How can a child who is addicted to mobile phones get his mood back to normal?

Before answering this question, let's talk about real examples around me.

A classmate of mine has been addicted to mobile phones for decades. It can be said that she plays mobile phones whenever she is free, either chatting or playing games. Eyes bloodshot, go to the hospital for treatment. The doctor said that it was caused by the eyes watching the mobile phone, so the time for her classmates to watch the mobile phone gradually shortened. After more than half a month, she started playing mobile phones again. It's really good to forget the pain. Playing mobile phone for longer than before seems to kill her. In this way, my eyes became blurred and my vision decreased. I had an operation on my left eye for about a year. The doctor said I had to have an operation to save my right eye. In this way, the students who saved their right eyes stopped playing mobile phones. Unfortunately, there is no regret medicine in the world, and ruthless hand play has taken away your eyes. This example tells us that everything has a quantity, and if it exceeds this quantity, it will cause qualitative change. No matter adults or children, we should take good measures and not go from one extreme to the other. Only in this way can we be healthy physically and mentally.

Generally speaking, children's addiction to mobile phones is caused by the laziness of most mothers. In order to let the children leave their mothers alone, mothers can do what they like. For example, playing mahjong, shopping, or going to a beauty salon and so on. Mom will give her mobile phone to her children to play with, because then the children will not be bored, and they will not be pestering themselves all the time. Mom can also play with peace of mind, which is good for both sides. Once a child has formed a habit, it is difficult to change it. If he can't change it and becomes addicted to mobile phones at a young age, it will be extremely difficult. Playing mobile phone addiction seriously affects children's learning and growth, which is extremely harmful. How to correct it?

First of all, tell children the dangers of playing mobile phones.

If parents simply tell their children what it will be like to play with a mobile phone and where it hurts, it will not leave a deep impression on their children. Most children may feel scared after listening to it now and put down their mobile phones, but over time, this fear is worse than not letting them remember, so they will pick up their mobile phones next time. Smart parents often follow the example of people and things around them. If someone is blind because of playing with a mobile phone, it will impress the child, and the child will naturally listen and slowly quit the mobile phone.

Secondly, take the child where he wants to go.

I once saw a mother say a few words to a child who was addicted to mobile phones on the playground, and the child put down the phone. Many people should be curious about what the mother finally said. Is it loudly reprimanded or threatened by children? Blindly reprimanding and threatening will only make children rebellious and will not put down their mobile phones. Only follow the children and tell them their own bottom line and principles. Mother said, you put down your mobile phone, and mother will take you to other places to play later. I won't take you if I don't listen. Even with such a simple sentence, you can make your children obey.

Third, attract children with other interesting things.

Because children are full of curiosity, they will be easily attracted by other things. The same is true for mobile phones, because children are attracted by mobile phones, so they are so addicted to mobile phones. At this time, parents should know their children's preferences. For example, if children like to go to the playground, we should take them to play more and let them turn their attention to other places.

Mom and dad may be able to let their children put down their mobile phones, but these methods may only play a little role for children who are addicted to mobile phones. The most important thing is that parents can set an example for their children and let them form good habits from an early age, so that parents will not think of ways after their children become addicted. The best way now is-"take three chapters."

You can play games, but you must agree on the time and rules. If you violate them, you will be liable for breach of contract.

What are the benefits of "three chapters" with children?

It will make children feel more involved, and children will be more motivated and have a higher success rate when completing the agreement.

Compared with the orders imposed on him by his parents, the child will feel that the agreed plan is his own idea, and he has stronger motivation to implement the plan he participates in.

When making three chapters with children, we should pay attention to four points:

First, it is necessary to clearly point out the behaviors that children need to improve. For example, you can't play mobile phones for more than one day, and you must play mobile phones after finishing your homework. Goals should be specific, clear and easy to measure.

Second, it is necessary to clearly explain what the child can get by completing the agreement and what he will lose if he does not complete the agreement.

In this process, we should say "no" less and "yes" more.

For example: "After completing the agreement, you can go to the community to play table tennis with your children".

If you work hard in a positive direction for your child, he is more likely to achieve his goal.

Third, the agreement should be written and posted in a conspicuous place at home so that children and parents can see it at any time.

When the child completes the agreement, even if it is a phased agreement, parents should give encouragement in time.

When the child fails to complete the agreement, the liability for breach of contract must also be absolutely borne. If the liability for breach of contract is not investigated, the agreement is completely non-binding.

Fourth, the most important thing is to pay attention to the word "about" in the "Three Chapters of the Law".

In the process of reaching an agreement, we should try our best to absorb the opinions of children. Never turn an "agreement" into a one-way "command" from parents.

At any time, if our family education wants to achieve real success, it must be based on unconditional love, respect and trust for children …

Otherwise, no matter how correct our educational methods or contents are and how valuable they are to children's future, it is difficult to finally realize our educational expectations, which is of real significance to children's growth.

