Why do some 40-year-old women act like children?

When a woman reaches middle age, she looks like a young girl, old and naive. This is a blessing in life. Many people regard her as a star and carry on for her.

Who can be a middle-aged and elderly girl?

She must be from a well-off family, at least a well-off family. Maybe her parents are old, so she is spoiled and regards her daughter as the apple of her eye. Eat, drink and be good, be a cow and a horse, catch the stars and win the moon, and do everything. This rich fairy knows nothing about the hardships of farming, has never experienced wind and rain, has a material life like the best formalin, can maintain her appearance and make her heart like a baby.

She must have met a super meal ticket, a peerless man-and certainly rich. Shelter her from the wind and rain, don't worry about workplace disputes, curl up in a romantic haven, paint her nails, drink milk tea, do maintenance, be interested in doing WeChat business and selling fashion, and be tired of poetry and distance. Anyway, men are struggling in vanity fair, as long as they feel at ease and be an innocent girl, they will have nothing to worry about all their lives, just like babies.

She's probably unmarried, dink or a minimalist vegetarian. In her utopian life, she refused to grow up, to take responsibility and to become a middle-aged woman. Because there is no need to consider the next generation, all her income is used to please herself, buy skin care products, learn to dance, travel, eat bird's nest, do health care, shoot cats, gossip about small meat, and have afternoon tea with her girlfriends. She lives a drunken life and seldom works hard, so she lives like a celebrity and looks like a baby.

Of course, it is also possible that she is nothing, with no middle-class family background and no good husband's support. She is just gifted, naive, like a child, but this is unlikely. Social life is the most powerful oxidant. Being exposed to the sun for a long time and having a wrinkled face is not only physical fatigue, but also mental fatigue. Where have you seen a strong woman in the workplace, with a wife at home and a weather-beaten face?

Xu Niang, a 40-year-old woman in a colorful society, may not be half old, provided that a preservative can be preserved for many years is found.

# 40 # As a 46-year-old woman, I think I should answer this topic seriously.

I see many people say:

Women who are still like children at the age of 40 are mostly spoiled by their families or husbands and pampered.

But in fact, what I want to say is that there is a kind of women who are independent, strong and optimistic. After experiencing the great storms of the world, they still maintain their naive nature and still look at the world with pure eyes. At the age of 40, they can still have a young heart and a beautiful yearning for the world.

There is one kind of such women who have no worries about food and clothing, but have strong self-protection ability. They have strong skills themselves, which can ensure a stable economic foundation and have enough time to enjoy life. However, such a woman must have worked hard when she was young, and she can only be calm and calm after 40 years old.

The second is that they are more willing to return to simplicity after experiencing the ups and downs of life. They don't have too much luxury and desire for life, and they don't have too many material needs, but they pay more attention to spiritual makeup, are willing to do what they like, and are willing to fill their hearts with some connotations. They stand tall, look far, observe the world with an open-minded eye, naturally see a lot of beauty, and their mentality is getting younger and younger.

The third type is a rare type of confusion. In fact, it is not that they don't understand the complexity of the world, but that they don't want to be as short-lived as other women. They are willing to silently guard the purest side of their hearts and live the simplest life, leaving their hearts alone and their affairs alone, because they believe that simplicity is beautiful.

My humble opinion of a 46-year-old woman.

An old aunt who can still play African drums at the age of 70 is willing to share the details of her life with you.

Isn't age sometimes just a symbol? Don't you laugh at some children who talk and behave like adults? You will also sigh! Then it is reasonable for a woman in her forties to behave like a child. I hope she won't change because she hears negative remarks. I wish her from the bottom of my heart that she can continue this state until she is old!

Why would I say that? That's because people with this trait have beauty in their eyes and kindness in their lives. Most of them have beautiful original ecological families. They grew up full of love, and they are rich, which means inner wealth and abundance.

Their own characteristics are that they can attract many friends, and the sunshine and warmth will always be passed on to everyone. They are like little suns, transferring heat to friends, accepting and soothing those injured hearts with full love.

Forty-year-old women talk and do things like girls, but they still have to fall in love, get married and have children; They also have to face trivial life; They must also deal with bloodshed in the workplace; At the negotiating table, they are also powerful opponents ... she has experienced everything you have experienced, and she has experienced everything you have not experienced.

This girl-like woman is a firework in itself; Getting into trouble is a good medicine in itself.

I just hope that every appearance is gentle, and years can't hurt her, because she brings her own invisible armor. Time is getting older and the light in my eyes is always warm.

I hope there are more such women, and there are more different colors in the fireworks of this world, so that people who meet her can forget the wrinkles of time.

Why do some 40-year-old women act like children? Generally speaking, such people are cheerful, lively and generous, and even say that such people are the nature of old children, a leopard cannot change his spots!

A 40-year-old woman still behaves like a child, which is largely related to her mind and experience.

First, psychologically, a 40-year-old woman should be a mature person who objectively judges things and calmly analyzes problems. But if you are 40 years old, your thinking is still like a child, not like a mother's thinking. Then I think it is nothing more than the following three points:

1. This woman is not married and has children, and she is still enjoying the process of falling in love.

This woman has never been in love, and her understanding of the world and others is still at a simple stage.

This woman already has her own children, but she is well spoiled by her family and thinks everything in this world is beautiful.

Second, in terms of experience, a 40-year-old woman should have experienced and seen many different lifestyles, but if she still acts like a child, then I think there are nothing more than the following three points:

1. This woman has never cried in the middle of the night, nor worried about her family, because there is always someone on top of her to support her and let her live a carefree life.

