What if my son has no opinion and always listens to his daughter-in-law?

The reason why children have no opinions may be related to their parents' behavior:

1. Parents are too anxious.

Some parents always worry that their children are not doing well or doing wrong, and they are afraid that their children will make mistakes. When children's behavior is different from their own expectations, they begin to be anxious, and these parents often unconsciously impose too many constraints on their children. Parents are authoritative beings in children's minds. Over time, children dare not listen to their parents' arrangements, dare not say or do what they really want to do.

2. Parents do everything without giving their children the right and space to be masters of their own affairs.

Parents usually do this out of "kindness" and are always afraid of wronged their children, so they blindly arrange, replace or interfere with their children's affairs. In this way, children will naturally be independent. Moreover, children have no experience in doing things independently, and they will be at a loss when they encounter things.

3. Asking too much is counterproductive.

Nowadays, parents are eager to have expectations for their children, such as Jackie Chan and girls. They often expect too much from their children and are always dissatisfied with their performance, with less praise and more criticism. Some parents also let their children do things beyond their ability, instead of helping them. In this way, children will become more and more frustrated and lose confidence. They are afraid of being criticized by their parents after doing something wrong, but they don't know how to do it well, so they become indecisive and can't make up their minds.

Children with "no opinions" are taught by their parents from an early age: "Be good and obedient". Parents help them think, decide and prepare everything, so they are used to giving up their decision-making power. Lack of self-confidence is not conducive to the healthy development of children's future personality.

Personally, I think so. Let's see how my son feels. If they love each other, it is not necessarily bad to listen to their daughter-in-law. My husband will listen to me, and I didn't let my husband suffer. This couple should be a whole. Listen to one side, not afraid of the other, unified management. And since then, the daughter-in-law loves her son and makes their small family very good. So, if I listen to my daughter-in-law changing sons, I have no problem and love them.

Listening to each other means trusting each other. However, my son and my daughter-in-law do not have this phenomenon. They discuss with each other. I won't tell anyone that my wife is bad. Since we are a family, I accept it from the heart. Besides, even the eldest son has shortcomings. How can I find fault with my wife? She is also the baby of her parents.