Answer. Farmer A Liang shared his experience with you as follows.

1. Tell you the story of the first two years. My child is 6 years old and addicted to mobile phones. He doesn't want to wash your face when he gets up every morning. You have to watch cartoons on your mobile phone. Although he can't search for the programs he wants to watch on his mobile phone by hand, children nowadays are very smart. How does he watch his own program? To tell the truth, he found it in Mandarin. If you don't give it to him, cry. It's really hard to serve.

Now let him return to normal psychology, don't look at his mobile phone, and share his experience with everyone. The first is to slowly guide him to say that children can't watch mobile phones, which has an impact on physical development and health. Then, take more time to accompany him out to play, such as going to the supermarket every afternoon and taking a walk on the road.

Take him to the supermarket to buy some toys and children's books he likes to play with. Like puzzles, drawing toys that make him think more. Let him form good habits from an early age. Teach him slowly. I hope he can become a useful talent for the country when he grows up.

Children who are addicted to mobile phones are addicted to it all day, not interested in learning and not seeking progress.

Generally speaking, such children have certain problems in communication with their families.

Some parents are too busy making a living to take care of their children. Children lack the care and supervision of their parents, from boring to addicted to mobile phones.

Other children encounter problems in their study or life, and parents and teachers only know how to blame them. In order to escape these disappointments, they hide in the online world and immerse themselves in it.

For children who are addicted to mobile phones, parents should do this:

1, parents should often take their children out to exercise, run, play ball, etc. Have a good exercise.

2. Parents should cultivate their children's hobbies and divert their attention.

Parents should set an example and play mobile phones as little as possible. At the same time, make an appointment with your child to play with your mobile phone, and then take it back.

Only good parents can have good children. Parents should be careful.

How can a child addicted to mobile phones return to normal?

Seeing this question reminds me of a word "Internet addiction teenager" many years ago. When computers, especially the Internet, just emerged, a group of teenagers (probably our teenagers) were attracted by emerging accidents and could not extricate themselves. In order to watch TV series, watch movies, play games online, climb over the wall, charge money, be caught by teachers, be trained by parents ... make teachers have a headache and parents feel sad.

The word "Internet addiction teenager" doesn't seem to be mentioned much now. Why? Because now the internet has developed to the point of "poisoning the whole people" [covering your face], who can say who is who?

So I changed the word "mobile phone addiction". Teenagers who used to be under the pressure of "internet addiction teenagers", that is, teenagers known as the "beat generation", have now grown into the backbone of the country and taken off their labels with actions! That's them. Now I am sad about my child's mobile phone, which is very nerve-racking. Put yourself in others' shoes. These children are indigenous to the Internet. It seems impossible for them to cut off their mobile phones. What we have to do is to correctly guide and use the double-edged sword of mobile phones, so that these Internet natives can use their own advantages to control their mobile phones without being enslaved by them ~

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.

The phenomenon you mentioned is really common, and many parents have a deep headache about it, but there is nothing they can do. If you don't pay attention, your child will "die" with you, or even run away from home, making parents feel great instantly. But let it go, and I am afraid that children will be addicted to it, unable to extricate themselves, and delay their studies.

Many parents think there is something wrong with their children, but I want to say, what are parents doing when their children are addicted to the mobile phone world? Why didn't his parents stop him in time? Or are parents busy playing with their mobile phones? Therefore, behind every such Xiong Haizi, there are parents' dereliction of duty.

Therefore, solving problems must start with our parents, and then children. First of all, we should give our children more company. A good mother (father) is better than a good teacher, and parents play a very important role in the growth of children and the formation of good habits. If parents can spend more thoughts and time on their children, get closer to them, talk to them and communicate with them, they can understand their inner thoughts well. We can find ways to get children out of the mobile phone world faster.

Take myself as an example. Once, I found that my daughter played mobile phone much more frequently and for a long time than before. First of all, I chose to know the situation first. When I learned that he was addicted to a make-up game called Warm Diary, I went to buy him paints and "dolls". In this way, not only successfully attracted his attention, let her put down her mobile phone, but also exercised his painting ability well.

Secondly, while accompanying children, we should also set some rules for children appropriately. After all, parents can't always be with their children. What should we do when we are not around the children? I think we can assign some tasks to children appropriately, such as practicing some words, doing some test questions, stipulating some reward and punishment measures, and implementing them firmly, so that children can realize the seriousness of not completing the tasks.

In short, educating children should be "strict and kind, * * *, and both kindness and kindness." These are some of my own ideas, I hope I can give you some help! Children's addiction to playing mobile phones is a headache for many parents, and it is also a hidden danger to ruin their children's future. There is a saying, "If you want to destroy a child, give him a mobile phone." The vast amount of information and rich content in mobile phones can always help children find what they are interested in, so students are easily addicted.

