My mother-in-law is very kind to me, but I still don’t know how to get along with her. What should I do?

In fact, this is very common. After all, your mother-in-law is not your biological mother. The better she treats you, the more uncomfortable you will be. After all, there is no reward for no merit, which makes people feel guilty and panic.

In fact, although I have little experience in solving such problems, I can still give some advice by observing the way my sisters and sisters-in-law get along with their mothers-in-law.

First of all, you are newly married! You must be in the awkward chatting stage where you and your mother-in-law don't understand each other, so all you can do now is to slowly test it out, observe your mother-in-law's preferences, and then give in to what you like. After all, she is treating you better now! You can't do anything but feel in your heart that you are very grateful to her. Elderly people of this generation love to show off. If you buy her clothes, shoes or jewelry, she will wake up from her dreams with a smile. But you can't favor one thing over another. You have to buy something for your father-in-law.

In this way, they can also know that you are grateful. And for you, it can also relieve the silent pressure she feels when she is nice to you.

That’s what my sister did. When she first got married, her mother-in-law was completely obedient to her. Her mother-in-law did all the cooking, laundry, and cleaning. My sister always felt embarrassed and felt that she was a guest, and there was always a gap between her and her mother-in-law. However, when my sister spent thousands of dollars to buy a coat for her mother-in-law, this problem was easily solved. Well, maybe my mother-in-law also noticed that it was my sister’s fault! They are now acting like sisters.

Secondly, you can go shopping and buy things with your mother-in-law alone. After all, women of any age like to buy. They have the same interests and hobbies, and they have more topics to talk about.

Always act coquettishly with her, praise her more, and get along with her the same way you get along with your own mother, and she will definitely feel your kindness. After all, human hearts are made of flesh! We will be together for a long time, so we must work hard to keep each other’s hearts close!