Why do some parents treat their children with partiality, and how much psychological harm does it do to children?

Although they are new human beings living in 2 1 century, it is inevitable that some people still have the old concept of preferring sons to daughters. In the past, we all liked boys rather than girls, because girls would get married, so there was no return on the investment in girls before marriage, but boys were different. After they get married, most people will live with their parents. As the saying goes, "raising children to prevent old age", at this time, sons have played a role in preventing old age.

In real life, the principle of "raising children to prevent old age" is not ruled out, but daughters may not have no return to their parents. It's just that the direction of children's pension is different. Daughters usually care about the elderly, and their little care is not as good as the elegance of the elderly in Dai Xiao a hundred years later.

2. Poor performance

Excellent people are likable everywhere, at work, at school and at home. Children with good grades will make their parents feel very comfortable, and naturally they will favor another child with poor grades, even if they are born and raised by themselves. Even if two children have the same love, their hearts will still be a little different.

3. Lack of vitality

Nowadays, many people respond to the call of the state to open a second child, and everyone's energy is limited. When you have Bauer, you will naturally shift your attention from the older children to Bauer. Of course, this time can be understood, but the child will not think so much.

Personally, it is very bad to be partial to children, which will make another child feel unfair everywhere. This kind of psychology will affect his later life. If he thinks he is dispensable, there is no need to be strict with himself and tolerant of others.