optimistic, your mentality will be open-minded and open-minded. When you are confident, you will be full of confidence (don’t be stubborn and unable to adapt, don’t often get into trouble by yourself, Don’t be arrogant and dismissive of many things) Have a good attitude to face yourself, you can do it!

Respect is the basis of conversation. Respecting others means respecting yourself, respecting family, friends, colleagues, strangers, etc. Next we have to pay attention to your own appearance, such as your own dress (for example, when meeting You should pay attention to what kind of clothes you wear when going to different people or on different occasions, and keep them neat and tidy! This will give people a sense of cleanliness and respect), whether your words, deeds, conversational attitude, and tone are appropriate (doing these things is also a sign of respect for others) The most basic respect) No matter what the identity of the person you are talking to is (you must not judge people by their appearance), no matter whether you like the other person and the topic you are talking about (if you don’t like it, don’t show boredom, you can choose to decline politely).

Observation ability is also necessary for conversation. If you want to be a talkative person, you must have this ability (don’t show deliberate observation, which will be impolite, and notice it inadvertently, come on!). You can’t always do it. It is to immerse yourself in your own thoughts or your own performance. You must be good at observing the other party's words, deeds, expressions, emotions, etc. Based on the details or the situation displayed by the other party, you can make yourself more integrated and understand what the other party wants to express. For example, by observing the emotions of the person you are talking to at that time, you can infer the state of mind of the other person at that time. Based on what the other person shows, we can also make corresponding countermeasures in time.

There is a saying that listening is an art. Before you learn to listen, you must not interrupt others when they are talking (unless you have something urgent to do). If you want to interrupt the other party under normal circumstances, you must use polite words, sorry, sorry and then add what you want to say. Content of expression) Listen to what the other party is saying, and be sure to show a very sincere look. This will make the other party open up more and don’t show impatience (if you don’t want to listen, know that what we have to do now is to become a talkative person. People, so listen to your friends, more and more friends will like you)

Improve yourself, enrich yourself, make yourself excellent, and enrich your brain. Read more, watch more news, make more friends, and travel more. When you have more and more experiences, you will become more and more enriched, so that you will not understand nothing when talking to the other party (strive to improve yourself, enrich yourself, you can Solving the embarrassment of wanting to say something but not being able to say it on certain occasions) will not only provide solutions to many problems, but also enrich yourself and make yourself excellent.

Don’t be in a hurry. Many things cannot be done at once. They are all done step by step. You will definitely encounter embarrassment, contradictions, or the inability to convince the other party, the inability to communicate well, or even influence. If something changes, don't worry or be afraid. Only by slowly accumulating and summarizing experience can you show your better self, shield yourself from timidity and lack of confidence, and show your better self. Be enthusiastic and be proactive in doing things. Come on!