How does it feel to have a roommate with low emotional intelligence?

Emotional intelligence can be said to be a very important part of people's lives. A person's IQ may not be high, but his or her emotional intelligence cannot be high. Behavior and behavior in life are closely related to emotional intelligence. ?

Having a roommate with low emotional intelligence should also be a painful thing. After all, they are people who have to get along day and night, and they have to live in the same room for at least three years. Low emotional intelligence is reflected in many aspects, and I have encountered many of them.

1. In the evening or during lunch break: My roommate always plays games on black background, the sound is very loud and noisy. This situation is very common and difficult to solve. This situation usually occurs in university dormitories. You can talk to him calmly, but it is basically in vain, so choosing earplugs is the best solution in this case.

2. Joking without propriety: I have also encountered this kind of thing. This is really the most annoying thing. You don’t care about other people’s feelings and you don’t understand others’ perspective. Just like between girls, if you make fun of him, she won't be very happy, but you still make fun of her and keep making fun of her. You don't know how to read her words, and the result must be clear at a glance. In this case, you'd better ignore him and don't put his words in your ears. He will quit when he becomes bored.

3. Outspoken and outspoken: Many times it is very embarrassing when encountering this kind of person. When joking, he is the only one who is more serious and talks about truth in a serious manner. This makes us very embarrassed. When encountering this kind of problem, we'd better stop talking and talk again after a while.

? But after all, after all, they have been roommates for several years, and it is impossible for him to not have some advantages. The best choice is to pay more attention to his strengths and enjoy his time as a roommate!