Talking about why I hate rural students from my growing experience.

I grew up in a small town in the northeast of China. From primary school to high school, most of my classmates are rural students.

I want to briefly talk about "why I hate rural people" according to the characteristics of rural students observed in my personal growth experience. If my opinion is one-sided, I hope to tell the truth!

1. Feature 1: Suppress individualism with collectivism.

Being in the northeast, it is not difficult to feel the collectivism culture, and collectivism can bring a good side. In this epidemic, the performance of the people of China is witness.

But personally, I have also seen the negative impact of collectivism, and I will use some examples to illustrate it:

Example 1: The tragedy of the senior high school entrance examination: During the senior high school entrance examination, foreign students came to our school to take the senior high school entrance examination. Two of them quarreled with our students in the canteen, and a large group of boys from our school came to support them. The contradiction between one or two people turned into a group fight. Due to the small number of foreign students, they are at a disadvantage. The vice principal personally participated in the beating and some students were killed. Even in this extreme situation, many foreign students who did not participate in campus quarrels were beaten because they were not "our people". Think about it today, is it necessary?

When I was growing up, I thought there were many such incidents. Students in two classes fought on a large scale. The reason is often because of the contradiction between one or two students in two classes. How can the contradiction between two people involve two classes? Not because of the collectivism of rural people. "You have offended my brother, why not?"

I was even more impressed when the two schools fought in groups. One of the schools didn't have the dominant number of students, and then fled in a hurry. Among them, a girl in this school was injured in the leg and unfortunately left alone. Later, he was caught by a large group of boys in the other school, and then he was badly beaten by Lun Jian. There is nothing the police can do. How can so many people catch her? Finally, I had to catch an early bird!

China people should pay attention to life and collective consciousness, consider problems from their own small groups, and do not treat people outside the group as human beings, but rarely consider problems from the whole society like citizens in big cities. With the acceleration of urbanization, many traditional disadvantages still exist in the rural population.

Don't call me bad. What's your problem? ":

We found that the problems of rural students around us can be extremely bad. We all admit internally that you "outsiders" can't do it! Fuck you!

In high school, the history teacher in our class was sick and absent, so the history class in our class was replaced by the history teacher in another class. The teacher didn't teach well at all, and the students had great opinions. One of the students complained about the space, and as a result, the students from another class came to settle accounts with us, and the complaining students were surrounded. Fortunately, the security office arrived in time!

? I grew up with this example, "We can be poor! But if you have any opinions, you must hold back. If you dare to express it, you will be complete! "

Example 3 "Nike Incident"

? In the third grade, there was a boy in the city who liked sports, so there were many Nike shoes, and he changed them every few days, which made the students in the countryside very disgusted. The boy was isolated and threatened by the words on QQ.

? After this incident, this classmate was asked by the teacher to talk, and the teacher's words even contained a little reprimand. "Think more about other people's feelings and don't be too self-centered!"

? Today, I like to ask, what clothes and shoes to wear is a person's personal freedom, and whether family conditions can bear it. To put it bluntly, it will interfere with your eyes. After that, our country will raze luxury residential areas and high-grade houses to the ground, so as not to interfere with your eyes.

? They always have a deep consciousness in their minds-you can't be too special when you stay in a class group! I'll isolate you if it's special!

Example 4 "Noisy Boy":

Urban civilization pays attention to diversity, respects differences and respects individuality, while the rural boys around me are just the opposite. They have a strong gender order (as if men should be quiet and calm), and they are weak and depressed about the "dissidents" they don't like.

In high school, there was a very noisy boy in the class who liked pranks. Once there was a cosplay meeting in the class. He wore a women's dress and was laughed at by the boys in the next class. Another rural boy in the next class doesn't like it! It seems that I usually have a problem with this boy in our class and think he is noisy! It does not conform to the traditional gender order in the eyes of rural people, that is, men should be stable, mature and quiet.

As a result, the noisy boy once committed a crime and had a conflict with another rural boy in our class. It happens that the rural boys in my class have a good relationship with the rural boys in the next class. At that time, a large group of people were found beating the noisy boy. Afterwards, I asked the reason for hitting people. "If he is not pleasing to the eye, who told him to make trouble at ordinary times and deserved it!"

Today, I want to ask, what are the clauses in China law and code of conduct for middle school students that say people can't make trouble? You are used to the monotonous soybeans and sorghum in your yard, the "Brother XX" who is desperate for loyalty in your countryside, and the "strict father" at home. You can't respect other people's lifestyles when you arrive in the city?

If you don't like others, are you fooling them? How to live must meet your psychological expectations. Live by your logic?

What is revealed behind this is a set of selfish thinking logic!

2. Feature 2: Talk about human feelings rather than the law of justice.

Under the collective consciousness of rural students, a habit has been derived-dealing with problems with human laws instead of social axioms and national laws, and accustomed to minimizing major problems and solving them internally, which to some extent covers up evil. You must be "elegant", conform to the laws of rivers and lakes, and have human feelings, otherwise you will be considered a "villain"!

High school is a battle high school, once! A boy in a class was beaten by a group of rural students. Who knows that this boy has an extreme personality and carries a knife with him? In an emergency, he stabbed two people in self-defense. Judge's first trial-justifiable defense, can this rural person be happy? Almost everyone in the village made trouble at the school gate, beating judges and parents.

Finally, the boy was not allowed to transfer.

China law stipulates that people can't defend themselves properly? You have to lie like a log, so I will call you? What did you think before hitting someone?

3 Feature 3: No progress.

The low efficiency of classroom teaching is closely related to the existence of rural students. A class lasted for 45 minutes. Because of discipline problems, rural students were talked for a while by the teacher and played some jokes with the teacher, so the time was occupied.

Do not make progress! Don't study every day, I don't need to say more about this! Rural students are short-sighted compared with urban students!

And the result? Nothing promising, the children born are not as good as you!