Say it without preaching the evil of others.

Endure it, spring blossoms, give way and have a bright future. Many people in life are not necessarily tit for tat; Many things in life don't have to be debated. Endurance is a mind; Qin is a kind of heart. Put down the fire that is about to erupt, and the situation that is about to erupt will be calm. What is needed is forbearance, and the important thing is to let go. Some words will gradually understand; Some things will come to light. Don't worry, be patient and tolerant, and life is beautiful.

Who can keep this peace of mind in this noisy and crowded world? People pursue interests and exclude others. However, when chasing something, you will definitely lose something else: something very precious. If you can put aside your materialistic distractions and keep this rare peace in your heart. You will find that the sky is so wide, the earth is so wide and life is so interesting.

Life is ups and downs, life is the ups and downs of the month, walking in the world, it is important to have a grateful heart, gratitude is the sunshine and rain of life, a person who knows how to be grateful must be a kind person, a person with a broad mind and a clear heart. With a grateful heart, you can feel the moisture of a drop of water, the fragrance of a flower, and you can read the warmth from other people's smiles.

There are always opportunities. If you can't grasp them, don't complain, maybe you are not good enough. Don't waste time easily. Only by cherishing time can we improve ourselves and enjoy life. The straight line between two points is not necessarily the shortest, and sometimes twists and turns can reach the end point faster; If you are wrong, stop; Put it down if you can't get it; Walking is not as fast as possible, but the right direction is more important.

When we send flowers to others, the first thing we smell is ourselves; When we throw dirty things at others, we must get our hands dirty first. So, why not give people warmth? When we give warmth to others, don't we get a deep pleasure? Therefore, we should strive to be selfless, love and be kind to others.

If you are sad all day, you will naturally be sad. If you look angry, you are bound to have resentment. You are optimistic and kind, of course you have a kind heart. The expression is instantaneous, and the expression is frozen. Therefore, philosophers say that before 10, your face is unpleasant, which is your parents' fault, but if you still have an annoying face after 30, it must be your own problem. From today on, smile every day, even if everything you meet is annoying.

Jealousy is a very unhealthy mentality. When facing our jealous friends, we should be sympathetic. No one wants to get sick, either physically or psychologically. Try to treat each other with tolerance and love, as long as you don't lie, try to say something that makes each other happy. If you find that you can't alleviate each other's troubles, just smile. To understand each other's attitude, it is difficult to do things well if you are not healthy, and it is difficult to say things well if you are not mentally healthy.

The less desire, the happier life. Desire and satisfaction are the two ends of the scale. If you have more desires, happiness and happiness will automatically decrease. Proper weight loss for desire can make the balance of happiness more balanced. Greed is the natural enemy of happiness. If you want to be truly happy, you must learn to be calm and satisfied. Only by reducing desire and increasing satisfaction can we get rid of greed; Only by giving up and being indifferent can we get peace of mind.

People have four pains: first, they can't see through. I can't see through the entanglement in interpersonal relationships, the hidden injury after struggle, the dullness in the hustle and bustle, and the tranquility after prosperity. The second is reluctant. I can't stand those wonderful and untimely years, and I can't stand the vanity and applause when I am above. Third, I can't afford to lose. Can't afford to lose a relationship, can't afford to lose a life. Fourth, I can't let it go. I can't let go of people and things that have gone far away, and I can't let go of right and wrong that have long been dusty.

No one will know how good you are, because most people in this world don't care about you. If you are really good, you will be a reason for others to be jealous. People can tolerate the ordinary, but can't tolerate the excellent. The better people are, the more they will be hated and hit. So when you are under pressure, don't let yourself fall into mediocrity. Because jealousy itself is a kind of hope.

