How to treat parents' partiality

Parents' partiality needs to understand their parents' difficulties, but the reality does not allow it, so parents are also very embarrassed. In fact, every parent wants his parents to have a bowl of water.

1. No matter how parents claim that "the palms of their hands are all meat", quirks absolutely exist, which is human nature.

2. Some parents prefer their children to have similar personality characteristics, because children have their own shadows (biological self-identity); Even some parents prefer to take better care of their children when they are old.

3, but in any case, if there are brothers and sisters, there must be many brothers and sisters who are bullied and rushed out to protect them; Or do bad things together, protect each other and hide from their parents; Precious memories of helping each other in adult life.

4. Parents are not perfect, and brothers and sisters also have their own temperament, but kinship is still the warmth that we deserve most in the most difficult times.

Extended data:

Parents want to balance the power between their children, so they will "fill the gaps" in specific things. In doing so, their parents' hearts are impartial, but what they do is biased.

Parents think that the standard of "fairness" is different from that of children, so parents think it is flat, but children think their parents are biased.