Some people say that you must keep your eyes open before marriage and turn a blind eye after marriage. What does this mean?

Actually, I think this sentence is quite right. Why do we have to keep our eyes open before we get married? Because we have to open our eyes wide to find a suitable person, and close our eyes to find a psychological comfort.

Before we get married, we have to open our eyes wide, because we have to observe and analyze more, and we must never be confused by the other person's gorgeous and hypocritical language. Some illusions made by him are also very easy to deceive you, so at this time, we must open our eyes wide, watch more, listen more and understand more, and don't be confused by what he says, and don't be fooled by him.

But after marriage, there are bound to be stumbling problems, such as whether the feelings between you two are still the same, and whether your children are satisfied with their cultivation and success. And the balance between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law, whether it is satisfactory or not, will definitely make a lot of contradictions between you two. If everything is haggle over every ounce, then this son will definitely have a bad life, so we have to turn a blind eye at this time. As long as it's not a particularly principled issue, there is no need to be too serious, because being serious is not good for anyone.

Before we get married, we must carefully look at whether this person's personality is good or not, and see if you two get along in harmony, because this will have a great impact on your married life. It will be too late to think about these issues after you get married. Similarly, after you get married, if you still demand the other party with the standards and requirements before marriage, then this marriage will definitely have great problems.

In fact, marriage still has a lot to learn. It's not just a casual talk. We must understand and tolerate each other.