Tell me about the poor people you met.

For a man, whether his career is successful or not and whether he has a certain economic foundation is actually very important. In today's society, many women are actually very capable and independent, so their eyes on men have become higher. Sometimes, men are self-motivated but just have no money. Even if the woman doesn't care, her family will feel inappropriate.

Life is realistic. Whether a man has money is very important in his life circle and in his future marriage and family. Do you know that the poorer a person is, the more likely he is to show these three behaviors? One sentence is very accurate!

1, complaining all day, never considering your own shortcomings.

In fact, look at men with successful careers and good economic strength around them. They are good at being human and self-motivated. Those men will make money by their own abilities, attract their own experience of success or failure, and make themselves better and better. They will not attribute all the reasons to social unfairness or others' unappreciation, but concentrate on improving themselves.

Men who really don't have much money and envy other people's money all day long will only complain about social injustice, that no one appreciates themselves, and that those rich people are rich second generation, without really thinking about their own shortcomings. Such a man will only get poorer and poorer in the future, because he will only be angry and complain in his heart and will not change the status quo with practical actions.

2, vanity, pretending to be rich.

Some men have weak economic strength and pretend to be rich. In front of friends and the opposite sex, they always brag about how good their relationship is and how strong their family background is. But after getting along for a long time, you will find that such a man will always talk about it. In fact, his life is very ordinary.

Really rich men don't talk all day, and those poor men are just afraid that others will see that they have no money, so they will try their best to prove that they have money in words. This kind of man has great vanity and self-esteem. In fact, such a man might as well use his self-esteem in his career and really improve his quality of life.

3, haggle over every ounce, can't eat a little loss.

Some people live frugally even if they are really rich, but the poor are different. Men who really don't have much money are very stingy in life. They can't eat at all, and even behave very haggard in front of women. Nine times out of ten such men are poor.

If a woman goes out with a man, every time she goes out on a date, the man will AA with you and even have the cheek to ask the woman to pay. Such a man is basically a "poor boy". Therefore, people always say that you can't even talk about love without money, which is true. Men should be generous and gentlemanly in front of women, otherwise women may have opinions about you.

Money is obviously not the standard to measure whether a man is a good man, but it is indeed a very important reference condition for women to choose objects now.

No matter whether a man has money or not, he should be sincere and loyal in love first. Good love can also make people progress and grow.