Tell me about your abused blind date experience. Is it really so difficult to find a wife now?

I once only said that I had a younger brother at home, and then the blind date was passed by the woman! Actually, I don't reject blind date. My social circle is very small, and it is difficult for people to become enthusiastic. It's hard to say that others are not attentive, so most of me are willing to try. But after several times, the biggest feeling that blind date gave me was that it was too difficult! People who meet for the first time, if they want to get acquainted, can only talk, and maybe even talk about their feelings. But everyone is still testing each other carefully, not knowing what the bottom line and boundary of the chat are, nor what the other party is interested in.

Personally, I think one of the fundamental reasons why blind date is difficult is that blind date is actually an unequal dialogue. I have always thought that I am superior, and others are unsalable products. This innate discriminatory mentality certainly hinders in-depth communication and understanding. If you see that the other person is handsome and beautiful, don't have the psychology of climbing high and taking advantage of small things. But you are thinking, why is such a good person not married and has become a unsalable product? There must be some kind of physical or psychological defect.