In contrast, learning has become an ascetic practice, and it is necessary to calm down and endure loneliness in order to gradually find fun. It is difficult for students who are used to playing mobile phones to do this, so they are more greedy for mobile phones and do not hesitate to pay any price.

Quitting mobile phones needs to start from the source, which is bound to be a long process and a painful process for both parents and children. First, let students have no access to mobile phones, or have parental supervision when using them. Under the epidemic situation, many students need to listen to live classes and submit their homework online. It is difficult to take care of their mobile phones at special times, so they must be accompanied by their parents or checked from time to time. Of course, students will refuse to have you around. At this time, parents should stand firm and don't change their minds because of threats or cajoling from students.

Second: let students have no time to watch mobile phones. Parents should accompany students to make a day's study task and encourage them to complete it smoothly. It doesn't matter if you can't finish it. The point is to occupy his time. You can also give him some housework appropriately. It doesn't matter if it's not done well. The key is to let him find "his own value" in your praise. You can also use the "combination of work and rest" as an excuse to let children cultivate other hobbies, such as musical instruments and painting. As long as the content is varied and can make them have fun, they will gradually alienate their mobile phones.

Behind every excellent child, there must be an excellent parent. With more patience and wisdom, many things can be solved. Come on!

Why are children addicted to mobile phones? Children are addicted to mobile phones and cannot do without their parents.

1, parental connivance. When children just started playing mobile phones, parents didn't control the time for their children to play mobile phones, which led to their addiction to mobile phones.

2. Parents cannot accompany their children. Parents will feel very tired when they come home from work on the last day. Children want to play with their parents, but their parents have no energy. Throw their children a mobile phone to keep them quiet.

3. Parents didn't set an example. Adults sometimes feel dissatisfied when they play mobile phones for a long time, let alone children. We often say that children are parents' mirrors, and they learn what you do. If they often play games and watch movies at home, then children will feel unbalanced. Why can parents play mobile phones but not themselves?

How to get children to put down their mobile phones? 1, and formulate corresponding rules. Communicate well with children and make some rules about playing mobile phones, such as when to play, how long to play, what kind of content to watch and so on.

Parents should spend more time with their children and distract their attention. When children want to play mobile phones, parents can play some parent-child games with their children, or take their children outdoors for moderate exercise to distract their attention and reduce the time of playing mobile phones.

Parents should set a good example. When parents and children are together, they should accompany their children with high quality, set an example for their children, and don't look at mobile phones.

Is it really good for children not to play mobile phones? In fact, mobile phone is a double-edged sword, which has many advantages, such as improving children's cognitive level and language ability, and helping children gain new experiences. The virtual game world also helps children broaden their horizons. We need to pay attention to moderation, moderation and moderation.

The above is my answer, I hope it will help you.

If you have other ideas, please leave a message in the comments section below.

My suggestion is to take her (him) outdoors more, and take him (her) outdoors to play more.

Because the epidemic has not really ended, schools don't start classes, and online classes are held at home. Over time, people will feel dependent on mobile phones. Playing mobile phones for a long time will be harmful to your health and make your eyes nearsighted.

Take her (him) out for a walk. [yi tooth]

Hope to adopt.

Hello, I am an art teacher and the mother of a seven-year-old child. I'm happy to answer your question.

Regarding children's addiction to mobile phones, I think there is only one direct reason: parents have problems with the time and quality of their children's company.

Without mother's company, children will watch TV and mobile phones by themselves. For example, my daughter often pesters me to play with her, but sometimes I am too busy to accompany her, so I let her play first. What can children do? After playing with plasticine and painting for a while, she began to stare at my mobile phone and the TV at home.

When I was glad that the child didn't bother me again, I found that she had been watching cartoons quietly for a long time. Adults be quiet, children are addicted to TV and mobile phones.

Try to find time to play games with children and take them to outdoor activities. If you take your children out for a walk and do more exercise, such as skating and swimming, I don't believe that children will still be obsessed with mobile phones and computers. In fact, in the final analysis, where children move and what they can do are all arranged by adults. Adults are too lazy to arrange children's activities, and children can only watch mobile phones. You know, in loneliness and boredom, it's hard to resist the powerful attraction of mobile phones, which adults can't do, let alone children.

Arrange your own schedule every day, do what you should do when you should, and take time out to run and play with your children. I believe the situation will improve a lot.

If the child is old and has developed the habit of playing mobile phones every day, it is necessary to set goals for the child and supervise the child in junior high school, high school and high school. If this is still the case, it will be more difficult to correct it. At this time, talk to your child more, set some small goals for your child, reach an agreement with your child, and be supervised by parents and children to achieve the goal.

In fact, children also want to be excellent, but they just don't know where to start. It is difficult for them to quit the internet, so parents and children should face it together.

One more thing, remember not to just scold and nag, it will make children rebel and break the jar.