You can't count on anything at home. What's the use of having such a husband?

Let's start with my husband. I have worked on the railway for more than 20 years. I go to work every day, leaving early and returning late. It takes three hours by train, get up at 5 am and come back at 8 pm. I have never seen the sun in front of my house.

Coupled with the abnormal management of the railway, signs such as early sign-in and late sign-in, fingerprint sign-in, face-brushing sign-in, roll call sign-in, and standing guard at the door, are not allowed to go out during office hours.

You can't play with your mobile phone during work hours. You should give it to the team and lock it in the safe. There are surveillance cameras everywhere. Once found, it will be fined 200.

There is only one hour to eat at noon, no lunch break at all, and there is a long queue for cooking. Leaders know how to build their own office space and gardens. The canteen where employees eat every day is small and crowded. When they are late, they can't even grab a seat, but the leaders turn a blind eye.

What is even more exasperating is that I am busy and tired at ordinary times, and there is nothing I can do about it, and there is no good holiday on weekends. It's all a task assessment, and whether you can rest depends on the progress of your work.

Weekends often have only one day off, and you won't know when to rest until Friday afternoon. What can we expect him to do? Even if you want to arrange something in advance, you can't.

Years of vacation are in name only. No one can rest until the work is finished. There is no place to make sense to deduct 500 yuan for a day off from work.

In this way, I have worked hard every day for more than 20 years in order to get a stable salary every month. The working class is miserable. Without freedom, they can't take care of their homes. They only have endless hardships and fatigue. Who can understand the taste? !

My husband works hard, I know, but I also have a job. Although not as hard as him, I have to work eight hours a day and often work overtime at the end of the month!

After so many years of marriage, I never thought I could rely on him for big and small things at home. I always try to solve it myself. Sometimes when I think about it, I really don't know what to do with this marriage. What's the use of having this husband?

Recalling my offended experience over the years, I felt tears in my eyes. ...

If I hadn't seen him at the beginning, the sleeves of the sweater I wore in winter would be off-line, and no one would care. Riding a broken bike every day, except for the bell, it rings everywhere. I wouldn't have agreed to marry him if I hadn't been soft-hearted and compassionate.

When I was pregnant, my family conditions were particularly poor. My family and I live in a yard, and we temporarily set up two small bungalows from east to west. It's sunny and hot in summer, and we have to burn honeycomb coal to keep warm in winter!

It's dark, and my husband often can't go home. I am pregnant by myself. I use a dustpan to take the honeycomb briquettes placed outside the yard into the house one by one, and then I pour out the ashes bit by bit.

Water is also transported in barrels, only half a barrel at a time. ...

When others are pregnant, my husband is always busy making something nutritious. As for me, since I got married with him, I have been cooking with my mother-in-law, and what I eat every day is arranged by my mother-in-law.

I never said that pregnant women can be given a small stove just because they are pregnant, even if they eat good food or have exceptions.

When people do prenatal checkups, they are always talking and laughing together, but I am always alone ... Sometimes, I really doubt whether this child has anything to do with him. !

On the first day of giving birth, I went to the hospital at midnight. I only know that he ran up and down to pay the hospitalization fee. I heard that he went out to buy some chocolates and bananas, but I never saw him come to my side from beginning to end. I was in great pain, tossing and turning in my hospital bed, but I never saw him.

Later, I learned that my husband felt it inconvenient to come here because they were all pregnant women. Hey! Unexpectedly, my face is quite thin, but other husbands are not around!

I finally gave birth to a baby. My mother's parents took care of me day and night during confinement. Every day when he comes back from work, he can help to wash a diaper at most.

After the second month, I will take care of the children alone at night. Get up five or six times a night, change diapers and feed. I do all these things by myself. He lay on one side, snoring loudly, but he couldn't get up. He slept like a dead pig.

Before the child was weaned at the age of one, I took care of the child every night and went to work during the day. When I was at work, my sister-in-law took care of the children. I have a serious lack of sleep and always feel headache. This headache has not been cured until now, and it is estimated that it will be the root cause.

What is particularly helpless is that when the child is ten months old, the unit arranges me to go out to study, which will take one month. My mother couldn't bear to see the child weaned at such a young age, so she took the child with her and lived in Taiyuan for a month. When she came back, she was criticized by the leader, saying that her image was too bad!

Finally, when the children were two and a half years old, they went to kindergarten. My parents took care of them, picked them up every day and lived with them at night.

