Pick a bride price of680,000 to propose. What's so particular about the wedding bride price in your hometown?

? Pick a bride price of680,000 to propose. What's so particular about the wedding bride price in your hometown?

Wedding bride price has existed since ancient times. My hometown is an ordinary small village in Henan that is neither advanced nor backward. Bridal gifts have always existed, but when it comes to details, I feel that each family is different, and with the change of time, the bride price will also change.

Our wedding rules there are, for example, a wedding reception will be held at the woman's house on May 30th, and all relatives are relatives of the woman. Then on June 1 day, the next of kin of the woman, such as menstruation and Uncle Menstrual, will follow the bride to the man's house, which is called farewell. Before marriage, there is also a necessary procedure called "gift giving", that is, the man wants to give the woman large items such as pork, chicken, fish, tobacco and alcohol needed for the wedding reception, which can be regarded as part of the bride price. With the development of society, gift giving is out of date now, because wedding banquets are reserved in hotels now, and almost no one will hold that kind of open-air wedding banquet again.

But to give money, which is the most realistic, because the wedding banquet needs to book a hotel, and the hotel certainly only needs money. Money can be bought everywhere for alcohol and tobacco. Let me talk about the wedding of several people in my family and the exquisiteness of the wedding bride price.

When my sister-in-law gets married, she still gives traditional gifts without giving money. I remember giving it to a slaughtered pig, 20 chickens, 20 fish, cigarettes and wine. When I arrived at my eldest sister, I was a senior one in 2005. First, change towels (that is, engagement) 1 100 yuan, which means one thousandth. When I got married, the quotation should be 1 1, which means one in a million, and there are so-called "three golds": gold rings, gold necklaces and so on. However, at that time, the financial conditions of Dajiefu's family were not very good, and my sister did not ask for a bride price. When the second sister changed her handkerchief, it was 6600 yuan, which showed that she was lucky. When she got married, the bride price had risen to 37,800 yuan, which meant that the three families did it together. The "three golds" became "hardware": gold rings, gold necklaces, gold bracelets and gold earrings, but it was also because my second brother-in-law just bought a house and didn't have that much money at home, so I didn't want it.

Later, I went to college and took part in the work. I don't have much time at home I have never experienced the wedding of other close people, and I don't know how much the bride price has risen now. Anyway, one routine now is to give money, but there is nothing. And the bride price is getting higher and higher. As for the 680,000 in the title, I think it is still quite high for our small rural areas. Our highest estimate now will not exceed 65.438 billion yuan. Although most of the bride's parents will accompany her to the bride price, it is also for the sake of her daughter and son-in-law's future life security. I think the bride price still depends on the specific family conditions. I don't think most parents will ask the man for a bride price for themselves. Most parents still want their children to live well in the future. Therefore, if the man's family has better economic conditions, he can give more bride price, and if the conditions are not allowed, he can give it according to the actual situation. At the same time, the man's parents should also understand the feelings of the woman's parents, so that the marriage life can be long.