Happiness is contentment, and contentment is always happy. Don't compare who is good and who is bad; Never mind who is tall and who is low; Never mind who is rich and who is poor. In this world, a lot of pain is caused by comparison; A lot of trouble lies in inattention. You are much stronger, and your heart is naturally uneven; If you think too much, you will naturally be upset. Life, how can everything go well, everything goes well, there are always people who live better than us, and there are always people who do better than us. Look up, your neck will always be tired, don't always accumulate melancholy in your heart. Face life calmly, and you will be happy if you know how to be satisfied. No matter how good the fate is, it can't stand perfunctory, and no matter how deep the feelings are, you need to cherish your eyes. Songs can be repeated in a single cycle, so people can't miss the reappearance; Love can be indifferent, but the heart can't turn a blind eye. People who care about you don't care about eternity, but more about whether you want to have it or not; People who forgive you are willing to forgive everything because they don't want to lose the world with you. In fact, there are not many people in this world who can take you to heart. Know how to be kind to each other and cherish what is worth having now.

If the heart carries too much, it will be heavy. The heart is not a swill jar, everything is put in it. Overloading the heart affects both health and happiness. Get rid of the baggage and let the heart beat normally and happily.

The most precious thing is not money, but true feelings; The most favorable thing is not the future, but benevolence. What I fear most is not disaster, but betrayal; The most terrible thing is not failure, but deception. The most extravagant thing is not a mansion, but a home; The worst thing is not scolding, but silence. The widest is not the sky, but the mind; The best thing is not the future, but this moment. The most priceless thing is not time, but faith.

In life, there are always some people who pass by us but have no time to meet them; Met, but it was too late to get to know each other; We know each other, but we still have to say goodbye. Life is a road, how can there be no potholes; Life is a glass of wine, full of ups and downs; Life is colorful silks and satins, and it is also a picture that is difficult to describe; Life is a vine, summed up a few bitter gourd; Life is a song that sings the joys and sorrows of life.

Many things have to be done by yourself, in order to deeply understand the taste; A lot of things, you have to rely on yourself to carry, you will gradually understand the weight; A lot of things, you have to think for yourself, and it becomes clearer and clearer. In fact, the world in my heart is very simple and does not need any conditions; It is clean and does not allow any impurities; Because of thinking, because of kindness, because of love and beauty.

All the troubles in life are found by yourself. An empty heart, such as an empty cup, can be leisurely. A person's mind, if it can be like a lotus, like the sun and the moon, detached from things, without distinction, without choice, without love and hate, without gain and loss, can be at ease and peaceful. Water flows downwards, clouds float to the sky, and everything happens naturally and harmoniously. This is the normal state of mind. Life is like running water, returning to nature, which is to realize life and Zen.

Tell me about my troubles.

Tell me about my troubles.

One day, I learned all kinds of troubles of my friends, some of them were worried about work, getting married, not being pregnant with children, and there were many contradictions at home. Compared with them, my troubles are ok, so be grateful.

Second, the greatest happiness in my life is that I can treat my mother as a friend, and I don't care about her feelings and talk about my heart. And she accepted it like a trash can and told me what to do! ! I don't care about her feelings, because I love her very much, just like everything I do now is to prepare for loving her better in the future! ! !

Third, there have been a lot of troubles recently, which are very chaotic and complicated, making the unintelligent brain heavy and inadequate, maybe old, preoccupied and distracted. I can find that books are good food, always, but not before, and it's not too late now. Reading makes my heart very calm, as calm as water!

Fourth, today is my dream come true! Struggled for several years! My life creed is: there is always a reward for giving! Persistence is victory! 20xx is a very smooth year for my personal development! Thank you very much for your kindness! I claim to have passed every exam! Of course, it also gave me confidence! An unconfident person, I am confident now! I hope my life is as prosperous as my career! You did a good job. Less trouble, more happiness!

I have a bad temper, so don't challenge my bottom line. Or I'll get you out of here with the trouble you've caused.

6. I will conquer nature, and I have found my own opportunity. When something bothers me, I can only say three words and I won't let anyone look down on me.

Seven, running today is very easy. On the sixth day, I hope my goal will be realized as soon as possible, and I hope I will be happy every day without so many troubles! Ann ~

Eight, a lot of troubles, even if I lose my moral integrity, I still have things that I won't throw away. Like my beauty!

Nine, the lack of enthusiasm in the tone, we are not fools, we understand each other but say nothing, even the last tacit understanding is left. I feel tired. I can't accept that I don't care and need to be considerate. This is a disease that I can't do. Women are naturally sensitive. My sixth sense tells me that I can't hold on this time. I hope I'm wrong. Otherwise, what I did before was not very embarrassing, and I was often envied by others, but they didn't understand that everyone had their own troubles.

