What will happen to children's unfilial pension in the future?

The first problem of providing for the aged is to rely on social development, and more importantly, to rely on oneself. If you are old and empty-handed, you can only say that you should not be incompetent every day, so the elderly must have their own pension to protect you.

It is not reliable to rely on children for personal pension, because children still have children, and the conditions of incompetent children are good and bad. Don't give your children the last time, but prepare for the future pension before you get old. It is impossible to get old without savings! It is better to ask yourself than to ask others. Gambling on children is often futile, and there are countless examples in the real society.

My children are no longer filial. What should I do? Be optimistic about your pension and pinch your pension money. In case of loss of self-care ability, one stays at home and the other goes to a nursing home. There is no other choice.

Retirement wages are low, and it is really a problem for children to support themselves. Children have their own families to live, but it is really difficult to take care of them. At this age, we are basically only children. Once we get sick, we can't take care of ourselves. As long as we can move, we have no choice.

The subject asked, what should be done about the problem of unfilial support for the elderly in the future?

The author thinks that when people are old, they must first have a good attitude, let everything go with the flow, do not expect too much, do not think too much, and do not blindly think that they have their own way of living. To live a good life, people don't want to move according to their own will, and everyone's life ending is still unknown. As an old man with few days, I want to talk about my own views!

First, I have my own views on the filial piety of children!

1, filial piety ranks first among all virtues. No matter how the society develops, the culture of filial piety will be passed down. However, due to the civilization and progress of society, people's living environment and living conditions have changed greatly, and the way children are filial to their parents has also changed. If we compare their children's filial piety to their parents in the past with their children's filial piety today, it is not that their children are out of date.

2, but it does not rule out that children are not filial to their parents. It should be said that most children are good and relatively good. No matter in urban or rural areas, all children have made due contributions to the problem of parents' old-age care, reducing the pressure of the country's old-age care. Think about it, today's China has entered an aging society, and hundreds of millions of elderly people look to the country. Is the current situation ok?

3. It's too early to say that you don't need children to take care of you unless you have a pension. Family ties can't be bought with money. As the saying goes, important life, important people die. Now give an example!

(1) There is an old man named Peng, who is in excellent health and has a monthly pension of 45,000 yuan. He has a bad relationship with his children, especially his eldest son, who has to live alone in his 80 s. He always said that he was rich. At the age of 90, he suddenly fell ill and his eldest son was sent to the hospital in time. Seven children took turns to be on duty in the hospital for more than three months. It is better for an old man to tell others before he dies that it is good for his children.

(2) Old people in cities have pensions, and ultimately they need the care of their children. Uncle Zhang is a civil servant and his wife is an enterprise. Although their pensions are more than enough, they are too old to do so. They can only ask their children to send the old couple to a nursing home. Children take turns to visit the elderly after work every day, and many of them will be handed over to their children.

Second, where should the elderly go?

1, as I said before, you should have a good attitude, take the initiative, don't rely on the old to buy the old, don't ask too much of your children, be measured in what you say in front of them and don't tell them everything. In the end, your child will finish the last journey for you.

2, conditional old people should leave some housekeeping books for themselves, and can't give all the housekeeping books to their children alive, which is more passive.

The old people are much happier now than in the past. With the development of economy, the country pays special attention to the elderly and cares more and more about them. The burden of life is much lighter for children than in the past, and most of them comfort and take care of their parents from the spiritual level.

You should make plans early when you are old. It's not that children are unfilial, but that in this era, consumption is high and children can't help it. On the one hand, they have to pay off the mortgage and car loan, on the other hand, they have to have children. In addition, both sides have parents, and the children are too willing to do so.

It is not reliable to rely on children to support the elderly now, and it can be said that it is basically unreliable in the future. Prepare yourself: mind, economy, health.

China people have a traditional idea, that is, to raise children to protect themselves from old age. In people's subconscious, raising children is also an investment, which will pay off in the future. For example:

I raise you small, you have to raise me old; I raised you with a handful of shit and urine, and you still ...; If I had known you were like this today, I might have strangled you and waited.

In the past, social security was not perfect, and it was normal for parents to rely on their children.

But it's different now. Parents have greater economic autonomy and are only children.

Although parents no longer expect their children to support the elderly financially, they still expect their children to be spiritually filial. So they often spend money to "please" their children, but the effect is often not ideal, which makes parents feel a little disappointed.

If you spoil your children without boundaries. Then the more money you spend for him, the more you expect in return, and the more disappointed the result will be.

Based on this, if you want to live a peaceful old age, first, you must have your own income; Second, change traditional ideas and don't expect children to be filial; Third, you should have a sense of boundary with your children, and you can't have me in you and you in me; Fourth, try to keep yourself healthy and don't give your children any trouble.

Then accept your fate! Who should I talk to about my valuable resources? No one can control it.

Some children are unfilial, and it is normal to be competitive. As long as you stand on your own feet and do your best, your children will be filial if they receive a good social education. Thank you! Happy June 1st!