Is it really only money that qualifies for kindness?

Many people say that human nature is good. In fact, Li Zhou also wants everyone to be kind.

But I know more clearly that this kindness is inseparable from money.

1, money is a qualification for kindness.

Your kindness is meaningless when you have nothing and can't even support your relatives around you.

Don't even think about helping others. At this time, the most important thing is to earn more money and let the family live a good life first. This is the greatest kindness.

When your hands are a little more comfortable and you don't have to worry about food and clothing, you can sympathize with others and meet your psychological needs.

This demand is what people call vanity.

Like many sprayers, scolding those stars and donating money is just a show.

In fact, their behavior, even if it is a show, is correct in itself.

Why?

Even if you do charity, you should let others gain something.

If a person can't meet his spiritual needs after doing a good deed, then imagine who will do a good deed in the future.

People, there is no distinction between good and evil.

In essence, everyone is selfish, but the amount of wealth in his hand determines what form he shows it.

In the eyes of many people, selfishness is a derogatory term.

However, anyone who has read a little book will know that a very important reason why our society can develop so fast is the emergence of private ownership.

It's like you went to the factory and worked hard all day, but the reward you got was divided up by everyone.

I believe that most people will choose to cheat and play tricks instead of working hard.

Only when people are sure that their contributions can get a lot of returns will they be more motivated to engage in labor production.

Therefore, if people are not selfish, this society will definitely be chaotic.

2. Earn benefits for yourself

In real life, many people like to stand on the moral high ground and accuse those selfish behaviors, saying that people have personality problems and are not qualified to be human at all.

But if you think about it carefully, why do people who say such things generally call others selfish?

It must be in the process of communication that others get more benefits and give themselves too little.

So it seems that they are a very just party, and scolding those selfish people is actually just hating themselves for getting too little benefit.

Others have many benefits, so you can put a selfish hat on them. What you think is that if others pay more, you can get more benefits.

Isn't this behavior another kind of selfishness?

Many people may have been in society for a short time and always like to be misled by other people's remarks.

Think that others are consistent in their words and deeds, so believe what they say.

But when you stay in the society for a long time, you will find that you can judge a person not only by what he says, but also by what he does.

If we can have this kind of thinking, we will have less chances to be cheated in this society.

Those who are often cheated, because they are too greedy and think that others can be sincere to themselves, will not reflect on themselves after being cheated, but throw the pot to others.

In fact, this is a very stupid practice.

If you don't change, you will continue to be cheated in the future.

3. Too little experience

The more a person cares about something, the more he will show off something, and naturally he will be tortured when he can't get it.

Many diaosi watch small movies in rental houses every day because there are too few women who have experienced it.

Every time I go to the airport, I have to take photos and send a circle of friends, but there are too few flights.

Therefore, I will seize the opportunity to prove to others that I am not a bumpkin.

Put it down, you can't just talk without practice.

You have to go through it before you can talk about letting go.

If you say that money is not important every day when you are still earning 3000 yuan, isn't this treating others as sand sculptures?

When something is not important to you, there is only one situation, that is, you are tired of playing.

Only people who eat abalone every day are qualified to say that abalone is not delicious.

If you don't experience it often, give advice to others and say it's not fun or delicious here.

It will definitely be seen as a joke by others.