I made a mess of my life. I have too many troubles to solve. If I want to jump out of the cycle of fate, let me see some hope.

Eleven, the first week of school, I found that my adaptability is strong again, and I slowly learned to ignore some troubles and concentrate on what I like. I hope junior year is not pale.

12. If I can, I really want to live a carefree life alone. Nothing in the world is perfect. Without him, my world is not perfect. It's a pity that I always think too much about others. I have to be considerate of him, work hard and convince myself that this is temporary. I will be fine in the future. So far, I am still like this. I carry the unhappy things myself, and the grievances remain the same.

Today is the first day of September. May all good luck, luck, happiness and blessings continue to accompany you, me and her. All the troubles and misfortunes are gone with the wind. May yours, mine and hers be happy, healthy and happy in September!

Fourteen, from a high-spirited teenager to a vibrant youth, how did I become a sloppy middle-aged uncle step by step? Probably because I lost myself in blind comparison, didn't know what my goal was, what I pursued, and gave up my dream. Perhaps in the face of more and more troubles, pressures and helplessness, I slowly occupied all my heart and had too many negative emotions. Maybe you can't get it because you don't have enough virtue, and you can't get it because you don't work hard enough. No more complaining, no more pessimism, no more despair, and live every day for the rest of your life. You can do it.

Fifteen, it is still uncomfortable to think of it! Why is this happening? No courtesy to me, no concern, no courage to appear together! Only his chatter, his troubles, and bossing me around! What does it matter? I am so unworthy of his respect? So it was natural for him to step on it? !

There have been a lot of troubles at work recently. I don't feel strong enough. I'm a little tired and exhausted.

17 and the first day of September, there was a panic. I didn't eat dinner until after nine o'clock, and I was a little dizzy from hunger. Every time I feel that I should be more enthusiastic and responsible for my children and try harder, there will always be a lot of unfairness and troubles that can quench my enthusiasm at once. Dissatisfaction will also affect your work status and mood, because you feel that giving is not proportional to gaining.

18. Last year 10, my teacher, who had been in contact for many years, was also a close friend. This sudden death alone in the studio near my rented home gave me a great blow. In addition, there were some problems in my life and health at that time. In fact, a few weeks before his death, he went to an appointment to talk about my troubles and waited early with a book as usual. Life is so impermanent, no matter whether your story is wonderful or not, it is half-finished or just started.

In 1993, my handwriting changed from that to this, so I also became this. What about three years later? Where should I go when I grow up? There are so many troubles!

Twenty, still beautiful! ! The troubles of starting school have finally almost settled, and it's time to restore my true colors, hahaha.

Twenty-one, I have always known that there is no backing for choosing to go to graduate school. I am destined to be alone in Wuhan, and I must smile. However, when so many troubles were pressing me, I didn't expect someone to support me, which was enough to move me for a lifetime.

Twenty-two, just because I don't like to talk about my troubles, I am just an ordinary person like you.

23. I wish I could have a smaller circle and meet a few people. A few friends who love me very much can be bored together every day. I can be happy every day. No one will know me without saying hello. I'm not that worried. No one is unkind to my friends and doesn't want to be wronged. I just lack someone who can understand me and expect someone who can't leave me, which makes me very happy.

24. Married life is not as good as expected. The life of two people is so tired. May I say, do I miss being alone? I am not afraid of loneliness. I'm afraid I'll go crazy. I gave you all I have. You gave me a broken heart and a knife. I'm really scared. I also thought very well and was very happy, but I found that after being together, we had too many troubles and trifles.

25. How can we have no negative energy? How can I not worry? How can there be no pressure? I'm just complaining. What's the use of worrying about people who love me and people who hate me watching jokes? Even if I say I am unhappy, what can I change? I must always keep a clear head. I can't get lost. I can't see clearly that I chose the right path because of other people's good words and stuck to it.

Twenty-six, I've been on my mind too much recently, and I can't help it. I can't go on living like this. My parents will make me impulsive once. Please believe me, I will take care of myself outside. Only by improving yourself can you live a better life, otherwise even I will look down on myself, let alone others. I don't want you to give me my life, I will learn to grow up.

