What do you think of "daughter, your brother is unfilial, and my parents will depend on you in the future"?

People often compare their daughters to small cotton-padded jackets, which are not only cute, but also warm, and can dispel the cold even in cold winter.

This is probably what a daughter should have. In real life, most daughters are the most distressed parents. No matter where they are and what kind of life they live, they will never forget their parents' kindness.

It is precisely because of this that many parents gradually realize the importance of their daughters. As the saying goes, it is reasonable to raise a woman and know the good parents. Compared with her son, her daughter is more careful and filial.

Even so, there are some parents who prefer boys to girls in this world. Even now, 2 1 century, even though the feudal society is far away from us, their thoughts have not changed.

In a patriarchal family, daughters will never get the warmth they deserve, because all parents think and think about their sons, and daughters will always be redundant to them.

It wasn't until 10 years old that I realized how patriarchal my parents were. At this time, I began to understand gradually. I began to understand that all people living in this world are equal, but my parents brainwashed me before, but it was a very distorted existence.

They often teach me that if I am a sister, I should take good care of my younger brother and leave the food and fun at home to my younger brother. This is my duty as a sister.

My mother even told me more than once that sons and daughters are different. Men are nobler than women, and women should be inferior to men.

Now their thoughts are not only extreme, but also terrible. They made a cage for me and tried to imprison my mind. Fortunately, I am a freedom-loving bird, and my thoughts have long been out of their control.

After I graduated from junior high school, my parents wanted me to drop out of school. They think it is useless for girls to read more books. In the future, they will get married and have children anyway, so they might as well leave the money to their younger brother.

I knelt before them and begged them to give me another chance. As long as the college entrance examination is over, I won't use their money again. In order to get them to agree to continue my studies, I promised to do most of the housework.

In this way, I do housework while going to school and work hard every day. The younger brother, like the prince at home, does nothing every day, but still lives in a privileged position.

Fortunately, all my efforts have paid off. After the college entrance examination, I successfully entered the ideal university and left this place that made me hate.

It is often said that the palms of the hands are all meat, and sons and daughters are equally important, but some parents will never think of their daughters. Even if their daughter has a bright future, it will only hinder them.

Before I went to college, my parents always advised me to give up my studies and go out to work, because my brother has already started high school, and there are still many places to spend money in the future. They see that other people's children are working to make money, so they also hope that I can make some contributions to my family as soon as possible.

I am not driven by others, I want to go my own way. I never pay attention to what they think. I told them clearly that going to college was my dream since I was a child. Now that I have been admitted to the ideal school, I will naturally not give up.

They scolded me and even told me never to come back. I didn't say much. I packed my bags and went where I wanted to go. After four years in college, I studied very hard and was busy doing part-time jobs.

Every winter and summer vacation, I don't go home. I will use this rare time to go out and make money as a tutor. Although it is a little hard, I have successfully finished college.

A person's fate is in his own hands. Maybe we have encountered hardships and even many unfair things, but as long as we can take the initiative to seize the throat of fate, we can change our present life.

If I had done as my parents asked, I would have been married and had children and lived a hard life. Fortunately, I have a clear head and know what I want. After graduating from college, I entered a large enterprise. After several years of hard work, I have been promoted to department manager, and my monthly income has reached more than 15000.

A few years ago, my parents' old house was suddenly demolished and a lot of money was distributed at once, which is naturally a great good thing for them. I never thought of going back for a piece of the action, so they naturally left all their money to their younger brother.

I will work hard for what I want. They don't have me in their hearts, so I rely on myself. In this world, only myself will never abandon me.

In this way, after several years, I seldom went home, and they never took care of me. But just last week, my parents suddenly found me and said to me, "Daughter, your brother is unfilial, and my parents will rely on you in the future."

I was shocked and appalled. Over the years, when they got rich, they didn't want to talk to me at all. Now, how can they come to me and let me support my old age?

My parents told me that my younger brother was unfilial and had driven them out of the house since he got married. He listens to his wife in everything, and now he doesn't want to live with them, so they want me to take them in to raise them.

I refused their request directly, saying that it was too late to find me now. And tell them that the money I should give will not be less, but I must share it with my brother and the amount I should give must be within a reasonable range. As for the rest, they dare not even think about it. It is also because of this refusal that they scold badly. But even if they scold again, I think I'm right.

Bian Xiao has something to say:

Everyone is mutual, and parents and children are no exception. Only when the father is kind can the son be filial.

There is a ridiculous law in society now. When many parents talk about the division of property, the first thing they think of is their own son, because they think that their son is the family heritage and their daughter is an outsider, so naturally they have no right to inherit the family property.

But when it comes to providing for the aged, they will think of their daughters, because they think that their children are born to them and they should bear the obligations as daughters.

It is natural for children to support their parents, but parents should also grasp their own bottom line.

Wouldn't it be ridiculous if you never gave your daughter warmth and love, or even caused great harm to her life, and you hope to achieve the goal of caring for the elderly through her when you are old?

People are mutual, so are parents and children. If you want to be filial to your daughter and have a carefree old age, you must first be a respectable parent.