What behaviors of yours make others feel worthless?

Comparison is the standard by which people measure things. When they see some people or things, people will involuntarily compare them with other people or things. There are always some people or things that make people feel cheap. I think there are two types of price devaluation. One is that some people think that the price is devalued because you are frugal or poor. I call this situation "price devaluation". The other is that you do something inappropriate on some occasions because of your character. Something that was too appropriate or something that was said that was inappropriate. For myself, let me first talk about my personal experience in the first situation. Because my family was poor when I was a child, I couldn't buy the clothes I wanted, the toys I wanted, and the food I wanted like other children. It is said that children from poor families start their own families early. As I grow older, I gradually understand the situation at home, so when I go to the supermarket or the vegetable market, I always ask for the price first, and sometimes I have to bargain. At this time, I often make others feel strange. As for the eyes, I used to have low self-esteem when I was a child, but now that I think about it, I laugh it off. I call this experience "price loss." The first type of "price reduction" is not a real price reduction, but the second situation is. There is a saying that goes well, a person's character can only be reflected when he is angry. I didn't quite understand this sentence before, but then something happened that gave me a deep understanding of this sentence. Once upon a time, I thought my character was very good, and I was even a little overconfident in my character. That happened when we graduated from the third year of high school. We had just experienced the baptism of the college entrance examination, and we didn't know where to put our blood. The hormones of youth were impacting our brains. We are afraid that others will not know that we are young people taking the college entrance examination. We who had just finished the college entrance examination gathered together, ate and drank, and talked about every detail of the past three years. The memories are beautiful. In these three years, we experienced the most beautiful years of our lives. Learning and love sprouted during this period. The main melody, the students expressed their own views and opinions, which was moving for a while. Some students take advantage of graduation and drunkenness to confess their feelings to their loved ones. How wonderful! The memories are also sad. When we think of the separation soon, we are moved after working together for three years. We are tearing apart loudly, for fear that our classmates will not hear our opinions. Several gangsters at the next table yelled angrily, asking them to stop eating. Can you please be quiet? Their eyes revealed disdain and murderous intent, and they came up with a set of combo punches. Maybe it’s because I’ve been backlogged in high school for too long, maybe it’s because I’m drunk, so I shouted, “Fuck it.” The classmates would beat them up in groups. We lost ourselves in an instant, and we ended up in the police station regardless of the consequences. At that time, I felt so helpless and regretful. I even wanted to find a hole to crawl in. Am I a quasi-college student? I couldn’t help but ask Himself, do such a devalued thing. This incident touched me greatly. Since then, I have never done anything casually. I think twice before doing anything. I told myself not to do anything at a low price again.