Rules between husband and wife

1, respect each other's privacy. Everyone has his own privacy and right to privacy. As long as it is reasonable, reasonable and legal, we should respect privacy. Other privacy should be guided, re-guided, re-guided, and abide by the three rules of forgiveness, forgiveness and no forgiveness, so that the other party can restrain his behavior. 2, don't violate your lover's bottom line. Everyone's bottom line is everyone's life principle. Husband and wife should let each other know their bottom line and reach relevant agreements to prevent each other from offending. Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang. Therefore, families should formulate family-related rules, punish those who violate them, or have psychological contracts to limit each other's excessive behavior and improve their self-cultivation. Communicate face to face, don't be suspicious behind your back. The suspicion behind it will form family conflicts over time and lead to unpredictable accidents. Since the combination of Yin and He is an accident between husband and wife, why can't they communicate face to face? If you really don't love each other, why are you together? Love each other naturally, and communication is natural and clear. Don't act like a villain, it will hurt the relationship between husband and wife. 4, always blame each other, it is better to look at the problem from another angle, so as to handle things better. The other party is honest and easy to bully. The other person is your husband (wife), not your slave, not your sex tool, not even your toy. Besides, people's endurance is limited, and excessive tolerance will definitely lead to family conflicts, which is not good for anyone. Therefore, thinking more from the perspective of human nature will definitely get along well. Don't ramble about specific things. This makes things more and more complicated and causes accidents. If the other party doesn't listen and talk nonsense, the best way is to ignore or stay away from the other party and let the other party understand before communicating. 6. Don't hurt your lover's face in front of relatives and friends. Trees are afraid of peeling, and people are afraid of being sad. Why do people wear clothes is to protect personal privacy, put on a mask, give people face and make people feel at ease. In fact, respecting people and personality means taking care of others' faces properly and having equality under the principle of nature. 7. Don't treat people with things. It is easy to talk endlessly about things and people, unable to solve practical problems, easy to create contradictions, attack each other, make a long story short and distinguish right from wrong. This brings some unfavorable factors to solve the problem and returns to the struggle of different groups in the primitive social sector. Don't better understand the cause of things, find out what the other side of the problem is, how to solve it better, and find a better way to deal with things. 8. Pay attention to the scale and method when criticizing and praising people. Don't do anything that hurts your personality and dignity. It is easy to cause mutual harm, opposition and conflict, so that psychological grievances accumulate more and more, resulting in resentment and hatred. 9. The handling of major events should be informal. Don't haggle over every ounce, focus on small things, which will easily make the helper feel unhappy, affect the dissatisfaction of both parties, make them feel unhappy, and affect each other's communication. At the same time, the discord between husband and wife will bring a lot of trouble, make outsiders look at jokes and affect their credibility. 10 without permission, don't just look through each other's mobile phones and bags. Protecting the privacy of others means protecting your own privacy. As long as you think about this problem from the other side's standpoint, everything will be understood, otherwise you are an ignorant person. Don't let outsiders interfere in marital affairs. It is easy to intensify contradictions and increase mutual distrust. Husband and wife should be aboveboard, clear between public and private, and clear between right and wrong. Because husband and wife are not enemies, enemies or orcs. A friend who can tell everything, a lover who can rely on, and a bosom friend who can share joys and sorrows. So if something happens, it can be handled through communication and consultation. 12, pay more attention to the strengths and advantages of your lover. Only in this way can we improve each other's enthusiasm and ability. People need affirmation, so it is easy to communicate, so that both sides have a positive attitude and naturally play their own advantages and potentials. 13, forming a mutual psychological tacit understanding. Husband and wife should pay close attention to each other and transmit information and behavior in the way that the other person likes, which is easy to form a psychological tacit understanding. If your lover doesn't understand something, try to make it clear and don't impose it on others. Learn to be a guidance coach to facilitate spiritual communication. Rules between husband and wife 2 1. First of all, treat both parents as their own, treat them equally and be equal and filial. Secondly, be honest with each other and don't hide evil intentions. Don't complain blindly about the shortcomings between husband and wife, but learn to accept everything from each other. 