Maybe this woman has never been hurt. A woman who has been hurt and hurt, especially after the age of 40, will have a certain grasp and recognition of things and people, and will not be as outspoken as a child.

This is another possibility. This woman has experienced everything, but she still believes in beauty in her heart.

A 40-year-old woman looks like a child, which shows that she has a childlike innocence and that she has a good living environment and has not been overwhelmed by various pressures.

An actress was spoiled by her husband and didn't know how to withdraw money from the ATM. Maybe it's exaggerated. In real life, some actresses are spoiled by their husbands as if they are out of touch.

I know a friend who is almost fifty, but she looks like thirty. On the one hand, I benefited from my persistent exercise and fitness, on the other hand, it was also influenced by the family environment. She comes from a good family and has no worries about food and clothing. The family doesn't expect her to make money to support their families. She can do what she wants most, and her husband is the only one who follows her. Is there any reason not to be young?

Some women live very tired. They have to face daily necessities, vinegar and tea, and take care of the whole family. They want to be younger, but they are old-fashioned by reality.

Therefore, women should be kind to themselves. Even in adversity, they should keep a clear head. If they have a good heart and everything in their eyes is good, they can naturally keep a pure heart.

I think it's a matter of mentality. Simple and kind, living without entanglement and calculating nature are also simple and beautiful. Some people say that no matter how a woman takes care of her skin after 40, her eyes and expressions will betray her age. This is the past of mood and experience. Tell me about my personal experience. I will be 47 years old in two months, and many people who have met me for the first time say that they can't tell my age. Besides exercise, I keep a happy heart. Happiness is not material well-being, as the saying goes, more flowers and less flowers. We do what we can in material consumption. The main thing is to keep a good attitude, not envy others or feel inferior. Everyone has all kinds of disappointments, so don't care about the pros and cons, and don't make much ado about nothing. Don't expect too much from anyone or anything, learn to let nature take its course and adjust your mood. When you are bored, you can go for a fitness trip or raise some small animals and play with flowers and plants. Your heart is full of warmth and love. Life is limited and good times are infinite. Try to enjoy every minute of your life. Simply put, living means being young and happy! Attached are some photos taken in recent days. I strongly disapprove of women who sacrifice their personality and live in boudoir. The older a woman is, the more she should love herself, the more independent she should be, and she should not depend on anyone financially or spiritually. I earn my own money, choose to spend within my ability and cultivate my hobbies spiritually. More often, I think it's noisy to have company, but I prefer to be quiet and do what I like alone. A relaxed, calm and clean heart. Live a clear and simple life, that is, the years are quiet.

Such as the title, this kind of woman should be what people often say about middle-aged girls.

A woman of about 40 years old is in the golden age of her life. Her physical and mental development is mature and sound, her life experience is rich and her career is stable. In addition, her marriage has entered a stable period, the family is harmonious, the husband and wife love each other, and the children are put down, so most of the older generation can take care of their own lives. Therefore, women in this period felt relatively little pressure from all sides. In addition, some people are born with temperament. I am sociable, have many friends, often go out to play, and get together constantly. I am energetic and broad-minded. From time to time, I will have a girl's feeling, charming demeanor, charming language and lively and exaggerated behavior, just like a girl's appearance.

This phenomenon is not uncommon in real life. You can always see so many people in the department or classmates of the unit. The age should also be in the ranks of the eldest sister, but the language and behavior are still like girls, often close to teenagers. They are often ridiculed as middle-aged girls who are persistent in youth. In fact, this kind of woman often has excellent mentality and life.

Of course, everything has two sides. If this behavior is not handled properly, it will also have a negative impact on people. I feel serious, hip-hop is more lively and somewhat artificial. In addition, women with this personality often show interest in handsome small fresh meat when they communicate with the opposite sex, while mature, sexy, smart and lively middle-aged girls are often fatal to small fresh meat.

Therefore, middle-aged girls with this mentality and behavior should be fully affirmed as long as they can measure and control the boundaries of behavior well. It can be predicted that with the continuous development of society and the continuous liberation of people's minds, there will only be more and more middle-aged girls!

Personality can shield bad things, stay in your own world, or never eat the usual hardships at home. How long can she pretend? Gentleness is the hardest thing to pretend. For the former, such a person can't go to see her with the usual adult talent, and can't help but say it thoroughly. You have different views on everything. You should explain the cause and effect very carefully, and she will understand slowly. The latter, you can do what her parents did, and you can't change it, because she refuses to grow up, and she has always been a irresponsible child. [Cover your face]

At the age of 20, I imagined that a 30-year-old woman must be very mature, but at the age of 30, I felt that this was not the case. It seems that I am still like a child who has not grown up, and I am still far from maturity.

At the age of thirty, I think, at the age of forty, I am old. Now I'm almost forty years old, and I still feel like I'm in my twenties. Nothing has changed. Still sentimental, blx. I'll still have time to meet friends and have a good drink. Only when you think about your age will you find that you are no longer young. I think when I reach the age of 50, I will look back and sigh, alas, how young I was then!

Many women behave like children, which may be related to their lively, cheerful and optimistic attitude towards life and their own experiences. A woman who lives a relatively comfortable life is definitely younger than a woman who has experienced hardships and twists and turns.

Time flies, and I'm middle-aged before I know it. Maybe she has become an old woman in others' eyes, but a woman can be young and have a young heart no matter what her age, as long as she is in a good state and has a good attitude.