Twenty-seven, in addition to going to work, playing league games, watching movies and dancing every day, I often go out to play with my good friends, which can be said to be very happy. I feel that there is nothing to worry about in my life, and nothing special will happen. Even if it happens, I will comfort myself and enlighten myself. Strong enough to scare yourself. Today, I learned another thing, dear. No matter what job you do, you will be as upset as my job and want to forget it.

Whenever something bothers me, I always call my mother to complain, but when my mother calls me, I always say a few words coldly and then hang up. It's unfilial to think about it. I will treat my mother well in the future, because she is my closest relative!

Twenty-nine, did you sleep soundly when you were drunk and forget a lot of troubles? But why do I drink so well that I have never been drunk until now?

Thirty or September, but you will never see September again. There is no disease in the sky, no worldly wisdom, and no trouble in the sky. I believe you and your aunt will be very happy there, but I will still think of your smiles when you see me, and I will feel sorry for the suffering of two white-haired old people.

Thirty-one, I told others about the unhappy things that happened today. If he is sincere to me, it will become the trouble of two people. I don't know if my sadness will be halved. If he is not sincere to me, there will be one more joke. I don't know whether my sadness will be halved or whether it will increase the pain of being laughed at. But how many people in this world are sincere to me?

32. The wind that glides across the river is full of rich spring fragrance, and that kind of strong feeling hinders my breathing as if I have to stop and rest, but when I want to stop, I think something will happen, so I just keep walking.

Classic talk, others will comment.

First, loss is always lost, and reality can always pull you back. Don't comfort yourself like ah q, my heart hurts, and I won't give up. So what? How can you fly with a broken wing? How can you care about me if you can't see sadness? Struggle alone in the dark!

Second, don't implicate yourself, and don't implicate others. Be careful if you are good to yourself; If you are kind to others, you should care. Looking at others is annoying; Look at yourself, smart student. When you cling to something, you may only have it forever. If you are willing to let go, you will get other options.

Third, memories are as vicissitudes as rings, and we still maintain the attitude of looking up in memory. The mountains are stacked, you said, looking up is the farthest place, no one can stop you, you pursue your dreams and hopes. From then on, you abandoned the bleak words, but broke my warm wings.

Fourth, don't forget what you once had, don't give up what belongs to you, and keep what you have lost as a memory.

5. Crisis equals danger plus opportunity. However, there is also a crisis behind the opportunity.

6. Why is it so painful to forget someone? Time will make you forget. If time can't make you forget people you shouldn't remember, what's the point of our lost years?

Seven, if you fall in love, don't miss the opportunity easily. Reckless, may make you regret for a while; Cowardice may make you regret it all your life.

Eight, people often lament the lack of beauty in life, because of the lack of a pair of eyes to find beauty.

If I hadn't met so many people in my life, I might not feel so tired now! Hate a person how tired, really can't say it! I hate you, I hate that you don't keep the agreement and disappear, I hate you, I hate that you left without saying goodbye, I hate you, and I hate why you met me.

I didn't stop loving you, I just stopped showing it, because no matter how hard I tried, you wouldn't understand.

If love can be explained, vows can be revised, and if our meeting can be rearranged, then life will become easier.

Look at the sky when you are sad. It's so big that it can certainly hold all your grievances.

Thirteen, you should always thank all sentient beings who have given you adversity.

Fourteen, there is only one reason for confusion, that is, the age of struggle, thinking too much and doing too little.

Fifteen, do a good job of being busy, salt-free and dull.

16. Discipline yourself and leave others alone.

Seventeen, my life has become rich and colorful because of your company. I want to say to you: your goodness and your badness will be the wealth of my life!

I miss you, but I can't tell you. Just like a pear tree, you will never bear an apple. I miss you, but I can't tell you, just like a rainbow hanging high in the sky, no one can ever touch it. I miss you, but I can't tell you, just like the track of a train, there will never be a boat passing by. I miss you, but I really can't tell you. I'm afraid that if I do, it will be a kind of torture for you.