4. Don't divide the interests between husband and wife too carefully. For the person you love, be generous when you should be generous. No matter whether the husband and wife are beautiful or ugly, don't treat each other as jokes. 6. Don't do things at ordinary times. Great things should be discussed and done, and small things should be done seriously. 7. Don't talk too impulsively, and don't talk about divorce at any time. 8. No matter what happens, always consider the problem from the other side's point of view. Don't doubt each other easily. 9. Life needs a little romance once in a while, and you should show your love to each other more. 10, whatever you do must be approved by the other party. Do as little as possible to make the other person unhappy. Although the rules between husband and wife are husband and wife, after all, they are two people with two heads. There's always a little difference. If it is not the same, it will easily lead to contradictions, and it is necessary to make three chapters. First, the ten rules for my husband: 1, you can make small fights at ordinary times, but don't be fierce, and you can't really lose your temper with me. No matter how headstrong and unreasonable I am in the future, don't do anything to me. I was born a daughter, but I was still a baby. It's your pleasure to marry you. Love me, don't do it. I am lazy, but I love feelings very much, so you should also love cleanliness and take a bath often. Don't deal with your man's sloppy behavior after marriage. You are allowed to love three people at the same time, but these three people are designated, that is, my mother, my daughter and me, and don't think about anything else. No matter how old I am, I am a treasure. I am not allowed to abandon me when I am old. 6. Don't flirt around outside. If you betray me, I will show you the charm of your daughter-in-law. 7. When I am happy, you should be happy with me. When I am unhappy, you should make me happy. I don't expect you to be rich now, but at least you should have a lofty ideal and work hard for it, at least let me see that you may become a rich man in the future. 9. Don't lie to me. Keep your promise. 10, when others bully me, no matter whether I am right or wrong, you must stand on my side. Second, the most realistic husband and wife contract is divided into three chapters: Chapter 1: Economic problems 1. The family finances are handed over to the husband, and the wife has the right to spend. 2. Spend when you should, and be thrifty when you shouldn't. Buying clothes should have a certain budget, focusing on practicality. 3. If there is a big temporary expenditure, both parties will try to solve it together. On the issue of money, there is no need for two people to talk too much about their own needs, nor can they be angry because they can't talk and one person can't solve it. Chapter two: quarrel 1. Husband and wife respect each other and can't take each other as the object of venting. No matter who started the quarrel first or who made it out of nothing, you should apologize to the other party afterwards. Give each other face in public, don't quarrel in front of parents, relatives and friends. Don't swear when quarreling. For example: not a man, fucking and so on. 4. When quarreling, you can't expose shortcomings, such as ugly, short and incompetent. You can't just leave after the quarrel, let alone spend the night outside. The cold war won't last more than a day. If you are wrong, take the initiative to admit your mistake. If the other party is wrong, point it out calmly. 6. The wrong party takes the initiative to apologize, and the innocent party should accept the apology as soon as possible. 7. Husband and wife should trust each other. When they have questions, they should ask them face to face. They should not doubt and trust each other for no reason. Both sides should regard each other as the other half of their lives. 8. If you have entertainment in the evening, you should inform the other party in advance. If possible, drink less and be safe when you go home. 9. Make a good quarrel record, analyze the reasons and try to fight as little as possible. The party who quarrels actively every time will be fined 100. Chapter III: Life Problems 1. Husbands are not allowed to call their wives: big face, fat man, etc. You can't lose your temper with your wife. If his wife cries, he should take the initiative to apologize and hug her. 2, you can give your husband various nicknames, such as: smelly husband, bad husband, big bad guy and so on. But the husband can only name his wife baby, and no other names are allowed. 3. You can watch the ball at night, but the time for watching the ball should not exceed 10:30, except for family holidays. Husband should buy his wife clothes, shoes and other necessities every month.