A wronged daughter-in-law said that after her mother-in-law became ill, she "hollowed out" our home. what do you think?

Life, sometimes, always goes on in an incredible way.

Everyone who struggles in it has his own insincerity, and in many cases, the subsequent development exceeds your expectations. So, what I once said doesn't count.

She said that because people live in this world, they should be conscientious.

When she said this, I still remember the scene when she used to spit on her mother-in-law. At that time, she had not been married long. When chatting with me, she would drag her mother-in-law there without saying a few words.

The book "The Relationship between Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law in Marriage" is also a vivid embodiment here.

She told the story of fighting with her mother-in-law. Sometimes she wins, sometimes her mother-in-law wins. When she wins, she can be happy quietly for several days. If the mother-in-law wins, she will vomit.

In fact, now that I think about it, it is nothing more than some small things, different ideas or things in life. She tried to persuade her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law tried to persuade her, but in the end, no one obeyed.

In the matter of her and her husband, her mother-in-law often has a crooked brain for her son. No matter who is right or wrong, the mother-in-law always favors her son. Even when her husband brought her a bowl of rice at dinner, her mother-in-law would be dissatisfied.

Anyway, there is a feeling that "my son who has worked so hard to raise is not here to wait on you". She said my husband didn't say anything, and I didn't know what my mother-in-law was doing there.

Besides, her mother is not like this. Her mother often tells her that two people should understand each other. If her husband goes back to her mother's house with her and there is a conflict, her mother will talk about her first.

She thought, why can't my mother-in-law be like my mother?

When she thinks like this, she is a little more dissatisfied with her mother-in-law, and sometimes she doesn't even like seeing her husband. Because in this relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband adopted the method of avoidance.

Very simple truth, one is the mother and the other is the wife, who are not to be taunted and have to hide.

Her relationship with her mother-in-law is getting more and more like this every day. It is impossible to say that she has no complaints in her heart, but it is not to the point of war.

02

After seven years of marriage, her evaluation of her mother-in-law is that although the two are not harmonious, it is undeniable that her mother-in-law has paid a lot for this family.

My mother-in-law took care of the baby when she gave birth, and she was still doing her best. She almost doesn't care about anything, just breast-feeds.

Later, when the children grow up a little, they are often taken care of by their mother-in-law. Both she and her husband have to go to work and have no extra time to take care of the children. Later, the children were almost at grandma's house during the day.

Let alone the relationship with her mother-in-law, who has always taken good care of her grandson.

Later, I accidentally got pregnant with a second child. After discussion, I was ready to give birth. My mother-in-law is taking care of everything. Of course, when taking care of them, there will still be differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Therefore, every time a child is born, she will cry for a period of time in the early stage, which is also a sensitive time in her heart. Everything will be sad.

In hindsight, it actually comes down to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

So she has been dissatisfied with her mother-in-law and has never been sincere. There was nothing wrong with living like this, and no one's life was troublesome, but everything presented new challenges.

Her mother-in-law was ill, and she said, "Now she is in the hospital for chemotherapy. I go every two weeks, about 10 thousand. "

The sudden illness of her mother-in-law directly broke all their original plans, and almost all the money they saved was spent, and they still owed a lot of foreign debts. Her mother-in-law's wife died a few years ago, and she has no money of her own. The total deposit is less than 1 ten thousand pounds.

This incident brought her a lot of pressure, and she said that she felt almost ten years older during this time.

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Comparatively speaking, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the past seems nothing.

Although there was some disagreement with her mother-in-law in the past, she also had a lot of dissatisfaction in her heart, but she said that her mother-in-law was like this, and she could not ignore it. After all, her husband is still her son.

So she quit her job and ran around the hospital every day.

She is really busy. The boss is at school. She has to pick up the children every day. The youngest son is still young and needs her care. Her mother-in-law is in hospital. She needs to deliver meals every day.

Moreover, the sick mother-in-law has a bad appetite. No matter what she does, her mother-in-law always takes two bites and can't eat any more. Her husband sometimes complains that she doesn't take good care of her mother.

She didn't argue with her husband because she knew that he was in a bad mood, and it would cost money to stay at home alone. One night, she found her husband still awake, sitting by the door smoking.

He didn't smoke in the past and has given up smoking for many years.

Mother-in-law's state is even worse. She said: "She is the kind of thrifty person, and she will never part with it. Now that she knows that she has spent so much money, she is afraid every day and says that she might as well go. "

At this time, my mother-in-law is not the one who always disagrees with her. She is just a sick old man, worried about spending more money on her children, and her heart is not practical.

And she has to cheer up to comfort her mother-in-law, let her cooperate with the treatment, and say that the money has been spent. If you don't treat it well, it's a waste.

It's just that she has a lot of grievances in her heart She said that after her mother-in-law got sick, she "hollowed out" our home. Originally, they planned to buy a car this year, but now they just think they can get through the immediate difficulties.

It's not good for her mother-in-law to forgive, but yard by yard, she still doesn't want her to go.

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Life, always full of variables, can't change anything, just try to adapt and try to get everything back to the original track.

She became very frugal, so she didn't have to spend as much money as she could. She said that in the past, she felt that no matter how hard she was, she couldn't stand children. Now she should start to be careful with children.

Some time ago, her husband found that she was feeding boiled rice porridge to her children and asked strangely, "Wife, my son is only one year old, why not feed him milk powder?"

She replied faintly, "Your mother is sick and has no money."

After a long silence, she continued to feed the children, but her husband didn't speak. They naturally know that there is no money at home at present.

She said maybe she shouldn't say that, but she just felt more comfortable after saying it. She is so wronged, both before and now, but the content is different.

But, on the other hand, she is a kind person, saying that she can't sit idly by. Even her husband has told her that she should sell the house if necessary. She didn't speak, but she didn't object.

She is still the same sentence, and her conscience will get by.

Life, sometimes, is really bittersweet and mixed. But no matter what happened yesterday or today, when the sun rises tomorrow, we still have to face it bravely.

She has to take care of the children, go to the hospital to visit her mother-in-law, and her husband has to go to work to be busy for the future of the family.

There are many kinds of people in the world. Who is easy?