What kind of experience is it to have a talkative sister-in-law with high emotional intelligence? (2)

My eldest sister-in-law gave birth to a daughter. She told me privately that her father-in-law preferred sons to daughters, so she often said publicly that her husband-in-law was two brothers and had no daughter. How nice it is that grandparents have granddaughters now ... and she asked her mother-in-law if she feels like raising a daughter now. After that, I showed my trademark smile, gnome male-"... Well, it's so beautiful that only you can do it. I was stupid enough to take it out on my eldest sister-in-law and say that they don't prefer boys to girls. A year later, my baby was born, and it was really lucky to be a son, because if I gave birth to a daughter and I can't speak, my in-laws would definitely not like my daughter. Because they themselves have always said that men and women are the same and all good. But in fact, my granddaughter has always been brought by my grandparents, and my husband and I have brought my grandson. We will be closer if we spend more time together. I can see that my mother-in-law is very kind to her granddaughter and my father-in-law is very polite. It's really the same anyway. The money given when giving birth is the same, and both children have clothes.

When my sister-in-law washes a pair of underwear and socks for her husband, she always says how lazy my brother is. The smelly socks are piled up. Not only for my husband and parents, but also for our relatives living in a rural province. Hearing this, my in-laws praised her for being virtuous and capable, while my mother-in-law talked about her brother and eldest son, and they had a good relationship since childhood. Unlike my husband, I left it to my grandparents when I was two years old. I spend my birthday alone every year and seldom spend time with my parents. My husband's job is harder and dirtier than my brother's. His work clothes are basically brushed every day, and my hands can't be wiped off. And I, always squatting in that small bathroom, put them on the floor to brush. Later, when I got pregnant, I washed them on the marble in the kitchen. What's wrong with underwear and socks? Whose wife hasn't washed her husband? Later, I mentioned it to my mother-in-law several times, unlike my sister-in-law She just listened.

One thing that my eldest sister-in-law is awesome is that she never washes her husband's underwear as long as she goes back to her in-laws' house. Really convinced! I have been honestly washing, and then I stopped washing after hearing what she said! But in my own home, I will still take the initiative to wash. Actually, I'm afraid my mother-in-law will say I'm lazy or something.

The most unbearable thing is that eldest sister-in-law has a house and a car, and there are more than one set. She has a high degree, a good job and a stable income. Her mother's uncle is very rich (one of the best in the local area). Her parents are very harmonious and her brother and sister-in-law are also very kind to her. When the baby is born, the mother will take care of it in advance, so don't worry about money. After confinement, she will go back to her mother's house for maternity leave. I envy her birth family, and because of such a happy family, everything goes well with her. I really envy you here!

Her family has the habit of cooking several kinds of breakfast. Everyone can eat whatever they like, and her mother doesn't bother at all. On the other hand, in my family, my mother cooks breakfast, but if there is noodles, she won't cook porridge. She thinks it's too much trouble. Everything is too much trouble. When my mother-in-law told me this, my first thought was "respect". My sister-in-law and mother respect every member of the family, and they are respected at home.

I negotiated with my mother when I was pregnant, and she came to take care of me in advance. However, it was almost twenty days after my birth that my mother arrived at the scene. I was in the hospital at that time, and everything was not going well, and I was in pain. It doesn't matter. I was infected with a high fever the day after giving birth, and I had to clean and disinfect the wound with a knife every day. I cry every time I feel pain, and I am afraid that the nurse will ask me to change my medicine every day. It's not that I don't want to die, so I lack the courage to jump out of the window. When it hurts, I call the doctor to use anesthetic. I don't care how much I use, the more the better ... The reason why my mother didn't come was that my grandmother fell. At that time, my two uncles, an aunt and my cousin were at home and could help. What makes me angry is that my mother heard the gossip in the village say that it is enough to have a mother-in-law to take care of the baby ... She doesn't know how painful I am, what kind of pain I have every day, and how many contradictions my daughter-in-law and mother-in-law will have when they first meet on the big issue of having children. If there is a quiet and comfortable way to die, I will definitely go. I can't help it This is my mother.

And my sister-in-law's mother, the twins all arrived early on time, and grandma was sick and hospitalized in the middle. She solved it perfectly. Knowing the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she always smiles at her in-laws, but "teaches" my crying sister-in-law behind her back. Why are you crying? Don't you have family? Bring the child back for confinement! Really, I have parents to help me through the most difficult time! So my sister-in-law is very lucky, very lucky! (continued)