How to cultivate children's lively and outgoing personality?

1, don't "control" the children too strictly.

Let children have different choices at different ages. For example, a 2-year-old can choose what to eat for lunch, a 3-year-old can choose what clothes to wear when shopping, a 4-year-old can choose where to play on holidays, a 5-year-old can choose what toys to buy, and a 6-year-old can choose what TV programs to watch. Only children who enjoy "democracy" from an early age will feel happy and independent.

2. Cultivate children's hobbies in at least one sport.

Sports such as ball games, track and field can be used. Physical education plays a magical role in cultivating children's extroverted personality.

3. Help your child find an extroverted partner.

Preschool children can easily become friends because they like to play the same games. If your child is introverted and shy, you can talk to the kindergarten teacher and ask the teacher to arrange other courageous children to play with him. If you have, you can also find extroverted children near the community, make friends with them and let them play together often.

4. Let children do what they can.

For example, ask for directions, go to restaurants to ask children to order food, go to convenience stores to buy things, and so on. Especially let the children answer the questions themselves. Games often ask adults questions about children, let adults answer them themselves, and don't help adults answer them.

Outgoing children should be guided correctly.

Outgoing children rarely stop to think before doing things. Generally, they do what they want to do and finish what they want to do at once to get satisfaction. As a result, their work quality is not high and they are easy to get into trouble.

Therefore, if there is an extroverted child at home, parents should remind him more, learn to think twice before acting, consider the consequences more, and pay attention to cultivating his awareness of consequences. Aware of the consequences, this behavior is like a speed bump for children, which can make them stop before they get into trouble.