Nineteen, sleepless nights, looking at the air with orange lights outside the window, I actually have a sense of collapse, feeling that everything around me is spinning rapidly and changing rapidly, suddenly the sky is dark and the stars are shifting. The only thing that hasn't changed is myself.

Twenty, love cannot follow one's inclinations. Facing the cruel reality, it has too much helplessness. Even in the face of rare true love, I can only endure the pain and let go, leaving a regret and memory as the only warmth left. Because, no matter how strong you are, you can't resist the power of fate!

Twenty-one, with all my heart to pay homage to this crazy world, eager to destroy. Light the torch of despair and watch all the lies burn at dawn.

Twenty-two, giving the most needed aspects is not within the scope of material wealth, it exists in the unique field of human nature.

23. Why are others enthusiastic about you? It's simple, because you don't belong to him yet, because you are fresh, because you are excellent. In feelings, people are always full of enthusiasm at first, and then they become more and more indifferent. There is no need to care too much. This is human nature. The point is that he didn't leave you after the enthusiasm faded. In fact, caring for each other is only getting more and more dull, but it is still inseparable from that person.

It is very philosophical to say that others must comment on the 2020 classic.

When you feel inferior to others everywhere, don't feel inferior, remember that you are just an ordinary person. Don't be sad when others ignore you. Everyone has his own life, and no one can always accompany you. When you see others laughing, don't think that you are the only one who is sad in the world. In fact, others just hide better than you. You can cry when you are helpless, but you must cheer up after crying. Don't lose your smile even if you lose everything.

God is fair, what you give is what you get. What we may harvest is not what we originally imagined, and the harvest time may not be what we originally hoped, but there will be gains. We pay the sweat and get the reward; Pay time and gain knowledge; Give your heart and get love; Pay the price and gain experience; Work hard and grow. Life is not an equivalent exchange, so don't haggle over everything.

Only when you taste the pain, can you cherish the happiness that you ignore; Only when you know how to appreciate the ordinary can you collect the happiness that was discarded at the beginning. Without pain, the feast of life will be dull; Without the ordinary, the picture of life is shallow. It's no use complaining. No matter whether you laugh or cry, no one will listen to you. Fantasy is useless, whether you go or stop, we have to face the bloody cruelty in reality.

We must admit that many of our prejudices and paranoia have become our own life puzzles and obstacles, and even the high eyebrows and low eyes of others have become the standard for us to observe the world. In our own narrowness, we have lost a lot of fairness and objectivity, and even other people's burps and farts have become the reason for our ridicule. What needs to be sober is that our own simplicity and truth are the real cultivation of life.

When a flower fades, we won't cry. We already know that it is impermanent. If we practice to realize the impermanence of nature, we can suffer less and enjoy more life. Only when you know that things are impermanent will you cherish the present. We know that the people we love are impermanent, so we should try our best to make them happy now.

Life is like the weather, predictable, but often unexpected; Disappointment and hope torment people, but hope torments people for longer; The mood can be peaceful, but not lifeless; Life is too short. If you don't give up today, tomorrow may not come. The premise of a person's luck is that he has the ability to change himself; Think of others, but live for yourself.

Life must be good, and practice is a little effort. Slow down, you can avoid regret. Self-restraint is reflected in slowness, words and deeds, endless future, slow down and stroll through life; Retreat to stay away from disaster. Learn to give in and take advantage; Increase one share and decrease one share; Giving up can raise happiness. Everything is taboo, things in America are taboo, and people are taboo; Silence can prolong life. Make friends with weak words, stop slander with deaf words, blame yourself with lettering, and defend with weak words.

What makes people suffer and worry is often not the situation or difficulties they face, but the gains and losses they want and are afraid of losing; True freedom does not mean that a person can have whatever he wants, but that he can't do anything if he doesn't want to. The world is what we see. Once we change our point of view, the world will change.

The meditation method of calming the boiling thoughts and then freely staying in a calm state is called stopping; View is the process of understanding the essence or essence of the mind. Whether it is meditation or observation, it is very important to know how to be centered, relaxed, open and unpretentious. In fact, we can't fix ourselves in a mindless state. The result of meditation is not mindlessness, but no longer being disturbed by thoughts.

