Middle-aged women said frankly: In the face of an derailed husband, the best revenge is not divorce, but which four words?

What is the biggest reason and motivation for the husband to cheat? I'm afraid many women understand the deviation and have not done deep reflection. In their minds, this behavior is simply understood as: men are philandering, don't keep the marriage agreement, and women are friends, who want to seduce everyone they meet?

Is that really the case? I'm afraid not. It is not excluded that some men are naturally romantic. There are men everywhere who have fallen from good men to cheating men.

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Most of these derailed degenerate men think that their wives are "casually dressed" and lack the charm and elegance of young women, and the biggest reason should be that there are serious problems and great obstacles in communication and communication between them.

My husband thinks that this woman is no longer like a woman, but a "tigress" or an "old woman", but my wife thinks that I have devoted my youth to this family, and I have no time to dress up from morning till night every day. No matter how bad my temper is, it is for the good of men and this family. Moreover, a thrifty woman has to be careful, so she also saves money on dressing up.

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But the problem is that a woman who doesn't put on makeup and tidy up in middle age and only wants to save money wears cheap clothes and uses her husband's money. She has always felt that life is frugal, and she will never spend money that should not be spent.

To sum up, there is only one thing: I can't make money, I can't afford expensive clothes and cosmetics, and I don't care about myself, which leads to my charm gradually disappearing, which is one of the reasons why my husband cheated.

When we came into this world, we didn't "pre-install" all the knowledge and skills, but gained something by learning, experiencing and imitating.

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Many times, we will say "we all know the truth but we can't do it", which is often because we know the truth and only because we know the meaning of the truth. However, due to our lack of relevant experience, it is difficult for us to empathize with it, so it is difficult to realize the risks and deep-seated significance attached to the truth, and then we are unwilling to do it.

Therefore, experience is very important.

Then, experience certainly includes positive experience and negative experience. After it, my friend, you will realize that "I was really wrong", and then you can discipline yourself better.