What is the most comfortable way to get along in heterosexual relationships?

Some people walk away, not because they don't love, but because they love too much.

They always try to control each other and let them do everything according to their own requirements. If we get along like this, both of us are tired. In other words, some people live too much, only care about their feelings, but never think of each other.

Love a person, get along with a person, must be moderate, don't love too much, don't love too little, find a point that makes each other comfortable, so that two people can have love.

In heterosexual relationships, the most comfortable way to get along with each other is not to control each other, but to respect each other and give them trust and care. You know that you are in the other person's heart and TA is there, which is enough.

Only when two people find a way to get along can this love be sweeter and longer.

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My junior high school classmate Huixian is the kind of person who has a strong desire for control in love. Every day, her boyfriend reports to her wherever he goes, and she also makes many video calls with her boyfriend.

Only when there are no strange women around him can Huixian rest assured, otherwise she will definitely be questioned again.

We all advised her to trust each other, but she couldn't do it anyway. After a long time, even her boyfriend can't stand it. She is always suspicious and they often quarrel.

After that, her boyfriend also learned from her. Wherever she goes, he will ask questions. Even if he goes shopping with friends, he must know who it is. If you don't tell him the truth, there will definitely be contradictions again.

When two people control each other, their feelings are consumed invisibly. Originally, they were a couple who loved each other deeply, but they broke up at the last beat because of problems in their way of getting along.

Sometimes when you are with the opposite sex, you really need to find the most comfortable way to get along so that your feelings will not break down.

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No matter what kind of feelings, comfort is the most important thing. If you get along awkwardly, it won't last long, especially in love.

In heterosexual relationships, the most comfortable way to get along is like this, I don't understand!

Give each other space

Even if the opposite sex is together, they are still independent individuals. Both of them still have their own freedom, such as doing what they want, meeting the people they want, or choosing to be alone and enjoy their own time.

Rene Liu, a milk tea, is like this after marriage. She and her husband are separated except for eating and sleeping. Even they go out to see a movie, one to the left and the other to the right. She doesn't force her husband to watch her favorite movies. They just watch their own movies and then go home together. This is the freest way to get along.

In a relationship, only by respecting each other and giving each other space can two people get along more comfortably, but some people demand too much companionship and hope that the other party will never leave. Sometimes, such love is really suffocating.

There must be different interests and social circles between the opposite sex. Wouldn't it be better to give freedom back to each other properly so that both of them can feel the good times except falling in love?

Give each other trust

Trust is the cornerstone of feelings. When a love is not supported by trust, a relationship will fall apart.

When you get along with the opposite sex, the more you love someone, the more suspicious you are. This is a kind of insecurity in your heart. You always feel that the other person will leave you, and you are afraid of every day you spend together.

He said a few words to other members of the opposite sex, and you became suspicious. When she is with her friends, you will also feel uneasy. These two people are actually very tired. After a long time, there will be more and more contradictions.

Come to think of it, why do you want to live like this? In your life, you can't keep what you should, and what you can't keep will always be kept for you.

Instead of being nervous all day, it is better to calm down and trust TA, and TA will trust you. This mode of getting along is more comfortable and will create more happiness.

Care for each other

Between the opposite sex, when two people fall in love, they all hope that the other person cares about themselves, and they all hope that the other person cares about themselves.

Some people talk about love, but still live too much, don't know how to care about each other and don't consider each other's feelings.

If two people are so selfish and love themselves, but don't know how to love each other, the relationship between them will only get worse.

The most comfortable way for two people to get along is not just to love themselves, but to know how to love and care for each other. TA is ill, buy him medicine and hand him a cup of hot water. TA can help him out when he is in a bad mood.

Between two people, take care of each other, warm each other, such feelings will be better.

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Both men and women should remember that the most comfortable way to get along with the opposite sex is to love each other, care for each other and give each other space and trust.

However, some people don't understand these ways of getting along. Although I loved that person deeply, I finally lost TA.

In life, while we are growing up, we must cherish those who care about us, and don't wait until we lose it to regret it.

If you love each other, it is even more important to manage your relationship, and it is best for you two to spend the rest of your life together.