Mother-in-law is at work.

Mother-in-law makes mischief and says that she is not too fond of her in front of her mother-in-law.

The main purpose of a mother-in-law alienating her son and daughter-in-law is actually to get her son's attention, which is related to her mother-in-law's jealousy and belongs to the normal range. After all, her son, who has worked so hard to raise, suddenly listens to another woman, and her mother will feel a little uncomfortable. Then remember, in front of your mother-in-law who likes to sow discord, don't over-perform your love with your husband, because even if you don't perform love, her mother-in-law will find fault with her eggs. This is not to say that you are afraid of your mother-in-law, but that you may not provoke family conflicts. Of course, if you just want to stimulate your mother-in-law, you can also praise it. As for the result, only you bear it.

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Hold your horses and observe your mother-in-law's purpose.

When you find that your mother-in-law has started to sow discord between you and your husband, just hold your horses and see what your mother-in-law wants. Is he trying to ruin your relationship with his son, or is there another reason? Even if she wants to ruin your relationship with your husband, what is her purpose? I believe that no normal mother wants to see her children unhappy in marriage. As long as she stirs up the relationship between you two, there must be a reason behind it. Don't rush to attack or defend yourself, just look on coldly, see what her old man is going to do, and then do what he should do. Only in this way, you won't say anything unpleasant and do something irreparable when you are very angry. Besides, what do you think people will say about you if you fight or quarrel with your mother-in-law and become a daughter-in-law? Even if you are right, someone will put a hat on you that must be unfilial.

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Let your husband know the minimum truth.

I have experienced this, and the taste is really impossible to be humane with outsiders. Of course, the truth came out later, but a few days before the truth came out, that feeling was really hard. So I tell you from my experience that if your mother-in-law drives a wedge between you and your husband, you must let your husband know what the truth is, instead of leaving angrily or making a scene, and don't be silent with Dudu to the end. If you lose weight, your husband will think that you are not sensible, and when your mother-in-law is depressed, she will take the opportunity to say something worse. Think about it carefully, why should you be wronged like that for no reason? No matter who is right or wrong, put the truth in the light and let others judge right or wrong. Records are none of your business. Is it recording, or in other ways, let the husband know the truth before dealing with it.

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Look at your husband's attitude

Mother-in-law played a role in provoking between her and her husband. This matter must involve a third party, that is, the man who is both a son and a husband. There is no need to rush to defend, and there is no need to cry to express your anger and grievances. In that case, I don't think anything will be solved, and your mother-in-law will say that you are pretending to be wronged. Let your husband know the truth, and you don't have to force questions on the spot. Just turn around and leave the scene quietly. As for what your husband will do and who he will "trust", you can't change it by crying. If your husband is reasonable, he won't be ignorant of filial piety. If your husband is reasonable, he will handle this matter calmly. So, just watch her husband's attitude quietly.

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Try cold treatment for a while.

In fact, these family conflicts, especially those between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, are the most annoying. Other things can be solved immediately as long as you put your heart into them. It's just that this relationship is difficult to solve for a while. Then I suggest you don't be too nervous, let alone too concerned. Put things down first, what should you do, what should you continue to do, give your husband a period of time to think, and give your mother-in-law a period of time to sort out her own acts of sowing discord. More importantly, let you calmly think about the cause of this matter and how to deal with it. Sometimes it is. If many trivial contradictions are not handled properly when they are angry, it is likely that their emotions will become more intense, so it will be more difficult to solve them. Let's put it aside for a while.

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Forcing your husband to make a choice is enough.

This is the answer that too many women want to know, just like the question of who you saved first when your mother and I jumped into the river. No one can answer this question, they are all close relatives. Who is right to throw it away? Not long ago, I read a news that when the flood came, my husband abandoned his wife and children without thinking and went to save his mother. As a result, his wife left sadly with the children. You say, what if mom doesn't save the flood? What if something happens to mom, wife and children? So you never have to ask your man such a question. Mother-in-law sow dissension, of course, the wife has been wronged, and she will be hopeful that her husband will stand on her side and * * * crusade against her mother-in-law's "evil disease". But that's her own mother. What do you want her to do? So you don't have to force your husband to make a choice or anything. Honestly, let's see how your husband is. If you are impatient, maybe your husband will take it out on you. Is it impossible?