After the epidemic, please tell me, what do you think of death?

A few days ago, an article "My mother died in Wuhan isolation ward" exploded the circle of friends.

A girl's mother died in COVID-19. Before the isolation, the mother left a note for her daughter, which read:

"... the flour for making the cake expired, so I took it. Food has a shelf life. After a person survives, buy small packages and sort things so as not to forget them. Some of them at home are too useless and wasteful. Don't disturb your mother. Life should be carefully calculated. "

After writing the note, the mother was sent to the hospital for isolation and died as her illness worsened.

Because of the epidemic, I was not allowed to see my mother for the last time. My mother was directly cremated by the funeral home. The daughter chased and pulled her mother's car and shouted, Mom, Mom! ...

Mother and daughter never met again.

This is the most common mother in the world. My mother's most common words hit my heart once or twice ... and made me cry!

This not only reminds me of my father.

My father has been a particularly tall, brave, affectionate and kind person in my heart since childhood. I remember when I was a child, my father held me in front of the door. At this time, the sound of selling fresh grapes came from the roadside. Seeing the little girl next door clamoring for grapes, the neighbors refused to buy them because they were too expensive. My dad only took out ten dollars in his pocket and bought them all for the children in the neighborhood. Of course, this is just a small example. I usually go out to eat with friends. As long as my father has money in his pocket, he will definitely pay first. This is probably the reason why our family has been relatively poor. My father's generosity and willingness to lend a helping hand to my friends when they are in trouble have deeply influenced me and even affected my criteria for choosing a spouse.

But I didn't know that one day, death would be so close to our home.

The last time we met was about a month before the college entrance examination. You are ill (my father was paralyzed by a sudden cerebral hemorrhage when I was a sophomore, and has been recuperating at home ever since). Sometimes you cry like a baby and ask me to come back to see you every day. When the college entrance examination is coming, in the face of your "unreasonable" requirements, my temper is getting worse and worse, and sometimes I even yell at you. Although I come home to see you every time I am busy, I will still buy you your favorite omelet, but in the end. Who knows this has become the most regrettable thing in my life.

You left us at this time three years ago, but my family didn't tell me in order to reassure me about the college entrance examination. After the college entrance examination, my mother told me hesitantly, Dad, in fact, I don't blame my family for not letting me send you the last journey, because I know that getting into college is what you have always expected of me, although you will never have the opportunity to wait until I finish college and get paid to buy you a drink.

Sometimes, I think the years will be calm, but who knows, tomorrow and accident never know which will come first.

The epidemic from Wuhan taught us a lesson: Death is approaching, what should we do?

17 at 22: 00 on February, the epidemic has stopped 1772 people's lives forever.

Who are they? Doctor, academician, former mayor, painter, poet, bodybuilding champion …

Incarnate several deaths and become a historical chain, but most of their stories are not recorded and cannot be known.

Without this epidemic, they still live a calm and full life, living in different fields, leaving a deep imprint on this society. But who knows that sudden changes make them scatter light like stars until they are killed by COVID-19 and gradually disappear.

Perhaps only those who have personally experienced the sudden departure of their loved ones know how painful it is! We are so fragile in the face of disaster, and at that moment I remembered the "death education" that was mentioned many times.

The Tibetan Book of Life and Death once said: "We are a nation that is not prepared for death." Think about it, don't you? Our traditional culture tells us that "I don't know life, I don't know death, and I don't care outside Liuhe." We talk about "death" and we are afraid of it. However, once the accident comes, death really comes, and the endless abyss will make us unable to extricate ourselves for a long time.

In A Wonderful Story, Ma Dong talked about the influence of his father's death on himself. He said: the sudden death of his father made him unable to get over it for three years, until one day he had a dream in which his father smiled and said to him, "I didn't really leave until today, son." I am very happy to be a father and son with you for a lifetime. " We are destined to meet again! So he said, "How to face life and death is a lesson that our China culture lacks. "

Wake up every morning and turn on the news to see the latest progress of the epidemic. Facing the increasing death toll, I am thinking that this is another dark and painful moment that the family is going through.

This epidemic has made me see too many deaths and too many sorrows. I wonder if this moment would be better if we had received "death education" since childhood. In fact, death is not terrible. What is terrible is not accepting death as expected. The purpose of "death education" is not to talk about life and death, but to tell the living to be strong and "live to death" with the will of the dead!

As Gao said: death is not terrible, things and relationships will eventually disappear, and really good memories will never disappear.

Born as a man, we should be a kind and hard-working person and live up to every day given to us by God. I think even though I am old, I don't think this life is wasted.