I finally have time to catch my breath and have a good sleep. Will be very sleep-deprived. I feel the happiest thing in the world is to have a good sleep!

I wanted to buy a house at that time, but I had no money, so I opened a small shop outside to sell mobile phones. Usually, besides going to work, I have to look at the store and often go to other places to purchase goods, which is particularly hard.

Because children are young, they often get sick and have a fever once a month. Most of the time, I took it with me, carrying it to the hospital, taking injections and taking medicine, which was very helpless. Sometimes when the children cry, I will cry with them. ...

As the saying goes: "Women are weak, mothers are strong!" After several years of marriage, I became a timid little girl and was forced to become a woman.

After several years of hard work, I finally saved money to buy a new house. Although it is the top floor, I feel quite satisfied! You don't have to live in a complex, but you have your own nest!

Later, the child went to primary school. Fortunately, it's only a few minutes away from home, so he doesn't have to cross the road. On the first day of school, someone guided him. Since then, he hasn't taken the child, and he hangs a key around his neck every day.

Usually buy food and cook. Getting off work every day is like fighting a war, rushing back to cook and clean the house, and helping the children with their homework at night.

My husband finally took a day off at the weekend, either inviting people to drink at home or going out to find friends to drink. Anyway, he will drink when he is free, even if he doesn't go to work, he has never seen anyone.

If I invite people over for dinner, I won't rest, and I have to fry some dishes. Husband can only start first, and when they finish eating and tossing, they have to clean up the mess. Those days are really miserable to think of!

I usually find someone to fix anything wrong at home. Sometimes the light bulb is broken and the water pipe leaks. I do it myself. I climbed up and down on the ladder. I never wanted to rely on him.

I always go to parent-teacher conferences! The child didn't finish his homework. The teacher called the parents, or I'll go! It seems that all this has nothing to do with him as a father.

I remember when my child was ten years old, he had to be hospitalized because of chicken pox and high fever. My husband and I both take time out of work to take care of the children. I thought my husband was here, so don't bother. Who knows, people are starting to have a fever, too. It's very lively. I should not only take care of the little one, but also take care of him, which not only didn't help, but also made things worse.

I used to think that I didn't need a man at all in my life. It's all the same with or without him. Maybe it's better without him. I can handle everything by myself!

When you are unwell, you should work hard, but you can't leave anything to do. Once, when I was cleaning the house during the Spring Festival, I couldn't move the sofa by myself. As a result, I broke the leg of the sofa. A man stepped on a ladder to clean the lamp on the roof, carefully removed the glass cover, washed it with water, and then climbed up the ladder to stand the lamp.

Later, my son went to junior high school and went to a full-time boarding school. Because we are both busy with work, no one cares about him, so we have to leave our children in such a school.

The prison management of this school is quite famous in the local area. One day, a child who just started school was not used to it. He suddenly called with the teacher's mobile phone and told me that he was chatting in the dormitory last night. The patrolling teacher found that he was going to run 10 lap in the playground today.

My heart was shaking when I received the phone call. If I don't really have no choice, who will send my children to school there? I had to comfort my son on the phone, and I had to abide by the school discipline. If I don't do well, I should be punished. I must listen to my teacher in the future.

The school punished the son's body and the mother's heart! I can only silently wipe away tears. ...

Fortunately, my son quickly adapted to school life, became a monitor, and his academic performance also advanced by leaps and bounds. I am very comforted! At that time, the school was far from home, and the children were picked up every two weeks. In order to facilitate the pick-up, I specially took a driver's license and bought a car. I am the only one who picks up children at every school and holiday.

I especially remember that after the mid-term exam, when the school was on summer vacation, I went to the dormitory to move things, only my son and I were alone, but there were many things, quilts, books and cabinets, and I moved them to the car little by little, which was particularly flustered. The staircase building where my family wants to live is on the sixth floor of the top floor, so we have to move it up one by one. ...

The son of the senior high school entrance examination was the first in the school and was directly admitted to the experimental class of the best local high school. To celebrate, our family decided to travel to Yunnan.

Because there were old people and children, we signed up for a boutique tour group. Some of them went well and had a good time, but on the third day, my son had a fever, and then my husband had a fever, which surprised me. How come it's always this two fathers who gets sick together?

I must take care of them after a long journey. I am particularly worried that if I can't get well, I will delay my trip! I was counting on his father to protect and take care of us. Who knows that when you eat so much at ordinary times, you look tall and strong, and it's useless at critical times. It's okay, it doesn't matter. I took some medicine and got better gradually.

