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In order to change my son's habit of surfing the Internet secretly, I didn't scold, punish or hit him, but treated him well until I didn't believe him and achieved good results.

However, it is not so easy to say it to the child's conscience. There was an episode in the middle.

After about two weeks, my son couldn't help surfing the internet secretly once, and his mother caught all the stolen goods again. As soon as I opened the door that day, my wife gloated at me: Your son secretly played games online again, and your method seems useless!

At that time, I was so angry that my anger seemed to be ignited again, but I suppressed my anger. If I lose my temper simply and rudely, my previous kindness to him will be in vain. So I had a brainwave and made a risk plan.

"Son, dad was so good to you, and you promised dad, and you persisted well for two weeks. Now you see, even my father was scolded by my mother. "

Seeing my sad face, I was originally a son who didn't care, and I felt guilty inside. See effective, so I added a knife, "if you don't keep your word, then I don't care, or let my mother take over you."

Hearing this, my son burst into tears. In crying, there are both regrets and fears.

At this point, in fact, I really want to tell you that conscience should not only be too good to believe people, but also have some extreme measures. Without this means, there is no power. But this method should be used skillfully.

How to use it? It is Laozi's three secrets: ruling the country with righteousness, using troops with strangeness, and taking the world with nothing. Let's talk tomorrow.

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