Is maternal love innate or cultivated after having children?

I think maternal love is cultivated after having children.

First of all, people without children usually cannot like children

We found that many young girls did not like children before they got married. They like a quiet environment and think children are playful. Noisy, places with children are always very noisy

Because the children are still young and full of childlike innocence, they will inevitably talk a lot. So many people don't like children at all before marriage.

However, everything changed with the birth of her own child

After she had her own child, she never liked the child's noise, but began to record the child's smiles carefully. , patiently listening to his seemingly funny troubles.

Before marriage, when she saw other people changing their children’s diapers, she felt they were dirty and couldn’t help but walk away. However, when she had her own child, she would observe her carefully to determine whether the child was healthy.

We say that animals also have maternal love, so maternal love is innate, but animals only become gentle and loving when they have children.

So maternal love is cultivated after having children.