After our son went to high school, we didn't care so much. I was afraid that my son would be too relaxed and his grades would drop, so I worked part-time as a life teacher at school and followed him for a month. I rush to school after work every day, and I have no time to myself.

My husband doesn't understand my behavior. Every day, besides going to work, I just drink at home to drown my sorrows. Several times, I got a call from his colleague saying that he had drunk too much again. I just sent him home, and I have to thank him again and again!

My son has just entered high school here, and he is very worried. His unreasonable husband is making trouble. ...

Seeing that my son is fine, the classmates are all good, the learning atmosphere is better, and there are no particularly naughty children. As a mother, I finally put this heart down reluctantly.

That's it. I just pick him up at the weekend, go home and wash his clothes and get something delicious. Three years later, my son was very successful and was admitted to a good university of 2 1 1.

Looking back on the marriage for so many years, my husband's contribution to the family is his dead salary, and I am in charge of everything in the family.

Every time I go to the vehicle management office to check the car, I look around and it's basically men. Rarely see lesbians present. In the hot summer sun, my daughter went to the vehicle management office to queue up for car inspection and compete with a bunch of big men.

My family bought a house for the second time. During the whole renovation, I was in charge. In order to save money, I didn't find a decoration company. From design, material selection to construction, I have always been alone. I never understood it, and I never attended the meeting. Life really taught me a lot.

Because the construction team I was looking for was not responsible, several boards were not the right size, and they were urged many times and nobody cared. I had to drive alone, find the same board in the market, pull it to a processing factory far away, process it one by one, and then carry it home by another.

I just bought a house and bought many things for my family. There were a lot of express delivery during that time. Sometimes I receive several packages a day and I move home alone. If I can't catch them once, I have to run twice!

I need to install a sideboard at home. In order to save money, I chose one from the Internet, but I need to install it myself when it arrives. My husband is resting, so I think I can count on others this time. Who knows that people are drunk again, full of alcohol, and can't stand.

Before the courier came in, I tried to get the cabinet into the house by myself, and then I began to install it. I studied the drawings for a long time and found a screwdriver. Because there is no professional tool, I got blisters when I screwed the screw. ...

The last two doors won't close, and the seam is a bit big. I let him have a look at them, but I didn't expect him to tear down the door I had finally installed, and I couldn't install it anymore!

I was so angry that I had to study it for a long time before reloading it!

Nothing can help, it will only increase my confusion. Anyway, as soon as I saw him, I stopped calling!

When I moved, there was an old coffee table made of stone. It's very heavy! When I moved, I told the workers that I had used it for several years, and I didn't want it. I don't need to move! But my husband is reluctant to throw it away and wants to move into a new house.

As a result, I tried to throw it away secretly while he was away, because when he was here, I would definitely not let you throw it! Don't you have to rely on yourself for this job? !

Because of the limited space, I can only buy a bathtub with the right size online, but this time the logistics was sent to my home, but people didn't install it, saying that the bathtub should be put into the water and screwed on.

I think it should be simple. It happened to be the weekend, and my husband was resting, but people said they would go to the hospital to visit patients. It's either this or that all day, and nothing can help.

When I see the faucet installer coming, I'm going to take down the wooden bag first, so I'll do it myself! I found an axe, pried open the circle of nailed wood one by one, broke out in a sweat, and my hand was pricked by sawdust ...

There are too many similar things. Because time has passed so long, I can't remember many things clearly. All I can think of for the time being are these fragments. ...

What's the use of such a husband?

I can't get home until 8 o'clock every night. I went to the bathroom for a cigarette and stayed for half an hour. Then I wash and drink some water. It's about time. I'm going to the bathroom to have a cigarette, and then I'll stay for half an hour before going to bed. ...

My health is getting worse and worse. When I'm a little tired, I get headaches and dizziness. In severe cases, I can't even get out of bed, but there is no one around to add tea and water to me.

My shoulders and neck are killing me these two days. I want to put a plaster on my back. I didn't help, so I just put it on in an crooked way. ...

Now I have to cook for his 80-year-old mother once in a while on weekends! Or busy with all kinds of weddings and funerals of colleagues and friends! Still can't count on anything. ...

Miss, it's really difficult to marry such a poor and busy person! If there is an afterlife, I will never remarry, but not as those who have been poor together know! Even if you want to find someone, you have to find someone who is rich and idle!

You say, what's the difference between having such a husband and not having such a husband? !