Hot water will burn you, and ice water will freeze you. Isn't it strange to be electrocuted when touching hot water and ice water? That's their essence. Life is the same, the essence is bittersweet, when you experience it, feel it, there is nothing to be surprised about.

The scenery we often see is that a person is always looking up and admiring the happiness of others, but when looking back, he finds himself being looked up and envied by others. In fact, everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often seen by others.

There is right and wrong every day, not listening to nature; Fools seek the environment without seeking the heart, while wise men seek the heart without seeking the environment; In a noisy place, you must be calm; In a cold place, you must be enthusiastic; People are ordinary because they can't surpass themselves; If there is no right or wrong, it is a good time on earth; Don't be aggressive, don't be lethal, don't brag about your abilities, don't preach the evil of others, and naturally turn enemies into friends; Satisfaction with things is always satisfactory, and people are rigid without desire.

Disciple asked the Zen master, Master, how can I control my emotions and not get angry when something happens? The Zen master said: if you are sure of cause and effect, you will not be confused. All grievances are caused by causality. If you are not confused, you will not be angry. Being angry is like drinking poison and expecting others to suffer.

If you encounter irregularities in your work and life, you should observe them calmly. How lucky it would be if things could be remedied. You shouldn't be angry and upset at all, just try to remedy it. If things are really irreversible, don't be angry and sad, because anger and worry can't change what has happened, but will only hurt yourself and others' hearts more. Bodhisattva Yoshida said: If things can still be saved, why is the cloud not prosperous? What's the use of worrying if things are no longer good?

Peace of mind is not as good as peace of mind; It is better to be broad-minded than broad-minded. Cultivate the body of nature by the way of nature; Cultivate the god of joy with joy. Fear is the most basic principle of conscience. The so-called happiness is not 1 more, but less desire. Being a man, character comes first, but can be second; Doing things, understanding first, diligence second. Life should learn not to complain, not to wait and not to follow blindly.

Give and you will get; Only if you are willing to tolerate can you be happy; Only when you are willing to be together can you have love; If you are willing to let go, you will be free and easy; Only if you are willing to smile, can you have harmony; If you are willing to give up material things, your spirit can be enriched; If you are willing to be dissolute, you can be healthy; If you are willing to care, your friends will gather; If you are willing to persist, life will be easy. Life in this world, success or failure, is between choices, there are some to give up, and there is no one to give up.

Nothing is eternal, and don't ask how to be eternal. There is a lot of helplessness in life. Please try to enrich yourself and your life. In the past today, no one knows what will happen tomorrow. What you have to do now is to be kind to this minute, this hour and this day.

Every choice must be a transcendence, otherwise don't choose; Every time you give up, you must be a sublimation, otherwise don't give up. The greatest pleasure of being a man is to realize your ideals through struggle, so choosing to give up means being more perfect, and having shortcomings means working harder. Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defect is a kind of grace. Because with new goals to struggle, life will be more exciting and life will be more fulfilling.

Help others when you are happy; Be content when you live a normal life; Learn to enjoy life in adversity. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, because it is not worth it; Don't punish others with your own mistakes, because when you hurt others, you will be hurt again; Don't punish yourself with your mistakes. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, just look for the reason carefully, learn a lesson and correct it!

People will always encounter setbacks, there will be low tides, and there will be times when they are not understood. This is precisely the most critical time in life. At such a moment, we need to wait patiently and confidently, believing that life will not abandon you and fate will not abandon you. I can't stand loneliness and can't see prosperity.

Yesterday is very important, it established our memory; Tomorrow is very important. It gives us a vision and a dream. But the most important thing is today, which is all we have to do today. Life is short, tell yourself: live every day with a positive attitude; Learn to heal the mind, don't hide in the shadow of yesterday; Do what you have to do and you will come tomorrow.

We can continue the success or failure of others, but we can't copy their perseverance before success or their mental journey after failure. Some things, from the result, we lost, but from the process, we won. Losing an opportunity, a mistake, and missing a game are all our 1 unparalleled wealth.

Life is a rainbow; Life is an art; Life is a choice; Life is a test; Life is an opportunity; Life is a school; Life is a goal; Life is a kind of wealth.