My mother-in-law came to live with me and I asked her to pick up food with serving chopsticks. My husband slapped me and I went back to my parents' house in anger. What do you think?

My husband is from a rural area. I remember we were together at that time, and my parents quite approved of it, because they thought my husband was honest and caring, and I would not suffer much from following a man like him in the future. In fact, to be honest, when I first met my husband, I was not very satisfied with him, because although my husband had a good job, he was from the north, and in my opinion, northerners have a male chauvinist mentality.

Later, I got along with my husband for a while. I felt that although my husband was a bit rough and arrogant, he was really good to me. Don’t women just want to have someone to rely on in the future? My husband and I got married after dating for two years. When we got married, we planned to buy a house with a mortgage. When my parents learned that we were going to buy a house, they sponsored us 200,000 yuan. With the help of my parents, my husband and I didn’t need to After taking out the mortgage, our own savings, plus the money from our parents, were enough for us to buy a house and renovate it.

Not long after we moved into our new home, my husband told me that he wanted to bring my mother-in-law home. I have been to my husband’s hometown, which is in a small village in the north. My mother-in-law is an out-and-out rural woman. To be honest, I somewhat despise my mother-in-law. I despise her because when my husband and I went home for the first time, there were traces of oil stains on the edges of the dishes and chopsticks at my mother-in-law's house. Besides, my mother-in-law doesn’t pay much attention to personal hygiene. I secretly didn’t want my mother-in-law to come, so I rejected my husband’s proposal.

At that time, I didn’t want my mother-in-law to come and live at home, and my husband didn’t say anything, so we lived a happy life for a year. During this year, my mother-in-law revealed on the phone that she wanted to live with us. My husband is a very filial person. My mother-in-law has mentioned it many times, so my husband had no choice but to bring her to our home. On the first day when I came to our house, I was very curious about everything in the house. Maybe I had never seen it before!

When I looked at the clothes my mother-in-law was wearing, I felt particularly depressed. My mother-in-law really didn’t care about face at all, and she even wore tattered clothes when she came to the city. The key is that the soles of the shoes on my mother-in-law's feet were already covered with a thick layer of mud. I originally planned to take my mother-in-law out to eat, but seeing her dressed like this, I gave up the idea of ??going out to eat. , My husband doesn’t have to worry about face, but I care about face. If acquaintances see my mother-in-law like this, I can’t accept it.

So I cook at home, because today is the first day that my mother-in-law comes here. Although I don’t like her very much, she is my husband’s mother after all, and I also want to have a good relationship with her, so I also made my best braised pork. There were only three of us to eat. I made four dishes and one soup, which was enough. It would be a pity to throw it away if I couldn’t finish it. After I made the meal, I asked my husband to invite my mother-in-law to eat, but my mother-in-law was not polite at all. I sat down at the dining table and started eating.

My mother-in-law eats loudly, and she likes to suck the soup from the chopsticks. She makes a sound every time when she sucks the chopsticks. After sucking the chopsticks, she directly uses the chopsticks to pick up vegetables. I really couldn't stand what my mother-in-law was doing. I thought to myself, every dish was stained with my mother-in-law's saliva, which made me feel a little nauseous, so I went to the kitchen to prepare a pair of serving chopsticks for my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law said, "Mom, please use public chopsticks to pick up the food. I think it's a bit unhygienic for you to do this."

After listening to what I said, my mother-in-law put down her chopsticks and said to me, you think my old woman is dirty, right? Let me tell you, when my son was little, I chewed it up and fed him. My son doesn’t even dislike my saliva, so what right do you have to dislike it? When my mother-in-law said this, I started arguing with her. She couldn't answer her question and I started crying. When my husband saw her crying, he slapped me in the face and said that I didn't know how to be filial to my elders and actually talked back to them.

I was also stunned by this slap from my husband. I didn’t expect that my husband, who usually dotes on me, would hit me on the first day my mother-in-law came home. I went back to my parents’ house in anger.

Is it wrong for me to ask my mother-in-law to pay attention to personal hygiene? How many bacteria are there in this person's saliva? Besides, this is a city or not in their rural area. Do you think it's wrong for me to ask my mother-in-law to pay attention to personal hygiene?