Do you still want to get married like this: "You will have to marry my son with a dowry of 200,000 yuan, but no gift?"

My family is from a rural area and I went to college in this city. Therefore, after graduating from college, I found a good job in this city, so I stayed in this city to develop.

After working for a year, I met Xiaoxue at a friend’s party. She was a local and a single girl at home. She was dressed beautifully that day and had a particularly nice smile. I was right. It must have been love at first sight for her. Later, after my pursuit, we became boyfriend and girlfriend.

One time Xiaoxue took me to her home to meet her parents. After her parents learned about my situation, Xiaoxue’s family did not object. Instead, they told me that as long as I treat Xiaoxue sincerely, it would be fine. . After a long time, she and her parents gradually got to know each other. Xiaoxue's mother said: Let's rent a house for you. If you don't mind, you can move to our house, so that you can save some money. I agreed and moved in with them.

Xiaoxue’s mother is a very kind person, and she often does housework at home. And I often help Xiaoxue wash clothes, sometimes even my clothes are washed together. I am very embarrassed, so I just say, auntie, you don’t need to wash mine, I can just wash mine myself. This is too troublesome for you. She said they were all one family and there was no need to see anyone outside.

When Xiaoxue and I planned to get married, their family knew that my family was poor and they didn’t even ask for a bride price from me. They also told me that they would give Xiaoxue a dowry of 200,000 yuan. At that time, I felt that it would be a lifetime of happiness for me to marry a sensible girl like Xiaoxue.

But the night after our wedding, my mother had a conflict with Xiaoxue. According to our custom, after the bride comes in, my relatives here will give the bride a red envelope of money. This money usually belongs to the bride, but my mother felt that she had already incurred a lot of debt for my wedding, so she wanted to take it. I used all the money to pay off the debt, but my wife thought it was her money, so the two were so disrespectful and had a quarrel.

Two days later, my mother asked my wife to do housework. I didn’t want to do it. I felt that she had only been here for a few days and she was told to do the work, so she refused to do it. I had another quarrel with my mother. , she couldn't bear it and had two quarrels within two days of her arrival, so she packed her things and went back to her parents' house.