Why I am not good at getting along with girls. I find it difficult to find a topic with a girl I don't know very well. The atmosphere was awkward. It is difficult to have a peaceful dialogue.

First of all, you should understand that the first characteristic that men attract women is self-confidence, but you are exactly what you want. Because I am not confident, I am afraid of making mistakes in front of girls. You are afraid that making mistakes will make girls angry and lead to Nuo Nuo's passive attitude. I don't know where to start. Emotions are contagious. If you feel embarrassed, the other person will feel embarrassed. And these things you convey in the eyes of girls are: I feel inferior and I am weak.

Secondly, let's talk about how to solve it. First of all, we are men. You didn't find your place, and you didn't sit in the right place. We men, what is a man? The master of this world, we work hard and the world revolves around us. I just like talking loudly, playing pranks and being fearless. This is the essence of men. Of course, this can't blame anyone. The education in our country makes us forget this essence.

Second, exercise yourself. Now that we know the problem, we should change it. First, try to increase the decibel in front of male friends. When you stand up straight, your chest will stand up a little, then breathe in before you speak, your voice will be much louder, and you will slow down your speech, which will make you more confident. I believe that you can only speak in front of your friends, but you have no confidence to speak. If you do as I say, you will find that your friends will look at you when you speak. This is the charm of self-confidence.

Third, do in-depth exercise, get in touch with more people and set a goal for yourself. I will meet five strangers every day for the first week, just say hello for two days, and then try to talk to strangers for the next few days. Try to meet only young strangers in the second week, and you will find that you are actually quite confident. I can't help it, it's very painful, because I broke my habit, but if I don't change it, I will only perish. Once introverted people, through this method of forcing themselves, became social experts.

If you go through all this and get in touch with girls again, you will find that this is not a trivial matter.