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How to judge whether a person can really understand what you say?

Understanding is a very subjective concept. There are two continuous processes. First you express it to the other party, and then the other party gives you feedback. Then you can judge whether the other party "understands". Moreover, it is very important that the "understanding" here is your own idea, not the other person's idea, and the two aspects of understanding are different.

There is a kind of "understanding" like listening to a class. Judging this is very simple, just take the exam.

There is also an understanding that "* * * love" in social situations is much more complicated. If a person really "understands" you, I think he will at least do the following: he will not make fatal behavior at the critical moment of communication with you; After you repeat it many times, he will not repeat the basic behavior, that is, allow the default behavior to occur; He knows your bottom line. In short, this kind of "understanding" is very difficult.

To sum up, "Do you understand what you said" is nothing more than stating and suggesting whether the other party understands. It doesn't matter what you say. If you really care about whether the other person understands you, you can confirm it again and again. The hands and feet of paper, pen and book can be used. Of course, if you talk like a opera singer, you can't rule out the other person's small temper. Chased you for ten blocks with a double knife. If you hint, you should think about it. How do you say this? The other party can understand and will not misunderstand. What can I say to make each other understand? I can't accept money, but you can change it into a card! Anyway, the other party will know. There will be thanks afterwards! In the end, everyone will know. Let's stop joking about this. We are all adults.